| Dec 21, 2006 @ 9:50 PM |
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STLRAMS
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Well i met this girl named Gloria about a month ago and we exchanged numbers.she calls me at least once a day everyday since we first met.We have hung out a lot at her house and watched TV.She has been single for awhile now and told me I'm the first guy she's invited to her house since she moved in Chicago 2 years ago.we laugh and she says she likes hanging out with me.We have a lot in common and she says I'm a really nice guy.She even offered to bring me food last week cause i was battling a bad cold which i thought was so nice.She said what she likes about me is the first night i was over i wasn't all over her to have sex .well last Saturday we got some pizza and wine as we enjoyed the football game that was on.She then was a bit tired so we was leaning her head on my chest which i thought was cute.well it was time for bed so i figure i better find somewhere on the couch to sleep.She then says come sleep in my room which took me a bit by surprise cause a girl wouldn't let a guy friend sleep in the same bed or would she?well during the night i woke up to find her right in my face with her arm over my arm.Fast forward i told my friends what happen and they all said dude she was pretty much throwing herself to you to make the first move.She did keep saying while we were in bed don't be scared but i couldn't figure of what cause its not like i was acting nervous or anything so it had to be about making a move.Finally last night i stayed over and she had no wine cause i was thinking maybe the wine had her acting like that last week.so in bed i noticed again she was right in my face close to me.Finally i want to make a move but i wont lie I'm a bit scared she may say no i was just being a nice friend nothing more.
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 10:03 PM |
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LSU79
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Your friends are right.
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 10:18 PM |
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ash_is_unforgetable
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females can be very confusing lol. I can see why your geting mixed signals. My lame advice would be to ask her how she feels about you and try to get some sort of answer that way instead of not know and making a move because that could just ruin things (or not).
*AsH
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 10:18 PM |
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Pete73052
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Dude... you're being an idiot. Get some of that. What, are you waiting for a sign from God? Once she's gotten you in bed, waiting to make YOUR move is pretty silly. Enjoy...
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 10:26 PM |
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ash_is_unforgetable
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ok once again I am confused, so because two people sleep in the same bed that automatically means something is or should happen??? Apparently I'm geting dumber by the day because I've slept in the same bed as men and haven't done anything more then sleeping lol 
*AsH
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 10:58 PM |
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Pete73052
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Not saying anything SHOULD happen, but I think once two people are in bed, neither one has a right to be shocked when the other makes a move... I mean, especially when nothing to the contrary has been said beforehand. If someone invites you into their bed, that's not "mixed signals". If somebody invites you in their bed and says "Now, nothing is going to happen - right?" - and then is in your face - that would be mixed signals. I think the last think a guy wants to do is to get into the "safe" zone with a woman.
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 11:03 PM |
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julia143
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Don't be scared = let's do it! 
If I ever asked a man to sleep in my bed....I'm expecting some 
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 11:26 PM |
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travelnfrog
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Me, too, Julia. Otherwise there's a guest room available.... 
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| Dec 21, 2006 @ 11:51 PM |
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swingpup
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I've slept in the same bed as women and haven't done anything more then sleep.....Ya, back when I was 3 years old maybe. When I'm invited to "sleep" in a woman's bed you can bet that the bed will be making the oh so familiar and popular squeak-squeak.  
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| Dec 22, 2006 @ 12:46 AM |
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spicygamble
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You need to speak to this girl... clear the air.
Not all girls want sex when they curl up with a guy.
I know quite a few girls who have cuddle buddy guy pals, I've had them, too.
Just because your buddies would've "hit that" doesn't mean you will.
She may want this... she may want that...
...bottom line, no one here knows what she wants~ she does, so go ask her.
If you're lucky, she's being coy & she likes your polite reserve.
If you're not that brand of lucky, she simply respects you as a trustworthy pal.
That's not half bad.
:)
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| Dec 22, 2006 @ 12:48 AM |
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STLRAMS
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That's the thing she does have a guest room yet still invited me to her bed.Other thing i did put my arms around her when we were sleeping the other night.She then tells me on the phone today i notice you are opening up more.So it would seem pretty obvious she just wants me to make a move already. 
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| Dec 22, 2006 @ 1:19 AM |
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candylily
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Doesn't seem to be any mixed signals to me. What do you want, a printed invitation? 
And I'm not sure where some of you ladies are finding men who will actually go to sleep while in the same bed with you unless you're married to them. I learned a long time ago the "we can just cuddle" line from a guy was a joke.
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| Dec 22, 2006 @ 1:31 AM |
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steveemac
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It seems like her signals are pretty clear -sort of- but what about your signals-to you? Are YOU comfortable -truly- with taking that step already? Maybe that's what's stopping you...
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| Dec 22, 2006 @ 1:41 AM |
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MotownManiax
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If you have to ask advice on a public forums about this, you need sexual therapy ....
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| Dec 22, 2006 @ 1:44 AM |
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budo13
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DUDE green light means go!GO GO GO
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| Dec 22, 2006 @ 5:21 AM |
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carpediem48
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Maybe she is naive and doesn't realize how the sleeping body can 'still'act when the mind.... the conscious ''control center"  .... is sleeping.
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| Dec 22, 2006 @ 8:08 AM |
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ynot77
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Doesn't seem to be any mixed signals to me. What do you want, a printed invitation?
well Candy if ya got one laying around ..umm i'll send you my mailing address..just shoot it up here n i'll be right there 
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| Dec 22, 2006 @ 8:40 AM |
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Palomino
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I have slept in the same bed with male friends and not done anything, but dude....OP....this girl wants you. Go for it! 
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| Dec 22, 2006 @ 8:52 AM |
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razzired
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Is she asleep when you wake up to find her all over you? If that's the case, then you're just one big body pillow at that moment. You can't control what your body does while you're asleep.
But....she's invited you to sleep with her - in her bed - twice. She's telling you she's interested without telling you she's interested. Not fair, but it's a game some women play because God forbid they actually say, "I want to have sex with you" in so many words.
The next time you're playing body pillow, let nature take its course. Be prepared for the next morning, though, because with this girl, you're probably going to hear lots of "I never do this sort of thing," "I can't believe I got so carried away," "I never intended to have sex," blah blah blah. Agree with her, make all the right noises, but really - yes, she did intend for it to happen, she just wanted the first move to come from you.
MJ
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| Dec 22, 2006 @ 8:55 AM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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^^^^^^^^^^^^^ What she said
As stated above, there are no mixed signals here, unless you've never exchanged a more than just friendly kiss. If you have, it's time.
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