| Nov 27, 2005 @ 8:53 AM |
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pstoc88377
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Do you women like the wimp that asks if he can kiss you or the man that just "takes it"?
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| Nov 27, 2005 @ 9:22 AM |
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Scooterkist
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I don't think a man is considered a wimp if he asks for a kiss.
Personally, it depends on the circumstances. 
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| Nov 27, 2005 @ 10:22 AM |
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sordofadonkey
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If I have to ask it's not the right time.
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| Nov 27, 2005 @ 12:04 PM |
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conny90045
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I think when a man asks to kiss is because he has respect for the woman. There is nothing wrong with that. Or maybe "sordofadonkey" is right, maybe it's just not the right timing yet.
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| Nov 27, 2005 @ 5:57 PM |
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ExacerbatedTaboo
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I agree..If I want to kiss someone that I am not sure wants to be kissed then I will ask them in a cute way....Usually follows blushing or having a "i just screwed the neighbors cat" smile on my face cause I'm kinda shy but it gets my point across 
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| Nov 27, 2005 @ 6:15 PM |
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DipityDoo
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I'd like a guy to just go in for it but
1) god, please, not way too soon. He should be able to sense it! And if he has to ask....
2) when a guy goes for it and you break it off, turn away, etc...do NOT keep trying for the love of GOD!
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| Nov 27, 2005 @ 7:04 PM |
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cypher2365
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back in the day i remember i was nervous when i was going out with my first girlfriend and did not know what to really do, it took me by surprise when she said "why don't you kiss me",  , i was really confused on what to do, so..yeah i did..
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| Nov 27, 2005 @ 8:48 PM |
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JenRNinOhio
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Being in the health care profession, I am all too aware of the abundance of frivolous lawsuits ... often (IMHO) inspired by those TV advertisements of lawyers/ law corporations ...
Now ... Sexual Harrasssment Suits ...
While I agree that most of the time one usually knows if it will be OK .. if the timing is right ... Poor, poor men must protect themselves from the possiblity of a assault charge. .. Dang!! Pretty sad, isn't it?
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| Nov 27, 2005 @ 9:07 PM |
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MotownManiax
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The best kisses are never planned...Spontaneity Rules!!! 
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 2:17 PM |
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Outdoorjoe
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If she is interested and you try to give her a kiss... It sure as hell isn't going to hurt your chances any!
If she isn't interested it probably won't matter. Unless of course you are a GREAT kisser and it actually helps the cause! In either case, going for it at the right time is a win-win situation. 
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 2:43 PM |
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CynCity
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I have to agree with Motown here, it's best to be spontaneous. If you can read the body language, you don't have to ask, you'll know.
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 3:48 PM |
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johnw_6
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with Sordo on this one - if you have to ask it's clearly not the right moment yet.
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| Nov 29, 2005 @ 2:55 PM |
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CHERRYBABY25
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you no what i really love when a guy walks u to the door and walks away and then about 5 seconds later says oh wait i forgot something and grabs your waist kisses u a light but long kiss about (30sec) and says have a good night and leaves u breathless and wanting more for the next time the both of u meet. i think that is so romantic!! 
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| Nov 29, 2005 @ 3:09 PM |
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suthunsweet
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Timing is everything. Body language SHOULD tell you, but some people can't read that. I pretty much had to kiss the man I am with now. When I did he was pleasantly surprised and had been wanting to, but had missed the signals. I WISH he had of asked. 
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| Nov 29, 2005 @ 3:23 PM |
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someone_me
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While I agree that most of the time one usually knows if it will be OK .. if the timing is right ... Poor, poor men must protect themselves from the possiblity of a assault charge. .. Dang!! Pretty sad, isn't it?
Now Jen, do you know exactly how many assault charges I had to file last year alone against women for this very reason? 
Look, I think most women expect this sort of thing to happen when out. If it's a bad date, they dread it. If it's a good one, it's something to look forward to.
So here's what to do if you really want to turn up the tension at the end of a date. Walk her to the door, say whatever it is you are going to say, look her in the eyes... look down at her lips... look back in her eyes... back down to her lips... sigh... and then turn and walk off. As you are walking away, turn back around and give her a nice little grin as she's standing there wondering what just happened.
You know she wants it, she knows she wants it, make her wait.
[Edited on 11/29/2005 3:24 PM]
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| Nov 29, 2005 @ 3:45 PM |
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suthunsweet
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Someone, you are just a big tease. That does work sometimes, but then again we just might get  . If I have been looking forward to that kiss and you do that and walk away I am going to wonder if my breath stinks or what is the problem.
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| Nov 29, 2005 @ 11:36 PM |
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jbabynumba5
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I dont think a man is a wimp if he asks for a kiss however i dont think it is necessary, he should know if she wants to be kissed and if he cant tell than maybe it's not the right time
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 1:30 PM |
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Kimmaranclh
Posts: 132
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I like a man that is smart enough to read the signs and he'll know if he should kiss me or not...He won't have to ask..
Not a fan of being asked because then it feels premeditated...
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 1:42 PM |
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13lucky
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Everything is premedicated
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 7:26 PM |
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grumblebear
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I have found no matter which course I took it was the wrong one... I kissed women who wanted to be asked, and asked women who said asking ruined the moment...
sometimes it worked out... but these days with all the lawsuits being filed.... I won't take that chance anymore...
we had a wife file suit for sexual harrassment against her husband and win in the courts recently
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