| Sep 3, 2006 @ 10:02 PM |
Ladies: Is our search for Mr perfect, leaving us single and alone.
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irisheagle
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And you are here... why??? Oh, I remember! To ask these "hypothetical" questions about messed up relationships you're NOT in!!!
Actaully, i can honestly say,
I'm Not in any relationship
at the moment. 
Things just don't always go
has we plan for them to.
mine have this bad habit of,
BACKFIRING.....  
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| Sep 4, 2006 @ 12:09 AM |
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Earl47
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Hello Irish, maybe relationships haven't backfired on you at all, i look at it this way, the ford 302 is a good engine, and so is chevrolets 283, but it would backfire if you tried to use the C4 from the 302 on the chevy 283, inotherwords, there's a million women out there just waiting to meet a man like you.
As far as the person that said that to you above, i do not feel right now she is matchable with anyone, until she is a little nicer, and not on the defense.....Earl
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| Sep 4, 2006 @ 12:23 AM |
Ladies: Is our search for Mr perfect, leaving us single and alone.
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irisheagle
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As far as the person that said that to you above, i do not feel right now she is matchable with anyone, until she is a little nicer, and not on the defense
No Offense Earl, But Latin Is a sweet lady and
has a very good sense of humor. She was only
playing with me as i always seem to be doing
as she stated. i know she has a match out there
but not me cause i Doubt very seriously
i could Keep Up With her. 
She seems to be quite in shape And cares for herself
too. Right latin? 
may i suggest Earl yuo not take everything so to
heart in here. there is time to be serious and a time
to Play and right NOW, It's play Time...    
a Million you say, dang It man, Let me have There names
i'll be Knockin on there Doors Right quick.
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| Sep 4, 2006 @ 12:57 AM |
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Earl47
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Not Offended at all Irish, people have the right choose who they admire, about those million women??? HMMM, well let's start out getting a phone book for every town and city in America;
Here is something very funny!!! But this guy actually found him a good wife!! His wife left him back around 1986, and he drove this old beat up Dodge pickup, that rascal put a sign in the back window that said "WIFE WANTED+ had his phone number under that!!! He was married in a month, LOL!!!!.....Earl
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| Sep 4, 2006 @ 2:02 AM |
Ladies: Is our search for Mr perfect, leaving us single and alone.
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LatinButterfly
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Thanks Irish, I really was joking with you but I'm amazed at how others jump to their own conclusions... That only confirms my earlier point of some thinking before they type, this right here is a judgement too, There is a difference between posting an opinion and passing judgement on someone. Your statement wasn't nice. Or true. we all do it but I suppose it's OK for some but not for me... interesting...!
Earl
You know Earl, it really makes me sad you have misused our friendship. Apparently I cannot disagree with you here, just as I could with anyone else, without you turning on me. I've disagreed with you privately and you seemed to take it fine so I honestly fail to understand what the difference could be... Maybe you were only "humoring" me so I would think you're "so nice"? Or is it that you wish to maintain a certain "image" in here? Whatever it is, I do hate to say I feel some regret for having giving you the benefit of the doubt. A silly forum disagreement and your misinterpretation of my post to irisheagle should not be a reason for a "friend" to be that way... but another lesson for me to learn!
Since your eyes are not the only ones reading this I feel the need to remind you that if I ended up on your "friends" list it was as an act of solidarity prompted by a couple of threads about you, which I'm sure many here remember only too well... So when you spoke of extroverts I know you were referring to yourself, only you are not the best example as I still stand behind my belief that you NEED people and perhaps you simply can't handle that not everyone needs you.
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| Sep 4, 2006 @ 6:16 AM |
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Earl47
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You will do great!!! Woman like yourself raquel always end up with someone that is for them, and you can have that and will, but haste makes waste. Let things through a social circle of activities and meeting people, happen! Then you will see many look your way Raquel and that special he, is there, you will have him, have hope, trust and happiness also attracts happiness.... with care, from Earl
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| Sep 4, 2006 @ 6:30 AM |
Ladies: Is our search for Mr perfect, leaving us single and alone.
