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If someone spends a lot of money on you during a date, do you owe him/her som |
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DwainP50

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Something?
More food for Chat! 
[Edited on 11/17/2006 10:38 AM]
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 10:38 AM |
If someone spends a lot of money on you during a date, do you owe him/her som |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR

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Som what?
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 10:38 AM |
If someone spends a lot of money on you during a date, do you owe him/her som |
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DwainP50

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You are to fast beautiful!!
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 10:40 AM |
If someone spends a lot of money on you during a date, do you owe him/her som |
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chinabull2000

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Of course you don't, apart from maybe a thankyou.
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 10:40 AM |
If someone spends a lot of money on you during a date, do you owe him/her som |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR

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Ex-Forum HO ya know.
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 10:43 AM |
If someone spends a lot of money on you during a date, do you owe him/her som |
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razzired

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You know, the 'correct' answer is that nobody owes anyone anything.
But.....
Women shouldn't allow men to spend huge amounts of money on a date if they don't like them enough in the first place that ending up in bed is a possibility.
MJ - opening her umbrella to ward off the rocks that will be thrown
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 10:44 AM |
If someone spends a lot of money on you during a date, do you owe him/her som |
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chinabull2000

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I agree MJ, if a woman is aware that a guy is romantically interested, but she has NO interest in that way, then she should not lead him on. Period!!
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 10:50 AM |
If someone spends a lot of money on you during a date, do you owe him/her som |
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zulamaze

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also agree wtih MJ
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 12:10 PM |
If someone spends a lot of money on you during a date, do you owe him/her som |
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The_love_Giant

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It depends Ive had gfs in past that would not let me spend a dime on them and then ive had others that did not care.
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 1:15 PM |
If someone spends a lot of money on you during a date, do you owe him/her som |
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LipGlossQueen9

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Women shouldn't allow men to spend huge amounts of money on a date if they don't like them enough in the first place that ending up in bed is a possibility. If it's a first, second, third, fourth...anywhere up to thirteenth date...
I'll definitely be interested, but
it doesn't matter how much money he spent.
He's not getting any.
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 1:15 PM |
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Danger

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i'm with MJ...no, you don't and shouldn't feel like you owe anything to anyone unless it's a simple thank you. for first dates, NO ONE should splurge anyways...i say get to know them and if things move on to further dates and a relationship-THEN splurge.
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 1:26 PM |
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razzired

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Lippy -- 13 dates???!!!???
Oh, the patience of the young.
MJ
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 1:26 PM |
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FeliciVagano

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He's not getting any . ....why??
If it's a first, second, third, fourth... anywhere up to thirteenth date...
I'll definitely be interested, but
it doesn't matter how much money he spent.
He's not getting any. why does it take up to thirteen dates for you to decide that even though you are interested in the person you are dating, to have sex?
doing the math.. that is "dating" for over 3 months..(assuming that you "date" once week that is..) three months is not dating.. it is a relationship.. (IMHO)
(BTW...hanging out is not dating)
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Women shouldn't allow men to spend huge amounts of money on a date if they don't like them enough in the first place that ending up in bed is a possibility. ....
[Edited on 11/17/2006 1:29 PM]
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 1:28 PM |
If someone spends a lot of money on you during a date, do you owe him/her som |
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Jankia

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If someone foots the bill for a date be it a dinner,movie or whatever you are doing on that date yes,that person is owed your attention and your respect..I see it as a courtesy given,not something that is allowed.
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 1:32 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9

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i will not have sex until i am serious about a relationship. it could take years.
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 1:38 PM |
If someone spends a lot of money on you during a date, do you owe him/her som |
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FeliciVagano

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...... 
guessing that is the difference between young and old... you have years left... we who are over the 1/2 century mark don't... 
and are not as serious...
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 1:47 PM |
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razzired

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Lippy, I'm confused. Didn't you say recently on another thread you'd just had a menage a trois? Were you serious about a relationship with those two people, or is that kind of sex somehow different from sex with someone you're dating?
MJ - wondering if she has a different definition of sex - or dating.
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 1:58 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9

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the two people i was with were two of my best friends, one whom i have "fooled around with" before. besides, we didn't do anything i had never done before.
oh and razzi check your mail.
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 2:07 PM |
If someone spends a lot of money on you during a date, do you owe him/her som |
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MotownManiax

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When it comes to differentiating sex, Lippy just thinks like a man, MJ....hee hee
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| Nov 17, 2006 @ 2:08 PM |
If someone spends a lot of money on you during a date, do you owe him/her som |
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LipGlossQueen9

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