| Aug 6, 2006 @ 8:36 PM |
"Ever had this experience when you were 18-19 "question for men mostly"
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Noble_Saxon
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I never come back and respond to my post, since I normally forget about it. But see I have a problem situation and I am looking for people who probably felt the same way when they were younger too but this applies to "men" mostly. All right when you were 18-19 did you ever feel like older men were taking all the young girls that were 18-19 years old ? And if you did how did you feel about it ?
As for me I've tried all kinds of different types of datings and all of it seems the same thing. Its the same old stuff over and over. 19 year old girl seeking 45-60 year old man and what not. This normally seems like an issue when it comes to Asian or foreign women only anyway not even sure about in America though.
All I know is today young girls seem more interested in older men then younger men and if you plan on responding with a sterotype answer such as "older is more mature" you can stuff it down your throat because I refuse to believe that.
I don't really interract in the forums and I've seen similar post like this one before. Its just a problem for me I suppose. Middle aged men don't have to really worry that much about being single for a long time since younger girls are taking notice of them especially if you travel allot and happen to run into someone..then again she might just like you because your financially secure or some crazy stuff like that.
If you want to you can send me an email instead because I dont to much come back to the forums anyway. But you can still reply.
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| Aug 6, 2006 @ 8:41 PM |
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spongebob777
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When I was 29 I had a 19 year old girlfriend. However when I was 18 or 19 I didn't really feel that older men were getting all the hotties. I knew somebody was, it just wasn't me,
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| Aug 6, 2006 @ 8:45 PM |
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Jankia
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At that I age I cannot remember any of the ladies going for older men.Older meaning more than 4 years.
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| Aug 6, 2006 @ 8:46 PM |
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jeanc200358
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if a 19 y/o girl is seeking a 45- 60-y/o man chances are she's not after his body.
Can anyone say "sugar daddy?" I knew ya could.
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| Aug 6, 2006 @ 9:21 PM |
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dowens
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REALLY????.......Damn, I'm now 45....where the heck are all those hot 19 yr. olds you speak of??....... 
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| Aug 6, 2006 @ 9:34 PM |
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robodad
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So that's why all those 20 yr old Russian girls are e-mailing me! 
[Edited on 8/6/2006 9:50 PM]
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| Aug 6, 2006 @ 9:49 PM |
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jeanc200358
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When I was that age, I remember liking somewhat older men. Like maybe in their 30s. Over 40 was absolutely ancient to me at that time, though. Hmm..isn't that odd? Now suddenly 40 seems like a pup, almost. Ah, well...
But I liked older guys more than the ones my own age because they were more courteous and respectful in general and were MUCH better lovers than the young guys were.
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| Aug 6, 2006 @ 10:22 PM |
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Ron9
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Nope - I got my share of the cuties when I was that age. There were a few of the gals that were picked off by guys 4-5 years older but that left PLENTY for me to choose from.
Whoops - wait I forgot I always picked from the ones a couple of years younger than me. So I was ............. one of those guys myself.
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| Aug 6, 2006 @ 10:30 PM |
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Bojangles102
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When I was 43 I had a 19 year old that wanted to marry me...I declined...I told her "just when you're going to really 'itch', I'll be forgetting where to scratch".
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| Aug 6, 2006 @ 10:34 PM |
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dowens
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Nope - I got my share of the cuties when I was that age Whoops - wait I forgot I always picked from the ones a couple of years younger than me.
HMmmmmm......Ron when you were 18 you were dating girls 4 years younger?????????.........
J/K buddy!!!!
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| Aug 6, 2006 @ 11:29 PM |
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Ron9
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You musta missed this part
"I always picked from the ones a couple of years younger than me"
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| Aug 6, 2006 @ 11:53 PM |
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RareQuestor
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It is due primarily to a simple physiological fact: The female body matures earlier than the male body. Ergo, young women are attracted to older men who are already physically mature. One should also never forget that the mature man is more likely to have the resources to care for children.
