| Jan 27, 2007 @ 11:57 PM |
I lost so much today ugh (Read if you can i can use advice)
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STLRAMS
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I'll try and make this as short as i can.This girl gloria and i agreed to be friends cause she wasn't ready for anything serious.Fast forward tonight i'm out with my friend drinking and she calls me.She thought i was playing on the phone so she hung up.My friend then calls her and starts talking saying he really digs you and stuff making me look dumb.She said i already told him i don't want anything serious.My face pretty much hit the floor cause i was so pissed at my friend for what he did.I called her back and explained but she wanted none of it.She said you were ok with your friend calling then deal with it .She then says i'm tired of dealing with a kid who's an f'n lier.So should i give it a few days then ask her to meet me in person and explain myself and say i wont screw up again.Ugh what a day i don't know if i should cut off contact with my friend cause of what he did i'm just numb right now.
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| Jan 27, 2007 @ 11:59 PM |
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beckyiv42000
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hmmm Im thinking you should stop the Jr High antics period
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| Jan 28, 2007 @ 12:03 AM |
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DiamondRain
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Freind, we've been through this about this girl already right? You're not listening.
I know it hurts, but you need to move on to someone else. And like I said before, you seem very immature for the 23 it says you are in your profile. There isn't anything so bad about that because some people are immature at your age. But you need to try to be an adult and not worry so much about what other people do.
Focus on who you are, what you need to do to make yourself happy.
This girl is not good or right for you. Find one that makes you happy, thats what it's all about.
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| Jan 28, 2007 @ 12:09 AM |
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STLRAMS
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Ya i'll admit i'm a bit immature for my age no ones perfect right.But the fact my friend screwed this up i wasn't looking for her to be my girlfriend just a friend no i'm stuck with nothing.
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| Jan 28, 2007 @ 12:09 AM |
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BandTMom
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All American Rejects have a song......"Move Along".
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| Jan 28, 2007 @ 12:12 AM |
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luvmycats
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Freind, we've been through this about this girl already right? You're not listening.
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| Jan 28, 2007 @ 12:15 AM |
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mailorderannie
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Nothing you can say to this gal will change the situation...the more you try to make it happen ,the more she is going to wish you would just leave her alone.
Move on...
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| Jan 28, 2007 @ 12:19 AM |
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DiamondRain
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You have posted a lot about this girl. To me she doesn't sound like very good friend material OR girlfriend material either for you.
Let it go. As hard as that is, I think it's the right thing for you to do.
If she was a real friend, she wouldn't let someone else's actions come between you and her.
It seems impossible right, but it isn't. You need to let it go, learn from it and move on. Next time get to know someone better before you fall in love. That's the valuable lesson you take away.
Failure is not a completely bad thing, but failing to learn from failure is. Learn from this.
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| Jan 28, 2007 @ 12:57 AM |
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STLRAMS
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When you put it that way i can see where your coming from. *sigh*Like the user a few posts up said i guess i will make no contact from today on cause otherwise i look annoying.I'm just upset at how i acted cause this was a sweet girl but i did push her buttons a bit to much owell live and learn right. 
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| Jan 28, 2007 @ 1:01 AM |
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mailorderannie
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There ya go...learn from it!
Good luck with the next gal that crosses your path.
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| Jan 28, 2007 @ 6:58 AM |
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Dukums
Posts: 1,686
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Dude,
Friends stick with you through the good and bad times...through the good communication and through misunderstandings....if she can't do that.....she is not even a friend!
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| Jan 28, 2007 @ 7:00 AM |
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twotall911
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humm seems you need some eperience to go along with your problems
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| Jan 28, 2007 @ 7:51 AM |
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chinabull2000
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move on. 
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| Jan 28, 2007 @ 8:24 AM |
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Loreli
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Your other friend doesn't seem too cool, either.
If she cares, she'll get in touch with you again. You tried once-now let it go.
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| Jan 28, 2007 @ 10:20 AM |
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steveemac
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Dukums and Loreli pretty much said it...kick BOTH their sorry asses to the curb.
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| Jan 28, 2007 @ 10:31 AM |
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IndigoRose
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^^^Whoa harsh!
Just leave your yakbox in the car when you go out to drink...those phones will get you in trouble everytime 
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