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LavenderMoonlight
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WaWa...
I don't mean any disrespect at all with what I am about to say...
I've noticed you post alot about this person and your feelings...you say you are seeing a counselor or have seen one about this? It's true that it's only normal, the feelings you have...but surely if you are seeing a counselor, he/she is guiding you toward resolving your issues...if not, I suggest finding another counselor..that one is wasting ur time and money...
also, if you really want this guy to go away...have you told him that? I think that people are getting tired of hearing about this, perhaps...not sure...but, if this is such a problem, it might be best left to be handled between you and your counselor...
just my thoughts...i mean no harm...
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 11:25 AM |
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definitelydi
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You are a true Bunny Boiler..... Don't even know why you joined a dating site.... You are obsessed with a guy that buys coffee from you and makes small talk..... He didn't chase you hunny, he was thirsty....
OMG!! ROTMFFLMMFAO!!! 
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 11:32 AM |
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duwant1
Posts: 579
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WaWa...
Maybe, you could post your home address and phone number in like a Yahoo profile, so your fan club can make personal contact? Even throw in a few links like: Starbucks, Dr. Phil, AMW…etc.  
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 11:52 AM |
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wawasweetie
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I told him to leave me alone once and he did for 3 mths. and he suddenly started showing up again and I never gave him a reason to start pursuing me again.He's just a player and needs to have a clutch.That's all!! How would you all feel if someone was going out of their way to hurt you when you did nothing to deserve it other than offer your heart.I can see that none of youhave any compassion toward a hurting person.I'm not making any of this up!! It's all fact!!!!
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 11:54 AM |
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Loreli
Posts: 25,820
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.Why would any man follow a woman down a street,come to her house pounding on her door and go WAY OUT OF HIS WAY to visit a woman at her job if he wasn't truly interested?
maybe it ISN'T way out of his way-how would you know that?
As told many many times-forget him..
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 12:06 PM |
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violette1967
Posts: 430
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It's true love..... get up off your butt and marry this gem of man!
I am so jealous of the relationship, I wish I had a gem like that 
Hurry...don't let him get away......
but we sure would miss you in here.....
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 12:12 PM |
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wawasweetie
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It's way out of his way because there are other WAWA stores closer to his job and he lives a half hour from my store,but no,he's not coming to see me.I'm just imagining things!! I didn't invite him to come pounding on my door,I didn't invite him to do anything.And after all this being said he is simply doing all of this because he can"t stand the sight of me and doesn't want to be anywhere near me.That really makes alot of sense!! 
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 12:17 PM |
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wawasweetie
Posts: 242
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Couldn't it possibly mean that he's just scared and wants to take it EXTREMELY SLOW because he just got out of a bad relationshp??? He did ask me that question"WHERE DO I STAND?""JUST BE STRAIGHT WITH ME"Why would he bother to ask that if he wasn't the least bit interested in me???
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 12:29 PM |
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violette1967
Posts: 430
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See, the problem is, God gave man a brain and a penis......
But only enough blood to run one at a time......so it may be hard for him to concentrate on the right thing to do.....
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 12:35 PM |
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wawasweetie
Posts: 242
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Yeah,he's thinking with the wrong head but he seems to be afraid of sex too.He don't want to produce anymore children or be trapped in a relationship he don't really want to be in. He said he doesn't need a girlfriend as the last one scarred him for life.So what does he truly need with me if it's not sex!!!!
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 12:47 PM |
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donna65806
Posts: 5,127
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very true statement violette 
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 12:57 PM |
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duwant1
Posts: 579
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Scientists have demonstrated that beer contains traces of female hormones.
To prove their theory, they gave 100 men 12 pints of beer and observed that 100% of them gained weight, talked incessantly without making sense, were frequently overcome by emotion, and couldn't drive.  
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 1:10 PM |
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beckyiv42000
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duwant 1 ?? 
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 1:36 PM |
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sciurusniger
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One more time and I'll try to speak v e r y s l o w l y and try to use little words so you can understand me.
At best, the guy has issues and it is reassuring to his ego that there is a woman out there willing to slobber all over him without any real effort on his part.
At worst, he really IS a nut case and gets his jollies by seeing you slobber all over him in vain.
Bottom line and no matter what has happened between you two:
HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU. FORGET ABOUT HIM.
So you "offered him your heart". So you've been nice. So what? That and a fiver will get you a cup of coffee at Starbucks. Grow up. Have some pride. He's a loser no matter how you look at it, and you are a loser if you continue to make excuses for him to justify your clinging to an illusion and blather on about it here in the forums.
So what if he bothers to stop at your store for his coffee? So what if he makes small talk with you? So what if he acts as if he thinks of you as some kind of a friend? Again, here's the bottom line:
Girl, he's still a loser and he's just not that into you.
Yeah, it hurts. Yeah, it sucks. Yeah, it's hard to handle. And yeah, most everyone one of us has been there and done that. But we're not obsessing and whining about it every day, we're not giving the idiots free rent inside our heads.
You pick your Self up, you dust your Self off, you gather your pride and just MOVE ON.
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 1:37 PM |
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DwainP50
Posts: 5,162
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"duwant1" To dang funny!
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 1:41 PM |
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beckyiv42000
Posts: 15,004
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dwain??? 
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 1:42 PM |
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DwainP50
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So what if he bothers to stop at your store for his coffee? So what if he makes small talk with you? So what if he acts as if he thinks of you as some kind of a friend? Again, here's the bottom line:
Girl, he's still a loser and he's just not that into you.
If a woman shows interest in a man, but the man shows not interest but still is being kind and respectful, does that still make him a loser? 
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 1:51 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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Dwain...I think we're giving her the benefit of a doubt...that he is indeed going out of his way to see her, and somewhat encourage her, and that there had been a relationship in the past. Either way, Sci's advice is spot on regarding how she should proceed from here!
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 1:54 PM |
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luvshorses644
Posts: 1,571
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WaWa...
I see my ex a lot... because we share grown children together and there are times when I drop by their homes and their dad (my ex) is there and visa versa. Should I think that because he is there, he still cares about me because he shows up every now and again and makes polite conversation with me? Should I beleive that he is stalking me when these things happen?
Dear Lord, gal, when someone here tries to tell you that you ALONE are creating these delusions of what he feels toward you, you then change that whole scenario around to make it out that the people tellling you that you are repeating yourself over and over and over and over again with these threads about the same guy YOU are still carrying a torch for (not the other way around WAWA) .. you tell those people they are "picking on you?" ...
Woman, if you have a date with someone else, concentrate on that guy and you won't have to obsess on what this old one is doing just by coming in and buying coffee and making polite conversation as most human beings are supposed to be toward each other is really up to.... he is up to nothing, but on the other hand, you are still wanting him.. please stop.. or at least stop posting the same thing over and over and over and over....
No one is trying to pick on you or hurt you .. you do that very well all in your own mind. PLEASE GET SOME PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING!!!!!
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| Oct 21, 2006 @ 1:55 PM |
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duwant1
Posts: 579
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Heaven,
Goes that animal in your pic, want you for your mind, or is it stalking you?
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