| Dec 26, 2005 @ 8:12 PM |
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kaden69
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the man that just takes it 
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 8:24 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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the man that just takes it
Absolutely. If I don't want him to kiss me, I know how to dodge....
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 8:28 PM |
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spongebob777
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Guess I'm a wimp. I don't even ask or try. The last one just sprung it on me herself. 
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 9:34 PM |
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Angel54214
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Guess I'm a wimp. I don't even ask or try. The last one just sprung it on me herself
Was she a stray Spongey?? 
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 10:15 PM |
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spongebob777
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Was she a stray Spongey??
She was wearing a ring
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 10:20 PM |
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Aselune
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 I just realized that I spend so much time with my head in a book..I can't remember my last...first kiss lol OMG I need to get out more  but fellas..I say if you feel it..do it!!!!! 
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 10:29 PM |
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Classy_Blonde
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On a first date, maybe a kiss on the cheek. I guess it would depend on the chemistry.
When it came down to the real deal, I think the man would have been given enough signals to know it was okay for him to move in for the kill.
I have never, ever had a man ask me, and I've done a lot of kissing.
[Edited on 12/26/2005 10:49 PM]
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 10:33 PM |
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wandaful123
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I've had some ask, kinda shyly, and it was sweet. The feeling was already out there, you both knew it... and others most often just went for it. I find it gentlemanly when they ask, not enough real gentlemen left out there. And yes, I do understand some women don't like the old fashioned ways anymore and often times men don't know what to do.
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| Dec 26, 2005 @ 10:38 PM |
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ruready4me2luvu
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Just take the kiss  And when that first kiss happens, I want it to make my knees knock and my eyes roll, make my whole body tremble cause it feels so good and dont want it to stop for 3 days! Leave me breathless.  Is this thing on? 
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| Jan 23, 2006 @ 6:52 PM |
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AngelLight
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"If I have to ask it's not the right time"
As a woman, I agree with this, yet having said that I also appreciate it when a man asks. To me he is anything but a "wimp", he is a gentle man.
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| Jan 23, 2006 @ 8:08 PM |
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luvshorses644
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I don't believe a man who asks is a wimp. Perhaps this might stem from having felt the moment on his part, but the lady did not and didn't appreciate his "going for it".
With that said, I think we have all been at that kissing station, and trust me, you either feel that chemistry or you don't.
I love it when our eyes connect, that spark happens (you know, the kind that sends ripples up your neck), the blood begins to percolate, and our lips are slightly magnetized and tenderly touch for a little longer than we first thought we would. Gentle, succulent, warm and teasing kisses...
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| Jan 23, 2006 @ 8:22 PM |
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7eternity
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Neither the one who asks or takes it.
Like Motown said, not planned but spontaneous.
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| Jan 23, 2006 @ 10:16 PM |
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SnowDreamer
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Oh, I definitely prefer a man that just takes it. Sometimes, I might not even be sure if I like a guy, so if he asks me first, I might not say yes....but if he reaches over and kisses me, I might find that I really do like him after all thanks to that kiss. That has happened recently. I was thinking about the kiss for hours afterwards....nice!! 
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| Jan 23, 2006 @ 11:57 PM |
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ruready4me2luvu
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Im gonna TAKE a whole bunch of kisses Saturday. He can give em or Im gonna take em 
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| Jan 24, 2006 @ 12:34 AM |
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crackerchickie
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Personally, if I were kissed when it wasn't wanted or warranted, the guy wouldn't be up on assault charges. He'd be sucking breakfast from a straw though. I don't like being touched, by anyone, unless I think it's time.
However, for the nonpsychotic general population, I think you know when it's the right time. You just know, and so does he.
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| Jan 25, 2006 @ 3:10 AM |
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sapphireblues
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That's one of those "depends on the guy, depends on the moment" kinda things.
There have been times when it would have been romantic to be asked. And again, times when I just sat there thinking "Shut Up and Kiss Me!"
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| Jan 25, 2006 @ 3:56 AM |
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w_i_c_k_e_d
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I think it kills the mood if a guy has to ask.I have been asked, and felt weird saying "uh..ok.."
Just go in for the kill....a lot of the time, I make the move, it just feels right. 
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| Jan 25, 2006 @ 7:46 PM |
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Lee_Danger
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I would be totally turned off if a man asked if he could kiss me. I would much rather he just do it.
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| Jan 25, 2006 @ 7:49 PM |
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Lee_Danger
Posts: 4,505
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back in the day
gee, cypher, you're only 19... when you say "back in the day", were you referring to a past life?
lol
jk
Smiles
Lee
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| Jan 25, 2006 @ 8:04 PM |
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Pete73052
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I don't believe in asking. If I don't feel sure about if it's appropriate to give the girl a kiss, I MAKE her give me one. I'll give her a hug, and then put my face in front of hers - but I don't kiss her. 90% of the time, she'll kiss me - and then have to excuse herself.
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