| Nov 29, 2005 @ 11:52 PM |
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lobo65
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Just wondering how many guys miss those almost invisible signals that some women give out? I've never been much of a ladies man because I've always been too shy to approach women to whom I was attracted.
A female colleague said that I must have missed some signals along the way at some time. I said what signals? They'd have to hit me in the head with a 2 X 4 for me to pick up on anything. I honestly have never gotten the idea that a woman was flirting with me in real life.
Guys, how many times do you think women were flirting with you, and how many times do you think you might have missed some signals?
Ladies, how many times have you tried everything but the clue bat to the head, and still the guy didn't pick up on your signals?
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 12:20 AM |
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grumblebear
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missed signals? hmm I dunno about that, but I'd like to catch the signal that she is a psycho... a liar, or a cheat
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 12:25 AM |
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Slinfear
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I'm just the same (oops)...For some reason...Not looking, or just plain not ready to look... I have women hitting on me, or so I'm told...
My roomie (who happens to be female, and in attendence here on the forums) tells me all the time she was hitting on you, she was hitting on you, too...But, I never get it at the time... 
Guess I'm clueless...
MJ
[Edited on 11/30/2005 12:26 AM]
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 12:28 AM |
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Talonz59
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As sharp as I'd like to think I am...wow...sometimes I miss the most obvious...I literally have to be hit over the head with a brick, but hopefully they won't use one 
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 12:39 AM |
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wandaful123
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...sometimes I miss the most obvious...
Is it possible?
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(NEW) hey 11/13/2005 12:04 AM (EST) Talonz59
sitting in my outbox... hmmmm??
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 7:29 AM |
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skinnybarncat
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might have missed a few....  also, ignored a few.
one that i did not miss, though it took several hours to filter through, was a slight touch on the arm at a gathering....was the most satisfying relationship, but came at a horrible time.
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 7:36 AM |
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MarysPlace
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My roomie (who happens to be female, and in attendence here on the forums) tells me all the time she was hitting on you, she was hitting on you, too...But, I never get it at the time...
Guess I'm clueless...
Oh come on. Why would you be clueless? You are a cute guy, why wouldn't they be hitting on you...?
I have an opposite problem... I'm totally shocked if someone doesn't hit on me... 
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 9:04 AM |
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MotownManiax
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Lobo, I'm not a big fan of all this signals stuff. Either somebody makes it plain they like you or not. Why does even simple attraction have to be a game...Grrrrr!
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 10:12 AM |
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branchman
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This is the story of my life....or atleast part of it anyways. I'd hate to go back to high school here, but I am pretty sure there were two girls that I knew who really liked me, but I was too much of a dumb ass to pick up the signals back then. I thought these girls just liked to give me a rough time(keep in mind I got along with both of them well so it's not like they just hated me,lol), but by the time I figured out (and people started telling me about it) it was too late and they lost interest in me. Unfortunately, I have not picked up on signals that obvious since It seems like now that I am older the signals are way too subtle for me to pick up on.
I guess the real question here is what kind of signals should guys be looking for?
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 10:17 AM |
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Slinfear
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Mary...
the comment did not go unnoticed... ...Just kinda missed that one, too.
Jonathan
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 1:13 PM |
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13lucky
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Oh yea.. I miss them all the time..it's later I realize what happened or not happened :)
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 1:56 PM |
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athleticguy311
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Do you miss signals?
I think every guy misses all signals! We are told not to read to much into things, but then also accussed of missing obvious signals.
I don't know what to think.
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 7:13 PM |
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lobo65
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Motown, I am also a proponent of making one's intentions concrete. I can't speak for all men, but most of the ones that I have talked to about this subject say that most womens' signals are too vague to interpret.
I reiterate that this is what they'll have to do for me to know they like me. 
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 7:24 PM |
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someone_me
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Guys, remember, we are talking about women!  They think totally different than we do. We make eye contact with a woman across a room, smile and don't think anything else about it. On her end though, if she makes eye contact and smiles, and you don't go over and talk to her, she takes it as rejection.
If that happens with me now, and I actually catch it, I take that as a can't lose invitation because I'm going to go over and ask her if she always flirts so outrageously with every cute sexy guy she sees.
This is an area I haven't even really begun to comprehend. 
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 7:25 PM |
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ulalume
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invisible signals that some women give out?
Hell, it's not just us giving signals. I am proof positive that women don't always get the signals men give out. I'm frightfully oblivious when a man's into me. Unless he musters up the courage to flat out tell me, I'm off in la-la-land.
I try to just be blunt about these things because I miss them. I assume most people miss the signals, so I wold hope they'd return the bluntness favor.
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 8:39 PM |
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lobo65
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Ulalume, welcome to our world.
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 10:33 PM |
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spongebob777
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I'm pretty dense sometimes. About the only signal I don't miss is a baseball bat.
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 10:38 PM |
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MelMel
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Odd.. I haven't missed any signals.. but then I'm not male either LOL
I hear.. "well, if you come over, you can sleep over if you get too tired to drive back home"... signal caught!! My response... uhm.. no.. thanks.. [insert reason/excuse here]
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 10:41 PM |
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darkeagle
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I don't think I've ever noticed a signal in my entire life.
Are there signals?
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| Nov 30, 2005 @ 10:48 PM |
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MelMel
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Yep.. the left or right sorry
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