| Nov 24, 2006 @ 11:35 AM |
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Blondino
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is it a Texas thang ma'am ?
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| Nov 24, 2006 @ 1:44 PM |
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Angel178
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I loveeeeeeee bad boys!!  That's my greatest weakness  Dated one for 8 years then married him for 9 years. We had 3 children and now were divorced. He's the best motorcycling bad boy, just not the marrying kind. Too bad, bad boys are HOT! 
I'm ok now, got a little crazy there, remember Karen, you need a man who likes to be at home.............. 
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| Nov 24, 2006 @ 1:47 PM |
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Angel178
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Bad boys make me feel young and wild!!!!!! I forget that I have a home and responsibilities!
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| Nov 24, 2006 @ 1:59 PM |
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Snappygoddess
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I have a good man with a bit of "bad boy" in him 
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| Nov 24, 2006 @ 2:21 PM |
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Angel178
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Snappy, you are soooooooooooooooo lucky!! Best of both worlds! 
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| Nov 24, 2006 @ 2:30 PM |
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Blondino
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Ode to a Bad Bad Boy 
( warning Bad Boys can seriously damage your health )
You came you saw you conquered
You made me wild and free
You took my love
Had happy days
But now you dont want me
So farewell to you Bad Boy
I knew right from the start
You'd chew me up
You'd spit me out
And break my little heard
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| Nov 24, 2006 @ 2:46 PM |
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JesterDrawers
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That's good, Blondino - I like it.
Tell me something, though....what makes someone a 'bad boy'? I guess I'll never get it. I think I could take a lifetime of acting classes from the best teacher in the world and still never be able to pull off a believable 'bad boy' persona.....so what's the secret? And why are so many women attracted to them, when so many times I've read it only leads to heartache in the end?
Enquiring minds want to know - like mine!
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| Nov 24, 2006 @ 3:05 PM |
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Blondino
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well for me they are usually charismatic ..... and attractive ...
Its their .. dont give a dam .. Rebel Rebel attitude thats cute when you are younger . ..makes you feel wild and free ... 
With tome and experience you learn to .... go for good men .....
having said that I am single ....lol
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| Nov 24, 2006 @ 3:07 PM |
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Snappygoddess
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Snappy, you are soooooooooooooooo lucky!! Best of both worlds!
Not a day goes by that I don't remind myself how lucky I am... thanks Angel
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| Nov 24, 2006 @ 6:51 PM |
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MotownManiax
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 From an article on AskMen.com
You know the type -- the swaggering, cocky, macho jerk who treats women like they're replaceable, while they're waiting in line to climb into his bed. Men hate these guys, yet women love them.
Ask any single woman on the street what she's looking for in a man and she'll tell you that she wants a nice guy with a sense of humor who will treat her well. But then she'll turn around and fall all over herself trying to get to a Bad Boy who will use and abuse her......
....Yet women flock to these creeps in droves. Why? No sane woman would openly choose to be abused, so there must be some other factors operational here. To find the answer, we must examine the positive side of the Bad Boy traits to see what women are really attracted to.
A Bad Boy exudes untamed masculinity, independence and confidence. To women, these traits -- especially confidence -- are an aphrodisiac. The problem is, in the hands of the Bad Boy, confidence becomes selfish arrogance. But women are responding to guys like this on a purely elemental, emotional level.....
....So the trick is to learn to take the Bad Boy's negative traits and spin them in a positive direction to make them work for you -- in other words, to become a Bad Boy without really being "bad." This way, you can still maintain your gentleman status without turning into an abusive jerk.
Here are a few things you can do to improve your Bad Boy status…
Dial up the independence
Act as if you couldn't possibly care less about getting women. Never change who you are to please a woman or in the hope that you'll get her into bed. Get involved in your own life and your own interests. Make plenty of time for male stuff. Your attitude should be: "This is who I am -- if you like it, fine; if you don't, leave."
Don't show emotions
Be indifferent and don't show you care. You should have a poker face at all times. Remain mysterious and don't let women know what you're thinking. Keep them guessing.
Furthermore, ration your words and make sure everything you say has a purpose. Don't volunteer information. Simply answer a question if asked.
Put the kibosh on crap
Refuse to tolerate any female BS. When she tries to test you, don't give in -- tell her to grow up. Don't be afraid to say "no." Stand your ground, or simply walk away from a situation.
Get her off the pedestal. Run the relationship by your rules, not hers. If you don't agree with her, say so -- don't be a doormat in the hope of getting laid. And if she doesn't like it, show her the door.
Light your fire
Bad Boys are all about sexual confidence, and women appreciate confident lovers. So don't be afraid to let your natural masculine sexuality shine. This doesn't mean you should go around leering at female chests all day, but you should be comfortable and confident about letting a woman know you're attracted to her without becoming a pawing jerk. And when you do step up to the plate, make sure you know what you're doing in the bedroom.
Make yourself scarce
For women, guys who are too available are boring. Bad Boys are selfishly independent -- they aren't desperately hanging around women, hoping to get tossed a few scraps of attention.
Women always want what they can't have, so make yourself busy and scarce. Be a mystery man. Be unpredictable. Be a challenge -- let her do some work to get you.
Turn on the confidence
Bad Boys always assume that women want them -- insecurity has no place in their personal vocabularies. This is the exact opposite of the usual male desperation. So your attitude should be that you're the catch, not that women are doing you a favor by talking to you.
You can't afford to be too nice -- catering to women, agreeing with every word they utter, paying for female attention (all things Bad Boys don't do) -- because women see this as "weak" and wimpy.
