| Aug 16, 2006 @ 7:05 PM |
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Ladyhawk920
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My last date started out nice but ended up leaving me feeling like I wanted to run the other way. I consider myself to be very hardworking, responsible....warm, charming but definitely not stupid person. I have nothing to prove to anyone but myself and as I listened to this man telling me how many women he had, it was quite obvious his disrespect. What was he thinking??? We met briefly to break the ice before our real date that we never made it to. I guess after meeting me he realized I wasn't going to "Put out" so he cancelled.
I'm lucky because I sure wouldn't want to date a man who is all talk. They will talk about you too. I'm actually thankful we never made it to another date. I don't like anyone talking trash because it makes them look real "Cheap".
So anyone else have interesting last dates??????
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| Aug 16, 2006 @ 7:39 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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 My Last Date turned into another and another...so I guess its not a last date.. 
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| Aug 16, 2006 @ 8:13 PM |
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LatinButterfly
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I can't call my last one a real date because I was at the guy's family's house (there were several other people there...). Everything seemed OK when we parted and he said "I'll call you tonight" and I didn't hear from him again. He'd mentioned in the beginning that if we didn't "click" we'd be friend and even that last time we talked about friendship yet he's treated me like we'd never even met. 
I would have appreciated one last brief call asking if I'd made it home OK, by the tone of his voice I probably would've known his level of indifference and know what to expect from that point on. But I suppose he couldn't even work up the courage to be civil! I know this is no loss to me as from day one I didn't think we had enough in common but we met at his insistence and he made the idea of at least making a new friend appealing. Then men wonder why we won't take their word as "gospel", sheesh!
Lady, I almost forgot to say I'm sorry you too encountered one of "those men"! 
[Edited on 8/16/2006 8:39 PM]
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| Aug 16, 2006 @ 9:02 PM |
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definitelydi
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 What's a date?
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| Aug 16, 2006 @ 9:08 PM |
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razzired
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Last Saturday, breakfast at the Pancake Pantry, in Nashville.
Good food, good coffee, good company. Can't ask for much more.
MJ
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| Aug 16, 2006 @ 10:16 PM |
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Ladyhawk920
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Oh Latin...I'm sorry and trust me...I have no regrets and I'm sure "Ditto" for him.
No, I'm not bitter at all for rejection....just a certain class that I expect from a real "Gentleman". I'm sure many men go thru the same thing on a different level and I know they are out there......somewhere.
Hey, it may not be "fireworks" the first time meeting someone but if you have a certain connection and good communication could make a "spark" into the biggest fireworks display ever!!
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| Aug 19, 2006 @ 2:03 AM |
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redhairNfreckles
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I had been dating an older man (12 yrs) that I met here on MD. We were dating about 3 months and everything was going alright. Then he started with the little hints....you know the "M" word. I started looking for the back door and planning my exit. Our last date was about 4 weeks ago, watching a sunset on St. Pete Beach. What perfect timing, setting sun, setting relationship. I explained my thoughts about remarriage and how I am not ready for it at this stage of my life. Not to mention I was about as far from being in love with him as that sun we were watching (I didn't tell him that part). We parted on good terms.
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| Aug 19, 2006 @ 2:17 AM |
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Palomino
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My last date was almost two years ago. Wow.....what in the heck have I been doing all this time? 
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| Aug 19, 2006 @ 2:28 AM |
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DoorWatcher
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Palo:
Why in the world has it been so long? Picky? Scared? Both like me?
My last date was good and awful all wrapped into one. Haven't got over it.... one of these days I will....and I'll have another date! Wow. what an original idea!!! 
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| Aug 19, 2006 @ 2:33 AM |
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redhairNfreckles
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My last date was almost two years ago. Wow.....what in the heck have I been doing all this time? You're just being careful.....just like all of the rest of us that has any brains. 
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| Aug 19, 2006 @ 2:48 AM |
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DoorWatcher
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Hey Red....didn't recognize your picture! 
Come home soon to NC. 
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| Aug 19, 2006 @ 2:51 AM |
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LatinButterfly
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No, I'm not bitter at all for rejection....just a certain class that I expect from a real "Gentleman". Exactly!
By a "quirk of fate" yesterday I got to see the man I referred to and he told me it was because he likes to work a lot and I told him I didn't want a man who worked too much. Well, that still didn't justify his not calling and I'm sure that's the "edited" version, BUT I'm fine with that, being with him would have required for me to settle and that's something I don't want to do ever again. At least talking about it and parting in a friendly manner this time brought the closure I needed!
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| Aug 19, 2006 @ 2:53 AM |
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redhairNfreckles
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Hi Door Ya, my daughter snapped that one day when we were on Clearwater Beach......I hate cameras!
Yep, I'm planning on coming up to NC for a week or so for Labor Day. I miss NC so much.....I'll be glad when probate is done here so that I can make some serious decisions about staying here or going back home. Right now, I have to stay here for at least 6 months out a year to qualify for Homestead Exemption, otherwise the property taxes would kill me.....lol.
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| Aug 19, 2006 @ 3:48 AM |
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Palomino
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DW and Red....I guess it's because I'm picky, scared and careful all in one. Also, I have been pretty happy with my life as it is, and I like my own company. I'm pretty set in my ways now. I don't actively seek a date and I'm sure I put those vibes out. But....lately I'm finding it very hard to sleep at night. It sure would be nice to have someone's arms to fall asleep in, instead of falling asleep with my face in a book. :)
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| Aug 19, 2006 @ 3:57 AM |
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ruready4me2luvu
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Stop that lyin' gal. You had a date tonight with THE CAPTAIN  and I bet he made you feel so warm and tingly inside lmao, and he didn't talk back. 
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| Aug 19, 2006 @ 4:00 AM |
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Palomino
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LOL.....actually it was Buttershots. But the Captain IS a friend of mine. I was talkin back to myself! 
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| Aug 19, 2006 @ 4:08 AM |
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ruready4me2luvu
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Just dont slap yourself for that backtalk
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| Aug 19, 2006 @ 4:24 AM |
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Palomino
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Too late!!
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| Aug 19, 2006 @ 5:09 AM |
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jookygurl
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on my last date.. I skooled him on the dance floor.. i think his head is still dizzy.. had fun though...
latin -- sorry to hear that girl! just don't let it get you down.
ladyhawk -- didn't he show possible signs of this when you chatted online? If I might be painfully blunt (don't bash me for being a dork and putting my 2 cents where it doesnt belong) but without knowing anything.. it almost sounded like you went out with a guy you might have already been settling for. Obvious things possibly in his profile or something that you may have already had a hint about. Especially since you did a pre date meetup... Just from the few words you've spoken here.. you seem rather elegant, poised and definitely respectful and charming. With a dash of defining (i can't think of a word right now.. but meaning - you know what you want, your presence commands respects you can see it in your eyes) so why settle? of course maybe i'm wrong in which case ignore this
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| Aug 19, 2006 @ 6:50 AM |
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UnconventionalCreativity
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What's a date?
Amen to that.
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