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Nov 28, 2005 @ 1:07 AM Your Advice    
conny90045


Posts: 144
I have a question for you. Do you think it's a good idea to have a woman give a guy a gift to show that she is interested? Or do you think if a woman does that it scares the guy away?
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Nov 28, 2005 @ 1:09 AM Your Advice    
ExacerbatedTaboo


Posts: 1,401
No I don't for the simple reason that if you buy that person a gift then they may feel obligated to date you. You don't want to think that the guy just went out with you because you bought them something.
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Nov 28, 2005 @ 2:53 AM Your Advice    
MACADU


Posts: 53
Hey, if a guy can't tell you're interested by the way
you look at him then he won't be swayed by a gift...
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Nov 28, 2005 @ 3:30 AM Your Advice    
buni


Posts: 978
Nope.
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Nov 28, 2005 @ 5:43 AM Your Advice    
Slinfear


Posts: 114
There is also the opposite extreme from what taboo says...What about if they're only there for what you can give them in the future?
I say no gifts before you're dating...Jusy MO, though
Jonathan
(MJ)
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Nov 28, 2005 @ 8:29 AM Your Advice    
sordofadonkey


Posts: 72
Dont do it. Someone did that to me once on the second "date" and it made me feel really wierd. She was nice and everything, but I don't think it's appropriate unless you're in a relationship already.

[Edited on 11/28/2005 8:30 AM]
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Nov 28, 2005 @ 8:36 AM Your Advice    
skinnybarncat


Posts: 381
i agree with above NO's....

most of the time gifts are a form of manipulation at some level.... to

if you appreciate someone's words or actions make a clear statement to that and see what response is....and, if you give a gift at a later time make it something you both can share.. ..then, give a car or vacation to paris!..
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Nov 28, 2005 @ 8:42 AM Your Advice    
waiting41


Posts: 1,926
Paris sounds great! One simple option would be to ask the guy out if you are interested!
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Nov 28, 2005 @ 11:37 AM Your Advice    
conny90045


Posts: 144
Thanks all!!! Now I know where I have been going wrong.
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