| Oct 18, 2006 @ 12:41 PM |
What is your honest opinion on marrieds being on singles sites....looking???
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sissycat411
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I was up very early this morning and looking at the new users listed.....I found it interesting that in the above 40 age group......there were 15 marrieds (men) with profiles, stating openly they were seeking good times, discreet sex.....an honestly found it quite disgusting......
.Also, with all the sites available on the Internet for MARRIEDS TO GO to find like minded people for their games......wondered why they could not find their way there...instead of site geared for singles looking to find someone of quality.
Is it just me, or do others find it troubling also.....and I'm not speaking of folks who are married an met their significant other on this site and come to see old friends.......But the ones whose spouses don't have a clue they are out on the Internet soliciting playmates for sex......
How is what they are doing any different than foreign women out looking for green cards or those looking to pull a scam on someone, for money...???? They are still looking for something for NOTHING......
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 1:08 PM |
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Artemis122
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there were 15 marrieds (men) with profiles, stating openly they were seeking good times, discreet sex.....an honestly found it quite disgusting......
.Also, with all the sites available on the Internet for MARRIEDS TO GO to find like minded people for their games......wondered why they could not find their way there... sissy, I SEE it this way why they do it here on MD -- it is Risk-Free, Minimum Exposure on their part WHILE Acquiring the Attention of Us QUALITY Women...
Is this "as bad" as Married Couples Looking for a 3-some here?? and Hitting On Singles here?? I AGREE they should go to an ADULT Dating Site, IMHO..... 
I Personally find it Totally Disgusting when Adults have to Hide behind SMOKE SCREENS in Achieving their Objectives... 
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 1:32 PM |
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DwainP50
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there were 15 marrieds (men) with profiles, stating openly they were seeking good times, discreet sex.....an honestly found it quite disgusting......
So I did my own search:
I am a “Man” Seeking “Woman” between “40” and “99” “All profiles”
What location are you looking for a match from? “Anywhere”
What kind of relationship are you looking for? “Doesn't matter”
Are you looking for someone who's been married or in a relationship before? “In a Relationship, Married”
Output results: 108 “Married” or “In a relationship” ladies looking for any kind of a relationship!
Of course you can change the search criteria and come up with many different numbers but what I am trying to show here is that men who are married or in a relationship are not the only ones looking.
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 1:37 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Your right Dwain it works both ways... 
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 1:45 PM |
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razzired
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 1:47 PM |
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DwainP50
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Good she is sleeping! Get some whip cream and feather!  
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 1:51 PM |
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lj450
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In addition, I must point out that the banner up top reads.......
Matchdoctor, Free community for singles and friends
That doesnt exclude anyone. Perhaps we should less concerned with the (perceived) faults of others, and more with shortcomings of our own.
hmmmmm?
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 1:54 PM |
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DwainP50
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 2:00 PM |
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Dovestreasure
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Yes there are married individuals on here that are seeking friendship and nothing more. Sissy was commenting on the ones that specifically say they are seeking good time. I get messaged by those maried fun seekers all the time. People who cheat on their spouses are simply the low lifes of humanity. I am so tired of hearing, my wife does not fuffill my needs, or I have a loveless marrige. Get a Divorce if you are so miserable and move on.
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 2:10 PM |
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lj450
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Get a Divorce if you are so miserable and move on.
Well, just as easily, I can say........Delete the email if it makes you so miserable and move on.
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 2:30 PM |
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swingpup
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Not being married it makes little difference to me. If there are married males then the females must deal with that. A simple "go ukfa yourself" would work if in fact a particular female is disinterested in married males.
Now on the other hand If a married female is seeking?????, I'd be happy to deal with that in a positive, discreet and respectful manor. 
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 4:21 PM |
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Artemis122
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Get a Divorce if you are so miserable and move on. Well, just as easily, I can say........Delete the email if it makes you so miserable and move on.
I find your Comment to be "deliberately" Raw, Rude, Unnecessary and IRRELEVANT to this Subject, even though I Respect your Right to Freedom of Speech....
Perhaps you are only ATTRACTING ATTENTION by your Entertainment Value..... and nothing else!!
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 4:26 PM |
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spongebob777
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Well I'm not married nor am I looking for something discreet. I plan on telling everybody about it. 
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 4:29 PM |
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razzired
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Yea, LJ. You were deliberately raw and rude.
Do it again. I'm entertained!
MJ
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 4:33 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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Well, I try to stand by my sisters, but I have to agree with LJ...(twice in one day,  )... why do you care? Even when they send me emails, I just delete and move on. Life's much too short to spend it worrying about what other people are doing or looking for, especially if they're honest about their marital standing. They're obviously not of any interest to you, so just keep looking for someone who is...
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 4:39 PM |
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lj450
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MJ.........
Wildflower, thank you for seeing past my "Rawness".........I suddenly feel naked.
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 6:33 PM |
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Dovestreasure
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I sure do not worry about those emails , I put that delete button to good use. I cant support the premise of infidelity its morally wrong . , and I answered the above question. I gave my honest opinion , and you gave yours lJ. Your rawness is okay with me.
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 6:49 PM |
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Empath
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As I see things, it is not the individuals that are so disconcerting, but the general decrease of morals and decent values in our culture.
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 7:16 PM |
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sissycat411
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looking at the new users listed
Dwain...Of course you can change the search criteria and come up with many different numbers but what I am trying to show here is that men who are married or in a relationship are not the only ones looking
So the fact its happening, makes it OK? Those of us not of that moral mentality should just shut up and deal with it individually? Could any of those...who have a gives a chit attitudes, have a contributing factor on why our children are ending up in jails, killing each other and parents, on drugs, having babies they are way to young care for..or all the white collar crimes taking place....have any bearing on the attitude we some called adults are willing to turn a blind eye too?
Is it just me, or do others find it troubling also
Your right Dwain it works both ways And that justifies the behavior??? hmmm
lj....Matchdoctor, Free community for SINGLES and friends
I see nothing there that indicates this is a site...for MARRIEDS LOOKING FOR SEX......maybe you read between the lines eh or feel there is nothing wrong with that idea also?
lj That doesn't exclude anyone. Perhaps we should less concerned with the (perceived) faults of others, and more with shortcomings of our own.
hmmm? Or maybe we should speak out regarding unacceptable behavior? I take it then, if you SEE someone robbing a bank....you would give them the old high 5 there, job well done, or someone molesting a child..or a grown adult male who prefers sex with a 13 or 14 year old female child, Or a congress man, who prefers to solicite sex from teen age boys, just turn your head the other way....it doesn't effect you, so why care?
lj Well, just as easily, I can say........Delete the email if it makes you so miserable and move on. its not your problem, so you have no concern on how it effects others? Nice.....to see you have so much depth....and an easy answer.
swing pup..Now on the other hand If a married female is seeking?????, I'd be happy to deal with that in a positive, discreet and respectful manor.
A simple "go ukfa yourself" would work if in fact a particular female is disinterested in married males
Heaven.. why do you care? Even when they send me emails, I just delete and move on. Life's much too short to spend it worrying about what other people are doing or looking for, especially if they're honest about their marital standing.
so if an honest to goodness pedophile....were to put his hands on your grandchild and it had no bearing on my life.....I could just be justified telling you...its your problem...not mine, you deal with it......I'm way to busy with my life to care what others do and how it effects....what is happening in our would today with our kids....interesting...
My point in all of this is ......we wonder what is happening to our society and our children....If we are not part of the solution....then we are deffinetly part of the problem.....
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| Oct 18, 2006 @ 7:17 PM |
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sissycat411
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Empath......right on lady..... One smart lady...
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