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Nov 24, 2006 @ 8:05 PM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
Debs880


Posts: 47
I would seriously be interested in what people use as a guide to who's genuine and who isn't. I personally go with a gut instinct. As a relatively new user to this site, I'd love to know what the rest of you do....

Debs
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Nov 24, 2006 @ 8:11 PM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
NeverB4Alone


Posts: 8,673
Read thier posts, and blogs. They do a good job of telling you themselves, one way or the other.
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Nov 24, 2006 @ 8:14 PM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
TiNkErGrRrRrR


Posts: 13,252

Just have to watch and learn Deb.
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Nov 24, 2006 @ 8:15 PM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
Danceanddream


Posts: 5,740
I agree.... posts and blogs can tell alot about a person.
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Nov 24, 2006 @ 8:21 PM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
PullMyFinger


Posts: 940
Never.....EVER.....believe anything coming from a person with a pair of womens pantyhose pulled over his/'her head....

If they're boastful and tend to toot their own horn, they're lying..

If they boast about their sexual prowess and/or exploits, the only sex they have is with a sock and a wrinkled copy of Victorias Secret Catalog...

Believe nothing and suspect everything else....

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Nov 24, 2006 @ 8:26 PM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
NeverB4Alone


Posts: 8,673
Lot's of truth there Finger
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Nov 24, 2006 @ 8:56 PM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
chinabull2000


Posts: 7,009
yeah. posts and blogs make a big difference into your insight into people..... jjust make sure sure you dont judge someone on the basis of, lets say, 10 posts, because if they have 2000+ posts, then there is obviously so much more to them.
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Nov 24, 2006 @ 10:59 PM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
julia143


Posts: 1,549
You take your chances, just like in real life. You can be fooled by a playboy just as well face to face as you can on here.

Talking and asking questions usually helps me. Most sincere folks will take time to answer questions. Those that play will not want to reveal to much. Or you'll catch em in a lie.

Stick your toe in the waters....
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Nov 24, 2006 @ 11:08 PM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
everrett


Posts: 468
What do you mean by genuine?
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Nov 25, 2006 @ 12:59 AM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
sissycat411


Posts: 1,023
because if they have 2000+ posts, then there is obviously so much more to them.

So true China....Yep usually a lot of "bull chit" and no life outside the internet singles sites.... Living on a dating site...makes them feel they are someone who has something important to say....and a following.... ..sadly for most...its their lack of good sense.....

The one's with fewer, good quality post, do give you a great view of someone of maturity, intelligence, morals, values, and good advise....
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Nov 25, 2006 @ 1:09 AM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
Classy_Blonde


Posts: 5,867
If you hadn't been canceled for a period of time, you would have considerably more posts, so you might want to reevaluate that statement. I totally disagree with your logic. Please tell me how a lesser post count determines quality of character?

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Nov 25, 2006 @ 1:18 AM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
DiamondRain


Posts: 12,256
Look for the union label?
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Nov 25, 2006 @ 1:22 AM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
luvmycats


Posts: 9,458
Yes, Sissy do tell. I have a high post count for no longer then I have been on here, but I don't feel like I post with bad quality.
Nor do I always act "mature" I have a sense of humor and KNOW how to use it. Intelligence? I may not be the smartest girl in the world, but I'm sure not STUUUUPID!
Morals? How DARE you speek of the morals of people you don't even know! Values, if you would/could comprehend more you might learn that many of us do have good values.
Good advise? YOU HA! You rarely post anything of your own, you normally just agree with your other half.

one's with fewer, good quality post, do give you a great view of someone of maturity, intelligence, morals, values, and good advise...

So speaking of Bull Chit, yep you got the market cornered on that one.

[Edited on 11/25/2006 1:33 AM]
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Nov 25, 2006 @ 1:25 AM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
TiNkErGrRrRrR


Posts: 13,252
Look for the signs, those who squawk the loudest usually have something to hide.
I won`t say that I`m Genuine because i really could care less about the opinions of one or two people who like to make others look bad just to hide their own faults.
You just have to trust your instincts Deb.
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Nov 25, 2006 @ 2:52 AM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
SHYBLONDE48


Posts: 1,142
How do you know if someone's genuine ?

I wish I knew...
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Nov 25, 2006 @ 7:38 AM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
chinabull2000


Posts: 7,009
Yep usually a lot of "bull chit" and no life outside the internet singles sites
Yes Sissy, please do tell. Perhaps I would be a better person if I went out more, leaving my daughter with a babysitter, hence I would have far fewer posts which, by your estimation, would make me a better person.
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Nov 25, 2006 @ 10:50 AM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
Tenacity1


Posts: 196
I don't think you can know for sure until you spend some real time with them...
Check out how they act around friends and family...if they don't have friends I run! Not fast cuz I'm old ...okay Hobble... I hobble away!
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Nov 25, 2006 @ 10:57 AM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
sciurusniger


Posts: 2,851
sissycat, thinking perhaps no one would notice she her Self has over 1,000 posts to HER current name, tried to sneak in her usual backhanded dig at other forum members when she said:
The one's with fewer, good quality post, do give you a great view of someone of maturity, intelligence, morals, values, and good advise.
Thereby proving her statement is not always true.

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Nov 25, 2006 @ 11:00 AM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
Classy_Blonde


Posts: 5,867
Kisses China's bald head.



Posts can be VERY telling, can't they? So stick around. It may not be easy to tell with a profile written by the person trying to sell themself. I have found the forums to be extremely beneficial.

In the forums, eventually, the true nature of the beast emerges.
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Nov 25, 2006 @ 11:18 AM How do you know if someone's genuine?    
Danceanddream


Posts: 5,740
According to Sissycat>>>
The one's with fewer, good quality post, do give you a great view of someone of maturity, intelligence, morals, values, and good advise....

Uh oh..... guess that means we're playing too many games (which account for alot of posts)! There goes my maturity, intelligence, morals, values and good adviCe... just because I like to have a little fun! Whoa is me!!
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