| Dec 21, 2006 @ 6:42 PM |
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Noble_Saxon
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Im not going to lie, when I am using a website and Im looking for my match. I get scared away just by the way someone looks. Its hard to send them an email or wink because you know that if you actually meet them? You'll probabyl have to entertain them or else they'll call you boring and all kinds of bad names just to make themselves feel good like they actually did somthing fun the whole time besides sit there looking cute and expecting you to do everything.
I was using this website once, and almost every girl on it was attractive. I couldnt email not one of them. I always think of what they will say or think. And you know attractive people are very very materalistic and picky too, so dealing with them is a hand full. Thats why you dont see to many "attractive couples together" because people are scared or either intimadated by someones looks. I know for a fact I am handsome but not in the way a woman will probably think. Im more appealing to the alternitive crowd, you know "Goth/Punk" so if I wanted a regular like person they might not find me attractive or anything.
Plus I want to try Asian girls this time. But its somewhat difficult. Asians arent open minded enough, so it will be a challenge finding one I dont have to "entertain" but I guess it wont really hurt to try.
Does anyone else feel frighten by a persons good looks ?
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 7:16 PM |
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Ron9
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I pass on ..... well most but esp the real lookers that are dragging about 300 guys on their "friends" list.
I too would like to meet some nice (local) Asian females. Most of them even the extra nice looking ones that would be in my target age group - are not looking for young stud muffins - like 95% of the "white" gals are. I have no idea how to even try to meet some (that are local).
(dang fingers)
[Edited on 12/21/2006 7:34 PM]
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 7:26 PM |
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DiamondRain
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The problem is that exceptionally hot women are getting hit on so much that it is very difficult to get with them. Many of them have seen so many ways of guys trying to hit on them that they are just completely jaded, and sick and tired of even being approached. Some of them (understandably) develop complexes (and even fears) from so many guys ogling them all the time. It can really be frightening for a woman believe it or not.
But the irony is that some of them are actually extremely lonely! Sometimes they develop a wall to keep all the guys out, and to protect them from the constant attention. That can lead to a real sense of loneliness because it tends to keep even the well intentioned guys out too. It can be a real problem for exceptionally beautiful women..
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 7:46 PM |
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painter007
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I think that attractive men have alot to say and are really very sweet. Maybe some are afraid to email them due to their own insecurities?
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 7:46 PM |
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LSU79
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But the irony is that some of them are actually extremely lonely! Sometimes they develop a wall to keep all the guys out, and to protect them from the constant attention. That can lead to a real sense of loneliness because it tends to keep even the well intentioned guys out too. It can be a real problem for exceptionally beautiful women..
I've heard that theory my whole life, but have yet to see in real life.
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 7:48 PM |
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DiamondRain
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I've heard that theory my whole life, but have yet to see in real life.
Which part of that in particular have you not seen?
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 7:55 PM |
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Jankia
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Maybe what your lacking is confidence.I dont see how you could possibly be intimidated or frightened by anyone else,attractive or not if you are are confident in yourself.
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 7:56 PM |
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painter007
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totally agree Jankia.
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 9:14 PM |
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robodad
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Does anyone else feel frighten by a persons good looks ? Luckily, I don't scare easily
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 9:20 PM |
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travelnfrog
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As a "mature" (I refuse to say older  ) lady, I find that the better looking men in my age group are looking for eye candy...women 10-20 years younger than I am. That leaves me with the 70+ y/o guys.  So...no chance to be intimidated by them...
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 9:59 PM |
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LSU79
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Which part of that in particular have you not seen That they're actually extremely lonely because of their good looks.
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 10:10 PM |
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PullMyFinger
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Plenty of eye candy out there 40+....even 48+......mainly 48 plus..but....nevermind...
Brilliant and Beautiful people are people too...I'm shallow....so, I prefer attractive women.....they eventually fill out temporary restraining orders on me....but thats just a speedbump.
Any younger than 35 and they smell funny anyway..
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 10:10 PM |
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Ron9
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There is a difference between being intimidate by someone and having no interest in being just another groupie - to them.
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 10:12 PM |
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spongebob777
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Any younger than 35 and they smell funny anyway..
Ya gotta buy an old people scented air freshener and hang it around their neck.
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 10:14 PM |
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PullMyFinger
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LOL....scented Bling....
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 10:22 PM |
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spongebob777
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Is L'eau D'funeral considered a "bling" scent?
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 10:39 PM |
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PullMyFinger
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L'eau D'funeral...a new fragrance from Mort Odeure by Britney...Stop em dead in their tracks.....
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 10:41 PM |
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Palomino
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roboadad said:
Luckily, I don't scare easily
I do...but luckily I went for it anyway.
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 10:45 PM |
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julia143
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People are people....I don't care what they look like.
I have met Adonis and he was also the kindest, down to earth man I ever met.
I have met Uglyfugly and he was the most materialistic man I ever met.
People are people...it's a mixed bag of nuts...you can not categorize...or sterotype...it'll backfire!
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 11:41 PM |
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DiamondRain
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That they're actually extremely lonely because of their good looks.
I see LSU. Thanks. Well, I'd have to say that I have observed that certain kind of loneliness in numerous exceptionally beautiful women in my life.
It may be that it is not easy to see sometimes. When everyone adores you for your appearance, and often fail to see beyond that, the world can be a very lonely place. It's the Marilyn Monroe syndrome.
Also, it's common for people to assume that someone with such exceptional beauty is always happy, after all, what could they possibly have to be sad about. So when people like that are actually very sad, it sometimes isn't recognized. And that can be a very depressing thing for anyone. They are always expected to be happy.
There is a lot more psychology that revolves around the problems related to being exceptionally attractive, but thats enough. In my own experiences, I've observed these things, but I guess not everyone has.
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