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| Aug 6, 2006 @ 11:55 PM |
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jeanc200358
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What era are you living in, anyway? Women are not looking to men for financial support for themselves and their children nowadays ...well, some may be, but, generally speaking, most women are either financially self-sufficient or they are significant contributors to the household income. That mode of thinking went out with the '60s. LOL.
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| Aug 7, 2006 @ 12:03 AM |
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RareQuestor
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What era are you living in, anyway? Women are not looking to men for financial support for themselves and their children nowadays ...well, some may be, but, generally speaking, most women are either financially self-sufficient or they are significant contributors to the household income. That mode of thinking went out with the '60s. LOL.
Siiiigggghhh. 
Here we go agan.
Jean, there is a thread in the Sex Talk forum titled "Why Don't Women Act on Their Impulse More." Please read it. That will answer your question.
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| Aug 7, 2006 @ 12:06 AM |
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jeanc200358
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Oh, goody! We're going on a trip? Where we going?
(Ok, I'll read it...be back later).
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| Aug 7, 2006 @ 12:41 AM |
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duwant1
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Women are not looking to men for financial support for themselves and their children nowadays ...well, some may be, but, generally speaking, most women are either financially self-sufficient or they are significant contributors to the household income.
Okay, who here would sign a prenuptial agreement stating: You have no legal rights to any of his income, or assets obtained prior to your marriage together?
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| Aug 7, 2006 @ 12:58 AM |
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dowens
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hEY DUWANT......IT WASN'T THE MONEY i REGRET LOSING IN MY DIVORCE.......IT WAS LOSING MY THREE DAUGHTERS AND MY TWO TESTICLES THAT MY EX GOT CUSTODY OF THAT REALLY UPSET ME!.....
OOPS........sorry....my caps was locked and I'm tooooooo lazy to go back and change my entire post!
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| Aug 7, 2006 @ 1:19 AM |
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nah12
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hmmmmmm less see here......walked out pregnant, empty handy, left him all the money, business and 3 story home we equally acquired and worked for in the business and got stuck eventually paying off all the bills for them and raised a son without a penny of support.....YEP i still came out ahead....  .... so see guys it works 2 ways.....
as for dating/marring older or younger nope not interested in a large gap for really both have the same reasons .......
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| Aug 7, 2006 @ 2:20 AM |
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crowne
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I never felt that way because I was always dating older women. Not middle-aged but at age 18, I was with girls in their mid-20s. Being in a band helped. yuk yuk!
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| Aug 7, 2006 @ 8:25 AM |
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kinglouis2005
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All I know is today young girls seem more interested in older men then younger men and if you plan on responding with a sterotype answer such as "older is more mature" you can stuff it down your throat because I refuse to believe that.
OK lets break it down like this.
We have some fairly simple biological urges, of course being free thinking humans we can choose to act on them or avoid them. So all that being said, in the past when a woman looked for a mate it was generally someone fit and that had the capabllity to take care of them while they were pregnant. Back in the day there were very few jobs that would "preserve" a womans job while she was out for maternity. And even before that when Grunt the caveman was around a younger, inexperienced caveman would not do as well as a stronger more experineced cave man when it came time to put food on the boulder. Of course in cave man years 18 may have been prime time!
So we have thousands of years of evolution and biology to contend with. Ok so here you go 20-30 year old men are generally physically mature and financially stable or more stable thatn an 18 yr old anyway.
Incidentally it seems that more mature ladies late 30's early 40's actually have a THING for younger guys...Look around you will see it all the time. I know when I was in my mid 20's 30-40 yr old women were a main part of my "diet" for lack of a better term.
So for now skip the 18yr olds and go for the MILF's, when you turn 24-25 then go back to the 18yr olds...
But I warn ya, after getting with a few MILF's you prolly wont want to mess with the younguns again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Just my 2 cents!
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