| Jan 19, 2007 @ 6:05 PM |
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tatiana329
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Are you someone who dates primarily with your head or heart? Most are primary driven by one of the two and make other choices in the same manner... not just who they will date.
Which is your style ?
Is it and has it been working for you ?
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 6:13 PM |
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daisy315
Posts: 4,337
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hmmm.. I was told by someone here that I had no style... 
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 6:19 PM |
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jamminjerry
Posts: 3,780
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in my youth, with my heart. now after many stumbles and a few falls, my head. 
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 6:22 PM |
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dooney123
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I married my soon-to-be-ex based on my head; bad choice. So this time, I'm going with decisions based on my heart.
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 6:25 PM |
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tatiana329
Posts: 1,122
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In my youth, always with my heart. Now only with my head. Reading the posts... I am feeling kinda doomed now
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 6:27 PM |
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swingpup
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My head. The question is which head? This depending on the situation, sometimes it's with both "heads". During tea it's head 1 after it's generally head 2. It's worked well.   
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 6:27 PM |
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Dukums
Posts: 1,028
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I date with my belly! I have a cardboard sign and go down to the boulevard and hold it up. It says "will date for home cooking"
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 6:48 PM |
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wiccked
Posts: 4,411
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jeez, Dukums!!!!
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 6:52 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
Posts: 15,343
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It's always been with my head, maybe it's time for a change. 
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 7:01 PM |
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beckyiv42000
Posts: 12,065
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hmm hard one to answer .. I usually find I like to date guys that I can laugh with.. so part heart and part head and a WHOLE lotta libido 
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 7:05 PM |
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DiamondRain
Posts: 4,906
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I would say, that I would date her if she stimulates my head.  
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 7:18 PM |
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loisday
Posts: 1,333
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I want to date with my entire body!!!!
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 7:20 PM |
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swingpup
Posts: 4,105
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My head says (what a nice body it appears to be) 
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 10:03 PM |
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theophilus037
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I think that you have to date with both your head and your heart...
I usually date with my heart because if my hearts not in it its doomed anyway, but before i get to serious about a guy i definitely start using my head since alot of times its willing to notice things your heart would rather not. 
And I agree with DR...they defintely have to stimulate your mind!!! (Although if DR would have said head I think swingpup would have agreed too )
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 10:14 PM |
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spongebob777
Posts: 7,904
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Doggie.
Oh wrong style
I go with my heart.
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 10:21 PM |
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Empath
Posts: 5,094
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It's always been with my head, maybe it's time for a change
Same here.
This time...first he had my interest.....now he has my heart. 
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 11:30 PM |
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BandTMom
Posts: 28,436
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@ Dukums
With my heart...even now it's with my heart!
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| Jan 19, 2007 @ 11:35 PM |
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tatiana329
Posts: 1,122
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I've been considering which has been better as you know there is no fool proof ideal. For me, dating with my head and leaving feelings out of it ( at least for awhile) has worked out much better. I found a really stable, kind and decent man this time around.
When I went with my heart, I did not fare so well and feel most of those relationships were just a waste of my time. At some point both head and heart come into play... but for me dating using logic and leaving feelings out of it worked out better for me.
My feelings change but what I believe in doesnt, so I looked and found someone who had the characteristics and values I admired. After I was sure he had them, I let myself fall in love :)
crazy huh?
but it worked for me.
As they say, sometimes you just have to try something different.
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| Jan 20, 2007 @ 8:51 AM |
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twotall911
Posts: 12,863
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Ive tried both ways and found no matter how hard you think it still all comes from the heart in the long run
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| Jan 20, 2007 @ 8:54 AM |
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luvmycats
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I've always went with my heart. Next time, if there is a next time, I will listen to my head first. 
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