| Nov 28, 2005 @ 7:51 AM |
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moangel2love
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i joined this site a while back and it seemed or i thought that i would get alot or a fairly amount of responses and that,well i was wrong,way wrong.it seems to me the only way that im going to get any kind of response or someone actually wanting to meet me and that is if i was in a different body other than the one that i am in now.it seems like if you are plus size and slightly disabled due to your ex or a stark raving beauty you dont have a fighting chance to find true love on this site or any site period.seems men these day only go for the much thinner woman and that,they base their opinions of what they are looking for on looks,and appearance.to me i think that is descrimanation against those like me that are plus size.it isnt what the person looks like on the outside it is what is on the inside that counts.i am a pretty nice person whom has a big heart and alot of love to give to the right person and that,and it just doesn't seem fair that im not being given a fair chance to find true love and that just because im plus size and slightly disabled.  
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 8:52 AM |
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waiting41
Posts: 1,926
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Hang in there! Sounds like you are a nice person who has been through alot of crap! There are lots of good men out there and true happiness is not found through how we are packaged on the outside. Be patient and do some searching on your own. It's time you laughed and enjoyed yourself!  Good luck.
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 9:09 AM |
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ICE24
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Hey Cutie don't sweat it! There are lots of idiots in here that have their bias views about weight, race and other "preferences". It's their loss. You stay as sweet as you are and someone will come along. Peace
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 9:10 AM |
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Guerrero
Posts: 139
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Part of your problem for the moment is that you're going through a divorce. Especially if your injuries are due to your soon to be ex husband. Most guys are going to wait untilthe drama is over.
I know I would... I mean getting involved now would just be asking for trouble especially if your husband is the violent type. It has nothing to do with your looks.
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 9:16 AM |
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ash_is_unforgetable
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Hi and Welcome sorry to see you aren't enjoying this site very much. Seriously though there are people who are judgemental everywhere, not just on this site, its a fact of life, but instead of leting that bother you , you need to be strong, tuff it up and keep on lookin! I wish you the best of luck!
*AsH
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 11:24 AM |
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skinnybarncat
Posts: 381
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 Hey, Neighbor!
see you are just up the road from me! 
i'll send you an email and we can talk if you want..? 
But, in the meantime, go to walmart or other shopping mall and just watch the couples go by...matches of all shapes and sizes!!!!! lots of ugly ole guys like me.. 
if you have time watch dr. phil and oprah and pick up some new ideas/perspectives...  i did! now want to be a very rich black woman on tv!... 
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 3:40 PM |
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conny90045
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Hi Moangel2love
You sound like a nice person. I know how you feel but don't give up. It's not easy being overweight and being judged but there are good men out there. You just need to be patient and one day he will come along. I know there are many jerks out there but there are nice ones too. Hang in there. Your not alone 
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 4:00 PM |
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facetrock
Posts: 51
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I hate to tell you this but men have been attracted to thin women since men have been men. The same way women are attracted to men that have good bodys.
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 4:52 PM |
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ruready4me2luvu
Posts: 1,737
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That is a total CROCK OF CRAP Facetrock. I can take a poll right here right now and I guarantee you the guys will pick a woman with some bisquit on her over a heroin addict looking woman built like a 11 year old. 
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 5:05 PM |
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CynCity
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You go, RUReady ...I lost alot of weight a couple of years ago due to stress, my 10 year old can now fit into the jeans I was wearing then. I was entirely too thin, and believe me, I lost every curve then that I finally have back now.
Moangel, give it some time. I agree that while you are still in the process of your divorce, men will shy away until it is over. That might be the best thing for you as well, there is alot of healing that needs to take place during a divorce and a new relationship might make that difficult. Good things will come to you when you are ready.
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 5:54 PM |
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facetrock
Posts: 51
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I am not talking concentration camp survivor thin. I am talking about a woman in good shape. If your 5 foot eight and weigh 300 lbs your not in good shape and are not going to be attractive to men. Its very rare that a guy will be attracted to someone like that.
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 6:07 PM |
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MarysPlace
Posts: 2,930
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Alrighty, here we go again...
Nobody is discriminating against you. People just happen to have different tastes. And if someone is just not attracted to overweight people, it's not discrimination.
I know this idea escapes a lot of our resident rocket scientists, but trust me, that's what it is.
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 6:29 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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Go Mary!!!
A page like this just got shut down, puhleeeze let's not start another one. Choice is choice is choice....it's not discrimination. All the complaining in the world is not going to change who's attracted to whom.
Moangel...I sincerely wish you the best, and I hope you find a man who's looking for someone exactly like you, but if not, I hope you can find fulfillment anyway. Ain't no guarantees around here, no miracles and no quick fixes...by the way, have you sent out any emails to anyone who you thought might be interested based on his profile?
Good luck, all round!
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| Nov 28, 2005 @ 6:36 PM |
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spongebob777
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I'm starting to wonder if Geoffry Figer can get me laid.
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