| Oct 15, 2006 @ 11:27 AM |
For the women: Would you date a fat guy?
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ToucherinSparks
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I see lots of women advertise themselves as BBW, meaning fat, and there are guys who chase them and only want to date fat women. Is it the same for women? Do you find fat guys attractive? Why or why not?
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 11:36 AM |
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Bambooo
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I had a crush on a "big" man once. Had nothing to do with the size of his body and all to do with the size of his heart. It never evolved into anything due to circumstances and he's happily married to someone else today.
But no, it's not something I chase after but if everything else is there, extra pounds is not something that I see as a problem. I'm no toothpick myself.
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 11:37 AM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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I`d date a guy who had a little meat on his bones...if i were dating...I do dislike the term Fat... 
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 11:38 AM |
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luvmycats
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The only slender man I have ever been with was my late husband. So yes, I guess you can say, there are women out here that like a man with some meat on his bones. 
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 11:43 AM |
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sjpinatl
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Yes, as long as they are not so big/unhealthy that they can't go on a nice walk.That seems to be my determining factor.
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 11:50 AM |
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ToucherinSparks
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Interesting! Why do you dislike the term "fat"? I think it's disingenious to hide behind ephemisms like "thick", "chubby", "big boned", etc. Just say what you are, and if people don't like it they can move on.
BTW, I'm fat, 6'4" and 275lbs.
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 12:01 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Because I myself wouldn`t want to be called FAT...thats just my opinion..which I am entitled to express...
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 1:07 PM |
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sweet5red
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his size has nothing to do with his heart.. and how he treats a lady.. sweet N Louisiana
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 1:20 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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Yeah, I would. I am not attracted to men or women who are thin because I find it creepy to feel bones when I'm cuddling with them *cringes*
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 1:26 PM |
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MotownManiax
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 I find all shapes of women attractive; it's only when they get so big their body form becomes indistinct, and it's puzzling to know just where a body part begins and ends?
Added....I'm sure women have similar feelings about men.
[Edited on 10/15/2006 1:27 PM]
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 1:26 PM |
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definitelydi
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Yep, as long as he's relatively healthy.
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 1:32 PM |
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mailorderannie
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sure would!
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 1:47 PM |
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Snappygoddess
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When I was still single, most of the men I dated were "bigger", a few actually fat....and I think there is a difference between being "chubby", "few pounds over" and just plain fat! I always liked a man with some substance as I love cuddling.
I never had any certain ideal size or personality when I dated... I expected to meet nice men.. have a great time.. and that's exactly what I did 
Incidently.. the man I met 18 months ago and just married 3 months ago was a lot thinner then I really wanted... I was fascinated by his mind when we first started talking... after we met in person. .. I was scared shitless by the chemistry I felt both emotionally and physically....mostly emotionally.. because I had resolved to never fall for anyone again. As I got to know him more and fell in love with him.. it didn't matter that he was 5'10", 175 lbs... if he had been 5'4", 225 lbs I would still love him because I fell in love with his spirit, heart and mind first.
There are skeptics that will say.. "Oh, that's such bull****... you can't tell me that his appearance wasn't important to you"..... to which I would reply..... when I first saw a pic of my present husband my first thought was how much he looked like a geek....when I first met him in person.. I thought the same...but as I saw more of him.. and was taken in by his smile and beautifully sincere heart... physically he was more appealing... now I find him handsome, sexy and above all... still the same man I met!
There are really good people that look at what is on the inside before evaluating the other as "too fat" or "too skinny" or too whatever......... it should be about the total package.. not what weight category they are in!
[Edited on 10/15/2006 2:44 PM]
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 2:31 PM |
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sweet5red
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There are really good people that look at what is on the inside before evaluating the other as "too fat" or "too skinny" or too whatever......... it should be about the total package.. not what weight catergory they are in! exactly snappy thats what i keep saying.. sweet N Louisiana
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 2:38 PM |
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razzired
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I've got to be able to wear his jeans. If my hips are bigger than his, I'll get a complex.
Oh, being able to wear his shirt is a plus, too.
MJ
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 3:18 PM |
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IndigoRose
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Big guys are cuddly...as with any man I date his personality would be the deciding factor 
I always had the biggest crush on John Goodman and Brian Denehey sp?
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 3:36 PM |
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Danceanddream
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I, too, dislike the term "fat". But I have and I would date larger guys. As long as they are not sloppy and take care of themselves (but that goes for any size!). I always try to find the best in people and that goes beyond their outward appearance.
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 3:56 PM |
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SensualGemini
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 ... I read in a Men's Health magazine, that for every 20 pounds overweight, a man loses 1 inch of phallus.  Has a lot to do with poor cardiovascular.
...The kids used to have a bus driver that was about 100 pounds overweight and sadly, was single and seldom had a date. I gave him a copy of the study and how he could potentially gain 5 inches; apparently, that was enough incentive!
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 4:01 PM |
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definitelydi
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But what about thin men with small penises??? I think the above theory is
bullsh!t! 
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| Oct 15, 2006 @ 4:35 PM |
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Danger
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being 'fat' myself..i wouldn't have any problems.
even if i were skinny..not a problem. i try to look at a person from what they are like on the inside, but yes there is always that part of having some 'attraction' but being 'fat' has nothing to do with attraction.
and i don't like the 'fat' word either..but thats what men consider women when they are large. women usually refer to men as being 'large'.
this is one of the reasons i changed my profile picture, cause i had a couple requests that i either remove it or edit it cause this wasnt' a 'BBW' site...well it isn't an a&& hole site either, but they're here! 
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