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wawasweetie
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I know this seems silly,but what are the true signs that a guy is really interested in a girl and how long should a girl wait for him to make his move?Or is this century really all about women making the first move?Do you feel that men fear rejection more than women???
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 8:13 AM |
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countryboy69995
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Yes rejection does suck. Start with those coffee dates or dinner out at first if you are both really umcomfertable. Me I'm just hanin back cause of my past relationship. Yea had a couple of dates but I tell her from the start where I am in my life.  One of the hardest things to admit to a woman for me any way is "Yes I am scared sitless of a really involved relationship right now and why I am that way. 
How long ya wait may be different for each person. Plus it depends on what kind of relationship your waiting for. I think any way. 
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 8:15 AM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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If hes really interested in the girl he won`t beat around the bush. He`ll just ask her out. Well if he doesn`t make a move at all why force the issue. Means hes not interested. I don`t think men are any more fearful of rejection then what women are.
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 8:25 AM |
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1stsignofspring
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Well..you never know what kind of past relationships that person has had, so the timing in making a move will be different for each person...kind of like country...the effect that that past relationship has had on a person, will usually be the determining factor on how fast he or she will move forward into the next relationship. Sooooo....just enjoy the ride and if he is interested he will eventually make it known to you. Don't be in a rush....all good things come to those who wait....or I think they do!  Everybody is different...I waited 15 years to start even thinking about dating again...as strange as that sounds...but I had to clear all the hurts and fears and baggage. I'm glad I did! Wawa....just be patient...it will all work out!
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 8:27 AM |
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robodad
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Do you feel that men fear rejection more than women??? It's about 50-50
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 9:18 AM |
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chinabull2000
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its up to the woman equally as much as it is up to the guy. you want it, you go for it, if not, move on.
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 9:30 AM |
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Blondino
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Well ... give a man lots of encouragment ... little signs ... some comliments (sincere ones)
Then when he feels encouraged he can make the move and thinks he had done all the work .. (when in fact you did ) Subtle 
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 9:48 AM |
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zulamaze
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Wawa, I hope this is not the same man you have been
talking about in other threads. 
If so, please move on. It would be in your best interest.
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 9:57 AM |
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wawasweetie
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No,it's not the same man.It's a new interest for about a month now.
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 9:59 AM |
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willsmalto
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It's no big deal if I get rejected. Rejection is part of the game. I don't see why I shouldn't go after someone/something I like/love.
Ok I ran after this girl for like half a year. She rejected me the first time with a big NO, the second time she put me on hold and the third and last time, she kissed me like she's been rehearsing and waiting for that moment LOL. Smart gals always have this tendency of putting the guy's seriousness to a test.
sometimes, guys get rejected not cos they deserve it but maybe cos it wasn't the right time and the right place....just the pressure from audience around could make a gal say no whereas deep in her, the answer is yes.
certain things are not to be said around certain places/people and of course at a particular time. There is time/place for everything
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 10:01 AM |
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T_i_m
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 10:13 AM |
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wawasweetie
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Well,he is one of my customers that comes in every moning.He always says good morning and asks how I am.Last week he was holding a conversaton with a friend while he was in line and his friend sad he was a nice guy and than he asked me "Am I a nice guy?"I of course said yes.The other day for the first time,he called me sweetie,but turned and walked away real quick after he said it.He said it while he was putting his wallet away.He said,in a soft gentle tone,"you have a good day,sweetie".He said goodbye again as he walked out the door after he picked up his deli order.He's very outgoing,but seems shy at the same time..
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 11:03 AM |
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julia143
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Threads seem a bit repetitive....but I'll bite!
It's 2006...not 1800
If ya want something go for it! If ya don't ...you'll miss out!
Men these days have been disciplined for inappropriate behavior, slapped for bad come-ons, and told it's called "stalking" if they are interested in a woman and persue to much.
So this is what we get, emancipation....it's in our hands now.
Cryin out loud woman ...go get what ya want.
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 11:15 AM |
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twotall911
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 11:19 AM |
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everrett
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Well ... give a man lots of encouragment ... little signs ... some comliments (sincere ones)
Then when he feels encouraged he can make the move and thinks he had done all the work .. (when in fact you did ) Subtle Bondino said it perfectly. I am pretty sure that every girl that I have ever gotten a "yes" from has given me the green light long before I got up the courage to make my move.
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 11:37 AM |
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Loreli
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J said
Threads seem a bit repetitive....
IMO you aren't very interested if you have to ask in the forums.
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 12:02 PM |
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wawasweetie
Posts: 242
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I'm extremely interested!!Thank You!!! I too have to be careful about what I say at work and figure out a way to give him a nudge to make that move if in fact he's smitten by me.
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 1:50 PM |
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sweet5red
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Well,he is one of my customers that comes in every moning.He always says good morning and asks how I am
well wasnt the OTHER guy a customer too?? the one before.. they might be just making "polite" conversation.. and yes this does sound like a repeat. Just my opinion. Sweet N Louisiana
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 2:07 PM |
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Solitaire
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wawa...unless they specially equipt the stores, you're never going to have a sign that goes off over the guys head that says "He's the ONE". Nobody and nothing is going to make it any easier for you, than you. If you're interested...chat, flirt and or ask him to meet you sometime for coffee. If he's interested in you he will either continue light flirting, chat asking for more information about you, or ask you out for coffee.
Or, if he's like me and 90% of the people standing in line, he just makes "nice" to those who are working behine the counter
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| Nov 10, 2006 @ 2:59 PM |
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FunPlayful
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well if a guy is really interested in a girl he will ask for her number so he can call her up and ask her out on a date
but a man who is really really really interested will ask you to marry him as he presents the engagement ring
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