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LatinButterfly
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Earl,
Your comments came too late, the damage is done...
For anyone else who cares to see "another" opinion about extroverts "needing" people, here it is:
http://www.directory-news.com/news/introvert-or-extrovert-does-it-matter-in-a-marriage.html
And Wikipedia here:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Extrovert
It doesn't say "need" but on the six line says: Extroverts tend to be energetic when surrounded by people and depressive when not. Looks to me like a NEED. 
But what do I know? I'm "ONLY" A WOMAN!
[Edited on 9/4/2006 7:11 AM]
[Edited on 9/4/2006 7:11 AM]
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| Sep 4, 2006 @ 9:21 AM |
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Loreli
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This has gotten way  ! Bringing personal grudges?, I guess, as I don't know where it's coming from has no place in public, people. Grow up, and quit picking on people for gosh sakes! Send a pm.
Back on topic, everyone has the absolute right to set their bar wherever they want it for a partner. But the more requirements we have, the fewer people the people that will fit into them. And that's ok. It just might take a lot longer.
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| Sep 4, 2006 @ 10:42 AM |
Ladies: Is our search for Mr perfect, leaving us single and alone.
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sissycat411
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Loreli.............  well stated
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| Sep 5, 2006 @ 6:46 PM |
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lovesoftlips
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The topic would be a good topic if more ladies were answering instead of men..
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| Sep 6, 2006 @ 6:21 AM |
Ladies: Is our search for Mr perfect, leaving us single and alone.
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luvshorses644
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I agree with the statement Loreli made: everyone has the absolute right to set their bar wherever they want it for a partner. But the more requirements we have, the fewer people the people that will fit into them. And that's ok. It just might take a lot longer.
But some of the qualities that we are hoping for which may be lacking in our potential partners, and I am just going to use this one from softlips list: multilingual, can be obtained with the help of classes together so that we both will know the languages we choose to teach our children; or if we are hoping for someone with the same interests we have, we can always introduce our partner to the interests with the intention of, perhaps, hoping they also find a spark that will open them to something new and enjoy it with us. I guess what I am saying is: if most of the essential criteria: i.e. qualities that cannot be taught or shared (trust, honesty, caring, tenderness, a will to work at a relationship and provide for a family, are already possessed by our future partner than we might just be missing an opportunity to grow together.. to learn together... to share.
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| Sep 6, 2006 @ 10:25 AM |
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horselady9
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Hey, C!
Agreed - and I suspect some people have unrealistic 'make or break' criteria. But you do have to know yourself, and recognize the difference between what is a window of opportunity vs a solid wall of impossibility.
As an example: consider religious beliefs. There's a huge difference between two people holding widely differing beliefs (or non-beliefs, for that matter), respecting their differences and using them as the basis for exploration and discussion, and one (or both) deciding that their way is the ONLY way and that their role in life is to convert the other person to their belief system. I have any number of acquaintences who seem to have decided that I need 'saving', since I'm a non-believer. But I can walk away from those efforts when I've reached the limits of my politeness. I can't imagine entering into a more profound relationship knowing that my partner cannot respect my beliefs and feels that it is his 'god given' responsibility to retrieve my soul.
And on a lighter note - since it's a given that my horses are my children, the instant exit line in that department is 'you need to sell your horses'. Nope, not happening!
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| Sep 9, 2006 @ 5:11 PM |
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wawasweetie
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I'm not looking for Mr.Perfect,just someone who desires to be in a meaningful relationship like me. Is that too much to ask?? Is there such a thing anymore???
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| Sep 10, 2006 @ 7:36 PM |
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lovesoftlips
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It does seem like something much to ask from some men... unfortunely..
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| Sep 10, 2006 @ 7:50 PM |
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ThangelM8
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There is no "Mr. Perfect". If we ladies, are looking for someone that is perfect, then we will always be alone. I am by no means perfect, and I don't subscribe to the train of thought that anyone else is. If it is meant to be..........the "Right One" will come along, and that person will accept us as well as; us accepting them as they are.(JMO)
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