| Nov 25, 2005 @ 8:06 PM |
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jdctx
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I was thinking what if you had to submint a relationship resume and application. But one that could be verified..
something with relationship history
or notible things done while in a relationship
Why you left your last relationship?
Can we contact your previous partner?
references
I wonder how some of us would do... I think I'd do pretty good. ( at least I think so)...I can't think of anything real bad any of my past girlfrieds would say about me...Even when I was younger and immature at times... I never cheated or treated her badlly...
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| Nov 25, 2005 @ 8:10 PM |
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ExacerbatedTaboo
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I don't know about that dude...If a female wants to know all that about me then that just gives her more of a reason to write and ask....That's the way I see it...If I have to fill out an app to get a date then to hell with it.. I will just join a monastery or something.
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| Nov 25, 2005 @ 8:13 PM |
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spongebob777
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Ive got a vindictive ex wife floating around somewhere.
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| Nov 25, 2005 @ 8:13 PM |
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jdctx
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Of course but it wasn't meant literally..plus the same would have to apply to women too...
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| Nov 25, 2005 @ 8:13 PM |
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wandaful123
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Scary, sometimes the ex's don't see it the same way we do... I acn't have always been wrong could I? 
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| Nov 25, 2005 @ 8:19 PM |
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Felstaff
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After hearing some of the things my former employers have said about me after I left... ( I'm scared...I'm VERY SCARED!!!)
Jonathan
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| Nov 25, 2005 @ 10:19 PM |
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Bobbelieu
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You can contact my ex if you like...just make sure she's taking her medication first. 
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| Nov 25, 2005 @ 10:21 PM |
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MischeviousAngel
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not a good idea...
Of course in my case you would have to track down my one ex in prison (yep, I sent his butt there) and ask him what his opinion is... Of course then you have to ask yourself how much weight you are going to give the opinion of a man who is in prison for abusing his children to the point where one of them almost died....
Then there is the other ex... don't think he has an opinion of his own... Merely parrots what his mommy tells him his opinion is... of course the reason we got a divorce is because he was sleeping with his mommy so I am not sure that anyone would give much weight to "his" opinion either...
Funny... those are the only 2 men that I have been involved with that I am not still friends with...
Angel
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| Nov 25, 2005 @ 11:28 PM |
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lecriveuse
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gag, angel. that takes momma's boy 2 a level i can't stomach. 
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| Nov 25, 2005 @ 11:58 PM |
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danae74
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I wouldn't mind a reference check, I don't think. They wouldn't tell you anything you couldn't find out within two weeks of knowing me, lol! In fact, I only have three real exes, and they've all talked to one or both of the others about me. When they get really confused, they call my dad...not kidding, either. The only one of them who lives in my hometown is actually good friends with my father now. Very very strange, my life 
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 12:11 AM |
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Felstaff
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I wanna tune in to that soap, I think...Sounds as good, or better, than the one I'M livin... 
Jonathan
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 12:22 AM |
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danae74
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It is weird, isn't it? After I left my husband, he and my next partner talked for two years afterward. They gang up on me, you see...I still have no idea what all the fuss is about 
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 12:37 AM |
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Felstaff
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Well, for starters, not knowing you and all, all I can say is look at yourself...You are very lovely to look at...For starters... 
jonathan
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 12:52 AM |
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danae74
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Aww...
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 9:28 AM |
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kjm175
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they both cheated on me so I dont think they have alot to say negative about me! 
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 12:08 PM |
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someone_me
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jdctx,
If I may interupt all the flirting with danae for a moment (who still hasn't sent me her bikini pics btw  ), why would you want an application in the first place? I find it incredibly boring when a woman starts asking me "20 questions" (which seems as the only way most women know how to "qualify" a guy).
So here's what I do...
Sometimes when they start in I'll stop them immediately saying, "Whoa, whoa, whoa here! I'll tell you what, in order to make this date more fun, why don't you write down all your questions on a piece of paper and at the end of it we can take thirty minutes to both answer them and compare notes."
Or...
I come up with a funny answer for each question just to see what she's really made of.
"What do you do for a living?" (A question every woman will ask you at some point to qualify you.)
"I'm a pornographer."
"No, seriously, what do you do?"
"Okay, okay, I'm actually the lead dancer of a male review."
If she gets too very frustrated and mad, I know she's way too uptight for my liking. If she catches on and starts having fun with it herself, I know I'm in for a really good time.
The point is that an application of sorts doesn't really tell you if a person is fun, intelligent, exciting, etc. It doesn't reveal their true character.
Once again... just some thoughts to ponder.
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 12:30 PM |
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jdctx
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I can see your point someone..
Since I choose to compare finding someone to a finding a job.. I guess the first few date could be considered the the interviewing process..
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 1:49 PM |
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skinnybarncat
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[I wouldn't mind a reference check, I don't think. They wouldn't tell you anything you couldn't find out within two weeks of knowing me, lol! In fact, I only have three real exes, and they've all talked to one or both of the others about me. When they get really confused, they call my dad...not kidding, either. The only one of them who lives in my hometown is actually good friends with my father now. Very very strange, my life [/QUOTE]]
 take notes!! write up your life as a tv sitcom!  if you get it onair, let me play one of the parts! 
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 2:20 PM |
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ash_is_unforgetable
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I don't think I'd like the whole application thing because I know I am horrible at job applications seeing that no one ever calls me for interviews lol so I'm sure I wouldn't be good at a dating application... I'd be ok with a reference check, my one and only ex would tell you that I'm confusing and that you will never figure me out, and that I am way over emotional. So he'd pretty much just be telling someone what I have already told them. So I got nothing to hide.
*AsH
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 10:11 PM |
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Virtuosa4
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What the heck?! Speaking of applications....I just filled out the 'personality profile' on another dating service...they said they couldn't find me a compatible match within 120 miles! Apparently I am incompatible with the entire state of Ohio. What a boost of self-esteem. (: *sigh*
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