| Oct 27, 2006 @ 1:53 PM |
How can you tell when someone is really interested in you?
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bevrice
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How can you tell when someone is really interested in you, and I mean for for than just sex or a sexual realionship. When you are dating, is there something that men or women do to show that their interest is real and not just lust? What ways do you have of showing that?
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| Oct 27, 2006 @ 1:57 PM |
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MotownManiax
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Bev, I recommend consulting that suave Ladies Man, Felici. 
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| Oct 27, 2006 @ 2:05 PM |
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FeliciVagano
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I don't give out advice...I only know what is right for me.... 
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| Oct 27, 2006 @ 2:07 PM |
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stormy73
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I CAN'T tell if someone is interested in me. But then, no one's EVER been interested in me, so I wouldn't know what to look for!
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| Oct 27, 2006 @ 2:10 PM |
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bevrice
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You guys are so cute, make me laugh. Now Stormy, I know lots of women must be interested in you, maybe you don't know what to look for, lol.
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| Oct 27, 2006 @ 2:24 PM |
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Empath
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I, too, have no idea when someone is interested in me. I kinda need to be smacked in the forehead with the obvious. 
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| Oct 27, 2006 @ 2:46 PM |
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Danger
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if i am interested and would like to see them again...it's terrible, but i have 'butterflies' in my stomach. and i USUALLY yawn a lot...lol, and i wonder why i never get a second chance...lol
men are so different thou...they may say they are interested but not really mean it-ok i suppose women do that too...why not just be upfront with someone and tell them you aren't interested nor ever could be....instead of trying and wasting time...
 but then again you can't tell by just ONE date, either.
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| Oct 27, 2006 @ 4:09 PM |
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stormy73
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A woman would basically have to walk up to me, grab my crotch and say, "I-AM-INTERESTED-IN-YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU!!!!"  I think we'd both enjoy THAT! 
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| Oct 27, 2006 @ 4:30 PM |
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Tenacity1
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I just know... they kick rocks and talk a lot! 
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| Oct 27, 2006 @ 10:56 PM |
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painter007
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I have a hard time telling if someone is interested. in me..I joke around with people and not sure if they are interested or just being friendly.....
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| Oct 28, 2006 @ 1:50 AM |
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sparxwillfly
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Welllll, I don't know if this applies to men or not though i suspect it doesn't.
It's a medical fact that when a woman see's a man that she's attracted to her pupils dilate within the first few seconds.
If she thinks he's unattractive her pupils get smaller.
It's an involuntary reaction and there's nothing a woman can do to change or stop it.
Unfortunately I too have been guility in the past of thinking that "so-and-so is such a sweetie, isn't she ?" Come to find out months later they'd had a crush on me. Of course by then they were usually dating someone.
At least now I know about the eye trick. It tends to come in handy whenever you're in a crowded place like a club when it's bumper to bumper ppl and you're trying to get from point A to point B.
As I said it only takes a couple of seconds, which is also about how long it takes for the average woman to decide tooooo tell me to shutup before I get my arse in hot water with some of the very fine ladies here  .
When it comes to men liking women I can tell you something to always keep in the back of your mind that might be helpful.
Anytime a man gets off his ass and does something good or useful, you can bet money that there's always a reason behind why he's doing it or something motivated him to do so.
If a neighbor guy next door or from down the block came over and mowed your lawn one day without being asked to do so, either his wife or Mother told him to do it, or he has an uncurable disease and he's convinced himself that he thinks he's making brownie points in Heaven by doing a good deed or he's interested in you.
Anyway, I hope that helps ya'll a little bit somehow.
Personally I think it'd be damn nice if everyone on the planet, including me of course, found that one special person that enriches our lives merely by the other person's presence in it.
Does that make sense ? If not then one of ya'll jump down in this text here and fix it for me will ya please ?
I think I've just used up about 6 months worth of my self-allotted 'serious time' so if ya'll will excuse me I think I'll go recouperate now.
Good night all. Sweet dreams Ladies.
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| Oct 28, 2006 @ 2:24 AM |
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bevrice
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Lol, gee, I thought they were just being nice when they did something like that for me.
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| Oct 28, 2006 @ 5:28 AM |
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dark_moon
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I know for sure a guy is really interested when I get that call...the one where he complains that he doesn't see me often enough. Soooo I guess I'm pretty slow in figuring it out.
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| Oct 29, 2006 @ 12:54 AM |
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DipityDoo
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Most guys I've been out with have made it pretty darn clear if they were only interested in trying to get some sex. I just don't run into those who will try to "get some" by playing games. Much easier if they'd all be that way.
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| Oct 29, 2006 @ 6:37 AM |
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sciurusniger
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It's in the things he does, not only the things he says. If he's interested, he actively demonstrates it. There is more frequent contact (he writes, he calls), conversations are a sharing of thoughts, history, ideas; he wants to spend time with you and makes arrangements to do so.
And, like the old song goes, "It's in his kiss." 
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| Oct 29, 2006 @ 6:49 AM |
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T_i_m
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If a woman stores some Tampax at a guy's place, she likes him.
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| Oct 29, 2006 @ 6:57 AM |
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LavenderMoonlight
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I agree with sciur...and couldn't have said it better!
Um.. T I M....guess you will never know once menopause sets in, huh? lmao...
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| Oct 29, 2006 @ 8:10 AM |
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MotownManiax
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I mean, really, is this brain surgery? Like all have said before, somebody has to "demonstrate" interest. If they don't, please avoid psychotherapy trying to figure out why (hee hee).
MM - This one was kinda easy on the "Difficult Advice Dating Scale"....Next! 
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| Oct 29, 2006 @ 8:26 AM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Well hes persistant with his emails...
He comes right out and tells you he likes you...
He asks you to go out with him again before the first date is even over...
He no sooner gets home from his date with you and he calls just to say hello...
He wants to spend all his spare time with you...
After working a 24 hour shift he wants to come and see you...
but those are just the things my fella did to show he was interested in me.. 
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| Oct 29, 2006 @ 10:51 AM |
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irisheagle
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Anytime a man gets off his ass and does something good or useful, you can bet money that there's always a reason behind why he's doing it or something motivated him to do so. Yup, Sure is, Every woman i find attractive, most women that need assistance,
and For Sure the one i'm REALLY interested in.
but too Tink your's are right too.
most times i Just tell them outright i'm interested,
how do i Tell is someone interested?
well that's a little more difficult for me, i think i have
to be to get it. i was told once that i get more
looks then i realize cause women are so good at
hiding it.
but Too i wonder when a lady is looking, which can mean
an interest, That maybe she's just seeing the Toilet paper
hanging out of my pants..
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