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Is Unconditional Love Extinct?


Dec 6, 2007 @ 12:26 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
Empath


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Touch and I share unconditional love.....now that we've gotten past the conditions.
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Dec 6, 2007 @ 12:30 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
ToucherinSparks


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Yes we do, those conditions just had to go.

See, I knew we agreed!
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Dec 6, 2007 @ 12:32 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
Empath


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Then you believe that the more you've been around, the harder your heart becomes, and the more difficult it is to love, is that right?
Not necessarily harder, but more self-preservatory, yes.

I think that we become much more fickle about who we are willing to give our love to,
fickle, or careful?

we're not teenagers madly in love with the first girl that shows us attention, instead we hold back, looking for the one.

All too often not recognizing the 'one' when they appear.

But when that one does show up, we are every bit as in love. It becomes more of a search for quality.
Sometimes, dearest. Unfortunately, some hearts become hardened to the point where opening to the vulnerability of love becomes too scary.
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Dec 6, 2007 @ 12:42 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
ToucherinSparks


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All too often not recognizing the 'one' when they appear.

If you don't recognize them, are they really the one? Or is it just a case of one sided love. Someone can love you with all their heart and soul, but if you don't have the same feelings, it will never go anywhere. All that person that loves you is doing is setting himself up for a lot of heartache and anguish, he's just becoming your plaything.

Sometimes, dearest. Unfortunately, some hearts become hardened to the point where opening to the vulnerability of love becomes too scary.

I don't know that I agree, just speaking from experience, I've got a heart like a block of stainless steel, but when the right person came along, it didn't matter. It just has to truly be the right one though. Not the one you "want to be the right one" or something like that.

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Dec 6, 2007 @ 1:22 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
Empath


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Ahh, but honey, you admit to being on this site to 'look and maybe find'; there are those who have closed themselves off to even the possibility.

And yes, the "one" can be right under a person's nose, and not be recognized due to some of the conditions set to be met.
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Dec 6, 2007 @ 1:25 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
drs297


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[QUOTE]I don't know that I agree, just speaking from experience, I've got a heart like a block of stainless steel, but when the right person came along, it didn't matter. It just has to truly be the right one though. Not the one you "want to be the right one" or something like that.[QUOTE]


bout sums it up.

when the one comes along there is nothing that can block the heart, it will open on its own
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Dec 6, 2007 @ 1:27 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
CreamPie907


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With a crowbar, a mallet, a sawzall......

Ahh, but honey, you admit to being on this site to 'look and maybe find'; there are those who have closed themselves off to even the possibility.

Gotta admit the thing with experience is, it's a fabulous teacher!

[Edited on 12/6/2007 1:42 PM]
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Dec 6, 2007 @ 1:55 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
Heaveninawildflower


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Gotta admit the thing with experience is, it's a fabulous teacher!


Yep, nothing like it to recognize the same mistake as you make it yet again!



(j/k folks, even us old dogs really CAN learn new tricks, if the reward's sweet enough!)
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Dec 6, 2007 @ 2:02 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
drs297


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yeah but this dog wants to keep his nuts so don't do as bob barker says to me
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Dec 6, 2007 @ 4:14 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
ColdinWisconsin


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You know...every time you turn me on, you start talking about the dogs nuts again.
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Dec 6, 2007 @ 4:54 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
CreamPie907


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Be thankful he can't reach to li------ never mind.....
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Dec 6, 2007 @ 6:13 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
Empath


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Well, I was feeling rather hopeful.... *shakes head as she moves on...*
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Dec 6, 2007 @ 6:27 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
CHARLIgurl1


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For me.. it was a blood rush to the face when I saw him sign on in Md chat room,.. hoping that he'd direct a sentence to me.. then the excitement when I saw his name on my phone.. He'd text me.. then he'd call... then the hours on MSN,...a progression.. one step after another..

And even now after 2 years, I still cant wait to see him, even hear his voice, Unconditional love? hmm.. dunno.. depends.. if he cheated on me?.. well as far as thats concerned.. when a guy has opened the door to curiosity to the world of other women,, then hes just closed it behind him too.. cos theres no comin back to me.No matter how much it hurts.

Fortunately. I dont believe he'll feel the need to look any further..Cos I'll make sure of it
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Dec 6, 2007 @ 7:10 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
ToucherinSparks


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Geez Charli, except for the 2 year part, I could have written that same post about Emmy, just change a few minor details. Are you in my head or something?
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Dec 6, 2007 @ 7:31 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
twotall911


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now that we've gotten past the conditions.
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Dec 6, 2007 @ 8:32 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
carpediem48


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No Unconditional Love is not extinct
I believe that
the 'only' source of 'Unconditional"aka 'Absolute' Love
is the 'Celestial' source
This UNIVERSAL source will exist
FOREVER



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Dec 6, 2007 @ 8:47 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
Empath


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Dec 6, 2007 @ 8:55 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
ToucherinSparks


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Carpe, all that stuff is beyond me. I'm just a poor dumb country boy trying to get by in the big city. But I do know what I feel, and no amount of talking will change that.
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Dec 6, 2007 @ 9:04 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
carpediem48


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Touch, ,,,when we connect to the ABSOLUTE source of Love
we FEEL loved
we FILL UP with LOVE
it overflows to others

If I ever have a 'Significant Other',,,
I hope I remember to
keep my LOVE TANK filled up



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Dec 6, 2007 @ 9:09 PM Is Unconditional Love Extinct?    
ToucherinSparks


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Then I must have the main feed hose from that love tanker stuffed up my pooper or something. I've never felt like this before at all.
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