Be decisive and don't hesitate when talking. Don't second-guess yourself after you've made a decision. Voice your opinion and don't worry about offending others.
Bad Boys may be jerks, but they have a lot to teach the average guy about attracting women. By observing a few of these typical Bad Boy traits in action, you can learn to use them to your advantage without giving up your nice status.
Even if you don't look like Brad Pitt, you can still attract lots of women simply by oozing male confidence.
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Matthew Fitzgerald is the author of Sex-Ploytation. He has appeared on radio shows from coast-to-coast in the United States and in Canada, and has been featured on the Montel show and The Other Half.
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| Nov 24, 2006 @ 7:06 PM |
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sciurusniger
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With those "credentials", no wonder all I can say is
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| Nov 24, 2006 @ 8:49 PM |
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LovingRomantic
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(ones that APPEAR to be a BAD BOY but in truth are loving caring loyal and great in bed are the ones that I like ...hard to find them tho .. they hide REALLY DAMN GOOD)
Now that statement fits me totally...maybe because of my size...the way I look...the way I act in public...I take no bull from nobody....I`ve put many people in their place when challenged... ...especially when they are prodding in my affairs...I have a don`t give a damm attitude...  ...on the other hand though as long as nobody bothers me then I can be the nicest guy... ...and Yes I am good in bed or where ever you wonna get it on.  ... I`m a bad boy half the time and a good boy the other half...  ... Gotta take the good with bad I guess... ... Now the truth is out. Now I`m in trouble. Go ahead hit on me. I can take it... 
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 5:29 AM |
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JesterDrawers
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MO - Good article; thanks for sharing. But....holy crappola - bein' a bad boy sounds like an AWFUL lot of work!!!!! I won't pretend to be anyone or anything that I'm not, and truth of the matter is, I actually LIKE myself - a lot! - so....if nice guys finish last, then so be it. I'd much rather finish last and be comfortable in my own skin, than finish first and have absolutely NO CLUE who I am at the time!
Just my nickel's worth......thanks again for the article, Mo!
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 7:45 AM |
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Blondino
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Can anyone be a bad boy?
Is there a ritual you must go through to become a bad boy so women can recognize you?
First let us dispel the myth of what the bad boy is not. In the days of old, the bad boy was the tattooed biker with the Harley and the unshaven 8 o`clock shadow at 6 am in the morning. Today the bad boy is as diverse as the women he is bedding.
Some bad boys you won`t even see coming, and some do their work so under the radar and they are virtually non-existent. The bad boy can be the high powered executive who runs a multi-million dollar business during the day and at night he goes to strip clubs and swinger parties with different girls, often girls new to the "scene", using his money and influence to break them in.
The bad boy can be the young bartender at a cool eatery that is sleeping with every woman and wife that comes into the place. You never really know who the bad boys are, but the girls do.
The Main Event
The main attraction that women have to the bad boy is that he`s absolutely "naughty". That is how he is perceived. The bad boy does not have a particular job or ethnic origin. He is that guy that has "naughty" written all over him. He can be bald or short or even broke, but if he is good at putting out "the vibe" then he will increase the size of his harem.
Most women are aware when they meet a bad boy (that is good at it) that he probably has had sex with many women. This turns them on because by this alone they believe he is "experienced" and will please them thoroughly. This is the number one reason women like bad boys and why you are reading this article.
The "vibe" that the bad boy sends out is simple; Sex through direct eye contact accompanied by both non-verbal and verbal communication and flirtation. The bad boy says "sex" without every "saying" sex. Smiling, laughing at her jokes, complimenting her intelligence and flattering her opinions.
The talented bad boy will be patient and always consistent in his behavior, sometimes wearing down prey over months. He has no real commitment other than flattery because he is probably working more women on the side. He is never committed to any of these women, but serves the ones who reward him first and most often.
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[Edited on 11/25/2006 8:37 AM]
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 8:23 AM |
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countryboy69995
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Oh wow. I guess I can't compete because of the little angle I am  
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 11:41 AM |
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luvmycats
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Most women are aware when they meet a bad boy (that is good at it) that he probably has had sex with many women
They may think they have what it takes to get him to "Settle down" with them.
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 11:53 AM |
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LovingRomantic
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(Sex through direct eye contact accompanied by both non-verbal and verbal communication and flirtation. The bad boy says "sex" without every "saying" sex. Smiling, laughing at her jokes, complimenting her intelligence and flattering her opinions.
The talented bad boy will be patient and always consistent in his behavior, sometimes wearing down prey over months. He has no real commitment other than flattery because he is probably working more women on the side. He is never committed to any of these women, but serves the ones who reward him first and most often. )
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You hit it right on the head...matter of fact...I`m heading out tonight and do a little partying...not much into drinking...do alittle dancing... get the eye contact going...
and see what happens...I`m a very sociable person and the women love it. Right on...I love it!!!  
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 1:13 PM |
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Tenacity1
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I still like the bad boy LOOK oh ya baby!!!!...but dang I'm getting too old to attempt to tame those badboy types...nowadaze give me a nice man with a great big...heart...and uh wide shoulders that my puny T-Rex arms can barely span....I'm a happy woman 
sending hugs!!!
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 1:18 PM |
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Blondino
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 I am staying home alone ... not been out of home for three weeks as I am sick ...... he he he but good ole MD .... has given me my kicks
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| Nov 25, 2006 @ 1:21 PM |
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PullMyFinger
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trust me....those that tout bad boy status are the ones wearing polyester, members only jackets and are fans of Harry Potter...... 
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