| Jan 6, 2007 @ 8:54 PM |
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Dukums
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Ok folks I was just minding my own business reading a novel and came across the quote that said, "Do not chase a woman who does not want to be caught." That got my mind to thinking and well now the need to post. Here is the question and it is twofold.
A. Ladies how do you indicate that you are willing to be caught?
B. Men what signs do you look for in discerning if a woman wants to be caught?
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| Jan 6, 2007 @ 9:22 PM |
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Empath
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A. I would think that a woman who wants to be "caught" would stop once in awhile to make sure she was still being chased....thereby encouraging the pursuer.
If she is running and screaming "Help! Police!!", she doesn't want to be caught. 
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| Jan 6, 2007 @ 9:28 PM |
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spongebob777
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If she is running and screaming "Help! Police!!", she doesn't want to be caught.
Aww crap 
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| Jan 6, 2007 @ 9:37 PM |
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BandTMom
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A. I quit running.
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| Jan 6, 2007 @ 9:44 PM |
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definitelydi
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I think this is actually a good question. If I (personally) wanted to be caught, I'd certainly change my profile to say that I was looking for an LTR or marriage!
In the real world: I flirt less and listen more.
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| Jan 6, 2007 @ 9:50 PM |
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BandTMom
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It is a good question. I for one have never been fond of the chase. Oh sure, I like to be wooed and courted, but if I like someone, doggonit, why do I have to run away to keep them interested. Yes...once again...the thrill of the chase!
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| Jan 6, 2007 @ 9:59 PM |
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Loreli
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I don't believe in playing hard to get, so, there wouldn't be a "chase."
Just two people who meet and decide they really can enjoy each other's company-and do!
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| Jan 6, 2007 @ 10:06 PM |
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BandTMom
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And I agree!
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| Jan 6, 2007 @ 10:35 PM |
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Dukums
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Well all I know is that there is a lot of things to this single life that I just didn't know existed and that seem to be really contrary to finding someone in your life. I don't personally like games (other than board games or computer games) and rarely get it when someone is playing one.  So I had to ask this question to "learn" more. 
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| Jan 6, 2007 @ 10:48 PM |
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wandaful123
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I also agree this is a very valid question, but am also at a loss as to the answer!
I don't understand the whole idea of "games". It just doesn't make any sense to me. I can't fathom people intentionally playing with others emotions. I can't see what the gain could possibly be? I've never, and thankfully so, had to deal with "game players", at least not so as I've been aware of anyway
I wonder some times if people are just too quick to point the finger when in the initial stages of getting to know someone they find the feeling they have for another is not reciprocated?
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| Jan 6, 2007 @ 10:56 PM |
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icequeen241
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A. that's easy to answer. I goes like this..."I would really like to get to know you better"
I don't like being chased. I either like the guy or I don't
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| Jan 6, 2007 @ 11:05 PM |
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PullMyFinger
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I usually wait until a woman says "I want you PMF, I want you now....make me bark like a bad chihuahua"....then and only then, do I press my attack.
I stopped sniffing trees years ago....
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| Jan 6, 2007 @ 11:34 PM |
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loisday
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It appears that everyone agrees that the old...chase, coy, opps, you caught me game, is as outmoded as corsets.
JMO....A relationship, even the begining steps, needs frank, upfront communication.............anything else is dishonesty.
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| Jan 7, 2007 @ 12:25 AM |
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daisy315
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 OMG ! PMF ya got me screaming here ! ya killing me man!!!! 
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| Jan 7, 2007 @ 12:29 AM |
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duwant1
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Someone actually believes men read women’s profiles? 
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| Jan 7, 2007 @ 12:34 AM |
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daisy315
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geee.... I am so disillusioned Duwant
actually.. I don't play such games because the rules keep changing.. and I don't know them.
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| Jan 7, 2007 @ 12:42 AM |
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winterrenegade
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I don't chase women, if she can't be up front and honest with me in the begining then she aint worth it
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| Jan 7, 2007 @ 12:56 AM |
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TingleyAllOver
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"I want you PMF, I want you now....make me bark like a bad chihuahua"..
[Edited on 1/7/2007 1:08 AM]
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| Jan 7, 2007 @ 1:09 AM |
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sweet5red
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ok read my Profile ummm its obvious.. but please be real i am.. sweet N Louisiana
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| Jan 7, 2007 @ 1:47 AM |
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MotownManiax
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If she conveniently and constantly "trips" while I'm trying to catch her, she wants to be caught...either that or she's terribly uncoordinated.
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