| Nov 26, 2005 @ 2:52 PM |
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t_h_e_b_r_a_t
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For those of you who actually believe that you are expected to have sex on the third date, what classifies as a date? Sure, it's easy to tell sometimes when it is the usual prearranged meeting to go out, but what about just running into each other, or just hanging out around the house? One guy even tried to say that stopping by on his way home from work to grab the sunglasses he'd left on my coffee table was considered a date LOL
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 2:56 PM |
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MarysPlace
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I didn't know I was supposed to wait until the third. Damn!
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 2:57 PM |
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t_h_e_b_r_a_t
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LOL I think it is stupid to put any kind of number. I am just asking because so many men have quoted this infamous line.
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 2:59 PM |
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someone_me
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You mean guys actually wait till the third date?!! Why, I never knew I was supposed to do that. I'm telling you, something's wrong with all the guys around here. And here all these women gave me the impression they wanted it on the first. 
[Edited on 11/26/2005 3:01 PM]
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 3:01 PM |
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summersquall
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Quite frankly if she expects sex on the third date there won't be a fourth...
How can you possibly get to know someone well enough in 3 dates to share your bed with them?
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 3:01 PM |
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Angel54214
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Hi brat..  I not sure if I am helping you out, but I will try! I am kind of old fashion, guess it was cause I was raised in the older days when men would call you up and ask you out on a date. He arrives to pick you up and you go on your merry way somewhere. I don't know what your first and second dates where like with this guy, so judging from what you said on the third, seems like he stopping by to pick up something he left the second (date?), humm so I can't add anything else solid at this point. Need more info on the first 2 meets to help you further  Angel
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 3:04 PM |
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Angel54214
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Dates and Sex do not go hand n hand... 
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 3:04 PM |
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Slinfear
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Personally, and I know I am an exception not a rule,
Sex to me is not a major part of a relationship, and as such, is close to the last thing discussed.
I do agree that if two people are not sexually compatible, the relationship will not work, but there are so many other aspects to the relationship to consider before sex.
If it takes three weeks of getting the important aspects out the way first, it does...If it is 4 dates down the line...Or 20 dates down the line, it doesn't matter.
What matters is the reason for dating is finding someone you are interested in spending a part of your life with...Hopefully the REMAINDER of your life...
When you're both 100+, will sex really be THAT important??
MJ
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 3:05 PM |
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t_h_e_b_r_a_t
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LOL We only had one actual date if you ask me. He was the one who claimed that stopping by qualified as one. And no, there never was a second date. He was just too much of a nut job all around.
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 3:07 PM |
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t_h_e_b_r_a_t
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I pretty much agree with all that has been said so far on this thread. I was just asking those who actually believe in this stupid rule what they thought made a date or not.
FYI- Slinfear is a cutie.
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 3:10 PM |
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someone_me
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Dates and Sex do not go hand n hand...
True, I usually skip the dates altogether. 
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 3:10 PM |
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Slinfear
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Sorry you had to deal with such a moron, Brat..You're better than that any ol' way!
As for the other... 
Uh...Yeah..
MJ
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 3:45 PM |
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peaches_n_cream2002
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Well that was a bit harsh and uncalled for.
As far as which date to wait for.... well, I guess I skipped something, lol.
I've never been on a date. But I'm definitely no virgin. I have a feeling I've been doing things backwards.
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 4:10 PM |
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illinibab81
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You're funny,Mary,u crack me up!
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 4:21 PM |
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MotownManiax
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First date, third date, last date (lol), it's up to the couple. I've seen total strangers hit it off at parties and then go missing for a few hours (one of those house parties, houses have bedrooms, ahhh, you get the idea). They sure weren't talking the price-a-gas.
On the other hand I've known people that have dated for weeks/months and only kissed (at least that's what they say).
It just depends how strong the physical attraction is and how willing the mind.
I will say this, with the spread of STD's and, if you're a young-un, pregnancy, you better have protection no matter WHEN you do it.
Other than that, enjoy...lol.
[Edited on 11/26/2005 4:22 PM]
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 4:37 PM |
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Talonz59
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houses have bedrooms
bathrooms work quite well too, especially with a nice long countertop.
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 4:43 PM |
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Slinfear
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For those out in public excursions, bathroom stalls work quite nicely...Er...Or so I'm told...
MJ
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 4:51 PM |
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MarysPlace
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I've never been on a date. But I'm definitely no virgin. I have a feeling I've been doing things backwards.
That's what I'm talkin' about!
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 5:25 PM |
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ExacerbatedTaboo
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So ladies...What is your thoughts on a guy kissing you and then gripping that ass in the process on the first date? That wouldn't fall into a sexual context really unless you took your clothes off and I'm not talking about that.
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| Nov 26, 2005 @ 6:50 PM |
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ash_is_unforgetable
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Well I dont have much experience with dating seeing that I pretty much married the first guy who made it to the third date lol. But I do think a rule like that seems sort of silly. I would think that you should wait til your 100% ready and comfortable. In MY oppion I think the 3rd date is aweful soon to even be considering sex with a person!
*AsH
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