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Bojangles102


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Everyone knows where Dodge is..it's on the map....Don't be so quick to be defensive.
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 1:47 PM |
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Bojangles102


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Everyone knows where Dodge is..it's on the map....Don't be so quick to be defensive.
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 2:01 PM |
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UpbeatGalinSC

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I don't feel I "deserve" anything just because I was born a woman and neither should a man feel he "deserves" anything. In a relationship we must give respect to receive it. Of course we all want the best, but simply stating that you want the best does not assure you will receive it. You must give to receive the best. Demanding will get you nothing. I think very highly of myself but I also don't mind being submissive to my mate, as long as it works both ways. In a relationship with mutual feelings one doesn't keep a book as to how many times one or the other was submissive,,it's just a wonderful ebb and flow of the relationship that makes it so fabulous for both parties involved. Just to pamper and adore the one you love with complete devotion will get you the best!!
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 2:04 PM |
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zulamaze

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You are so right Upbeat!
And everyone does deserve the best.
Why be like --- oh I can't see you -- I deserve so much less.. How stupid...
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 2:06 PM |
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NeverB4Alone

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Zula ....... I ACCEPT ......
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 2:51 PM |
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sissycat411

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Upbeat....this deserves repeating... In a relationship with mutual feelings one doesn't keep a book as to how many times one or the other was submissive,,it's just a wonderful ebb and flow of the relationship that makes it so fabulous for both parties involved. Just to pamper and adore the one you love with complete devotion will get you the best!! You stated it so well.....and its so true in a good relationship..and I think we all seek just that.....
Oh and Bo.....you dang tooty.....I know where DODGE IS I live here.....so yes I took your comment personal.......maybe you can find a different comparison......say...get out of the tub....and dry your self off.....you could be all WET YOU KNOW.......
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 2:53 PM |
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sissycat411

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SOMETHING FOR THOUGHT......
Love is not about just finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end and love is not a journey, but a destination,.. it takes two to walk it
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 2:57 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower

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Folks...(OMG, I'm defending Bo... )
Get out of Dodge (or get the hell out of Dodge) has been a catch phrase for so long I don't remember when I first heard it...we computer geeks (the old ones anyway) actually name exit routines GOOD occasionally (for Get Out Of Dodge)...it's not even close to being personal!!
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 3:00 PM |
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MotownManiax

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"Get Out Of Dodge"
All this time I thought that it was a Ford advertising slogan slamming Dodge trucks?
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 3:09 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower

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All this time I thought that it was a Ford advertising slogan slamming Dodge trucks Must be your Motown orientation!!
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 3:10 PM |
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sissycat411

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God I love ALL (most) OF YOU FOLKS...........YOU PUT SMILES ON MY FACE.....
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 6:51 PM |
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jamminjerry

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upbeatgal brought up a point i have ignored. as we have grown up we have learned to do and accept life as our family and peers have shown us. just because i know what the word communism means does not mean everyone has actually went and looked up the definition. i was supprised when i saw the definition of communism. i said NO! thats not the way Russia is, thats not the way Cuba is. and then the definition of fascism! bingo, now thats Russia, thats China, N korea and Cuba. so why do so many people keep saying they are communist? anyway, we are rasied a certain way, catholics are different from Mormons, Assembly of God are different from Southern Baptists, but do not each of them claim to be christian? until we actually understand what we are talking about we are no better than the rednecks, the aryan nation, the neonazis, or any group that thinks because some power monger says they are the best they get to claim they are the best. to use a word the holy rollers have adulterated, until the "WORD" enters your mind and spirit, you are no better than those you look down at, actually you could be less, just maybe they have read the "WORD".
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 6:51 PM |
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IndigoRose

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Yes I do want sex,money ,attention any order will work!
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 6:52 PM |
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jamminjerry

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just to see you smile, i am willing to start in that order
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 7:35 PM |
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SunBabe

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I'm really confused...(yah, like it's thi first time )
Just give me a sweet little plump frump who appreciates me for me and one who will kick my butt when it's necessary
When you dominate you want to 'get' that S.O.B. before he gets you...As I said before , 'when you demand (dominate) you get minimal....it's better to sweetly evoke from someone what you want from them and to make them feel compelled to please you.
Personally, when a woman demands or dominates me it makes 'willy' shrink up and want to find another place to play. Huh, which is it, Bo? "Kick in the butt"...doesn't that imply a streak of exhibited "dominance"?
it's better to sweetly evoke from someone what you want from them and to make them feel compelled to please you. Aha!!!! You prefer the "wheedling type" Gotcha. It's about making them feel compelled. ~grin~ might be easier than you think to compel them to kick you in the butt
OK, got a question that might help us all understand where you're coming from (not being nosey, just trying to understand the mindset that we ladies seem to have a problem with) -- have you ever been in a successful long-term relationship?
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 8:20 PM |
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sissycat411

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Sun.....I'm with you....lets see the stats....they might be very revealing....As I recall...Bo shared one time....his last divorce was sometime near his early 60's...I'm also curious as to his age and his wives ages....at time of marriage....and the length of the marriages......care to enlighten us Bo.?
Not being nosey....this is strictly for scientific evaluation only....
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 9:19 PM |
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SunBabe

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Just for comparison, I had a pretty "stable" 32 year marriage, a couple "possible, but no cigar" relationships afterward and one absolutely ideal one (that beat most of the odds, being a "soulmate" thingy, but was cut short by death)...
I was just curious as to what worked and what didn't...for him. (Just wondering if there's a "why" behind some underlying bitterness...something that I've recognized in not only poor ol' Bo)
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 9:23 PM |
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jamminjerry

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but, just maybe jammin as well? sorry, just assuming along with the rest.
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 9:26 PM |
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jamminjerry

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i do so enjoy words, and their power. but, the "WORD" is more powerful than any word a simian may speak or write. selah
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| Aug 1, 2006 @ 9:29 PM |
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Bojangles102


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Sun,
I"m not going to submit myself to your public pseudo psycho analysis of me and to allow you to rip me up publicly by twisting any thing that I would say into a negative. If you were a true friend or a professional who had my best interests at their concern I'd open myself to such...However, it seems that my best interests are not any part of your agenda. Have fun at someone else's expense.
Yes..I'm defensive.
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