| Jul 25, 2006 @ 1:34 AM |
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LatinButterfly
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There is a "new" member who now calls himself westend who wrote me last night and I immediately felt something was off. He had no pic but gave me a Yahoo addy for me to write and said he'd send a pic. I replied that I have a strict policy against giving my address just to receive a pic as anyone can post them at Yahoo Photos (or Photo Buckett, etc.) and then provide a link for viewing. Besides, there's already someone else in "the horizon".
After I signed off I just had a feeling this could be the same man that over the years has written me 3 times, 2 here under different nicknames and different "story" and once at "Tickle" and who I had to block. So I signed on again to see if he was a "new" user. Sure enough, had just registered that very day.
Today I saw him among my winks but I recognized the photo as one of a rather goodlooking 44yo, supposedly from Texas, who last week sent me what sounded like a corny form message and to whom I wrote a polite rejection message. I went back to my Inbox and noticed that account has been cancelled (the nickname was lookingforluv708). I wonder if he figured maybe I'll fall for it now that he has a pic? My memory may not be as good as it used to be but come one! People, I'm being stalked  . I'm going to write the mods to let them know about this because I think this is either a scammer or a serious psycho.
So if any of you hears from him IGNORE HIM, he's as fake as a 3 dollar bill!
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 1:57 AM |
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sweet5red
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hes a nother scammer.. i have gotten mail from him on mingles too.. he uses many names and many fake pics.. once he wrote me under 3 diff names .. i knew the fake pic i just hit delete.. Sweet N Louisiana
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 2:05 AM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,279
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That's why MD now puts their "signature" on uploaded photos...so they can't be used elsewhere without being traced.
And he would have gone in my trash bin...idiot can't spell or type coherently 
Sounds like a real creep, frankly...I can't believe some of these people who make a hobby out of yanking chains all over the net   
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| Jul 25, 2006 @ 2:06 AM |
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LatinButterfly
Posts: 687
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Hitting delete is not enough. I reported him already.
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| Jul 26, 2006 @ 12:28 AM |
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Dovestreasure
Posts: 3,419
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Thank you for the Heads up , he wrote to me too. Im wondering how consistent the administrators are at taking care of matters like this. I reported someone recently and he is still here.
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| Jul 26, 2006 @ 5:04 AM |
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wlvmark2003
Posts: 213
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he wrote to me too.we are having coffee at starbucks this weekend.
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| Jul 26, 2006 @ 3:36 PM |
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T_i_m
Posts: 809
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That's why MD now puts their "signature" on uploaded photos...so they can't be used elsewhere without being traced
I see what you're talking about. There is something embedded in the code of the photos on here called ImageGlue. A simple Print Screen and crop gets right around that though.
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| Jul 26, 2006 @ 3:47 PM |
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SunBabe
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I see what you're talking about. There is something embedded in the code of the photos on here called ImageGlue. A simple Print Screen and crop gets right around that though.
~shhhh~ I knew that 
(I figure by the time a multi-site-fake crops and recrops, his picture's going to be 2mmx2mm...and eventually diasappear  )
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| Jul 26, 2006 @ 6:19 PM |
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teelynn
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This guy has also been on yahoo personals, and match.com
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| Jul 26, 2006 @ 6:20 PM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,279
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Maybe he's doing a "marketing analysis" for his company.
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| Jul 29, 2006 @ 10:17 AM |
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JMW32792
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he has 2 profiles on here so far perfect_love is the other
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| Jul 29, 2006 @ 5:38 PM |
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Dainty
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Hi,
First........We should distinquish.......Internet (Just a simulation of real relationship but "Very Close and has its dangers)
Also Real ( Another danger if he is the wrong guy)
As we know.. Marriage, engagement are valid by both sides, man and woman being able to "exchange rings to each other." The ritual is worldwide and everywhere.
It mean Relaitonship has to be "Mutual", "Instant", "Flesh to flesh."
Web cam, telelphone can make transcations but can't replace relationship. They can replace after "mutual", "Instant", "flesh to flesh" happened but "NOT Before."
If it goes to real ..like ."mutual", "intant" and "flesh to flesh"
We also have to think about whether he takes care of your heart, passion or future.
If he does. Then that's the right person.
"Taking care of heart, passions and future" was told by a very nice, smart, handsome, blue eye Ph.D member here. I think he said the real life dating in a very perfect way.
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| Jul 31, 2006 @ 2:22 AM |
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dark_moon
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This sort of thing is why I refuse to corespond with men who don't have a photo on their profile. Could be anyone, including my 3rd ex husband who tried to kill me.
And here's a piece of advice ladies, for weeding out the ones just looking for a sex hook-up. I keep a profile on adult matchdoctor (no photo of course) so that if I start talking to a man here I can check and see if he has one there, looking for sex.
Now before anyone says 'well maybe the guys are just doing the same as you'...I'm talking - they have a profile here saying they are looking for dating or long term and making themselves out to be mr whatacatch......AND they have a profile on adultMD, photo and all, complete with description of what kind of casual sex partner they are looking for. Sometimes they will even use the same ID for both sites.
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| Jul 31, 2006 @ 2:49 AM |
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SunBabe
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 Used that "technique" comparing profiles of a couple 'locals' with Yahoo and AdultFriendFinder..ewwww, wash my eyes out with Comet!!!  And now I get nervous I'll recognize them at Safeway (even with their clothes on) ~ugh~
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| Jul 31, 2006 @ 2:54 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9
Posts: 10,955
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what about tman2007?
42 years old, has a picture posted of himself that looks like ziggy marley?
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| Jul 31, 2006 @ 12:11 PM |
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T_i_m
Posts: 809
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I would say that the guy in tman2007's profile could very well be 42 and a genuine photo of himself.
[Edited on 7/31/2006 2:36 PM]
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| Jul 31, 2006 @ 12:22 PM |
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T_i_m
Posts: 809
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And now I get nervous I'll recognize them at Safeway (even with their clothes on) ~ugh~
I once saw a woman I found on Yahoo walk into a Kroger. She was with some guy at the time. I'm sure it was her as she is rather unique looking (cute, slim, but a little, shall I say, unusual). I love her still.
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| Jul 31, 2006 @ 1:22 PM |
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lilbikerchick
Posts: 213
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How bout checking out topolino. His pics look like 2, maybe 3 different people.
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| Jul 31, 2006 @ 2:33 PM |
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T_i_m
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I would say that topolino is the same guy in all of his photos.
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| Jul 31, 2006 @ 2:43 PM |
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SunBabe
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And for a sec, I thought that a couple of pics looked like my son!
(I really like the "photo caption" option...helps clairify dates, etc)
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