| Jan 22, 2007 @ 7:40 PM |
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mikeoutthere
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Do you find your kids to be an obstacle when it comes to finding a mate in your life….that wants more from you that just sex ?
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| Jan 22, 2007 @ 7:44 PM |
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wiccked
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my kids are grown and have no say so in my sex life......  or lack of.......  
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| Jan 22, 2007 @ 7:47 PM |
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LSU79
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yes, but I wouldn't use the word "obstacle".
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| Jan 22, 2007 @ 7:50 PM |
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kattsmeow
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They did before they graduated from high school. All my energy and everything in me was with them. I didn't have time for outside interference.
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| Jan 22, 2007 @ 8:07 PM |
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Raiynth
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I think the word, "obstacle" has a negative flavor to it. If you start thinking of kids in that regard - as something between you and your desires - you're putting yourself in a position where you might start to resent them. That seems unfair.
I would say though, that I think having kids makes you more careful about new relationships. There's certainly more complexity, and a lot more at stake, when you're responsible for more than just yourself.
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| Jan 22, 2007 @ 8:51 PM |
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Dukums
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An obstacle? No....A filter? Definately. My kids are part of me. And if a lady doesn't like my kids, well then she can take a long walk on a short pier. Just the simple fact. I have always accepted someone else's kids, maybe not always their behavior but definately accepted them. But I have not always had the same courtesy returned.
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| Jan 22, 2007 @ 8:59 PM |
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beckyiv42000
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sorry anyone that would consider a child an OBSTACLE shouldnt be a parent
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| Jan 22, 2007 @ 9:01 PM |
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grumblebear
Posts: 10,559
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no kids, and no plans to ever have kids, or deal with kids.... I'm alone for a reason....
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| Jan 22, 2007 @ 9:12 PM |
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Thanglhrly
Posts: 1,720
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No...........definitely not!! If someone really cares, they realize "You + Kids" , are a package deal. (JMO)
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| Jan 22, 2007 @ 9:13 PM |
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Loreli
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or deal with kids
AHA!
You told us you sang the wienie song for nieces and nephews....
the truth comes out now! You just wanted a ride in the wieniemobile-dint ya? 
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| Jan 22, 2007 @ 9:15 PM |
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SunBabe
Posts: 12,279
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An "obstacle"? Never...they've been nothing but PUSHY!
[Edited on 1/22/2007 9:23 PM]
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| Jan 22, 2007 @ 9:15 PM |
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beckyiv42000
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you got him there loreli
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| Jan 23, 2007 @ 12:07 AM |
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BandTMom
Posts: 38,049
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Me and mine are a package deal, although one is grown now.
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| Jan 23, 2007 @ 12:14 AM |
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budo13
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if you enter a relationship when the other person has kids ya gotta know it's a package not just him or her kids are great  never shyed away because of them.
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| Jan 23, 2007 @ 12:16 AM |
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BandTMom
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Can I send you mine, Budo...just for a few hours??? 
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| Jan 23, 2007 @ 12:19 AM |
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budo13
Posts: 3,609
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yeah i'll teach em some self defense
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| Jan 23, 2007 @ 12:20 AM |
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BandTMom
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Cool..then he can beat up his dad!!! 
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| Jan 23, 2007 @ 12:25 AM |
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budo13
Posts: 3,609
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defense not offense let me talk to dad we can have one of my famous chats 
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| Jan 23, 2007 @ 12:26 AM |
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| Jan 23, 2007 @ 12:27 AM |
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sweet5red
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well yall might think me crazy but i would love to meet a single dad with custody of his kid or kids.. would really be awesome to me if it were a toddler.. yes a little bitty one.. Sweet N Louisiana
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