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Nov 30, 2005 @ 4:58 AM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
skinnybarncat


Posts: 381
Yep, used to once or maybe two times a week. Very few would respond to me...Now! 68 times in 5 days! but still no responses!
So, with that "wonderful" feature i now know how much more i am regected! I hit the "reset to zero button". i begin to rebuild my delusion of adeguacy....a piece of cotton here, some rusty wire, and some sand glued there.
some paint covering the fragile substructure....the delusion is ready for another day....i hope there is no wind.

So, tell us about your self-delusion. Is it consistant? stable? getting heavy from all the additional layers of paint and glitter? or duct tape? leaking around the last patch? or so well constructed that you see it as the real you?
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Nov 30, 2005 @ 7:10 AM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
MotownManiax


Posts: 9,737
I assume you're talking Winks here, not actual emails, Skinny?

Wow, 68 times and not even an acknowledgment? That sounds awfully fishy. Maybe MD has a glitch, don't know.
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Nov 30, 2005 @ 7:48 AM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
MarysPlace


Posts: 2,930
And there I was thinking, after I saw the title, why isn't this thread in the sex forum?
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Nov 30, 2005 @ 7:51 AM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
skinnybarncat


Posts: 381
I assume you're talking Winks here


no, views.... lots-o-lookers

don't get winks or email too often...

may start being really obnoxious in threads and the mod will email me...

it's MAIL!...
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Nov 30, 2005 @ 8:45 AM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
MotownManiax


Posts: 9,737
Aha, just people that viewed you and didn't follow up with Winks/replies. Gotcha. I thought you meant you Winked 68 times and got nothing back.

Well, start Winking/sending emails yourself and let us know the response? I know I look at a lot of profiles but rarely follow up. I'm just curious, or the pics look great. People get too hung up on Views, they mean nothing. Now, if you emailed 68 women and didn't get one reply back, shame on them.
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Nov 30, 2005 @ 9:05 AM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
skinnybarncat


Posts: 381
Well, start Winking/sending emails yourself and let us know the response? I know I look at a lot of profiles but rarely follow up. I'm just curious, or the pics look great. People get too hung up on Views, they mean nothing. Now, if you emailed 68 women and didn't get one reply back, shame on them.


i don't do winks... i take the time to write a short, friendly email to say howdy...have sent hundreds that were not replied to..... no problem with that..

the question of this thread is about delusions... trying to find people who have some insight into their own ego.... ....thanks, Mo...
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Nov 30, 2005 @ 9:30 AM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
ash_is_unforgetable


Posts: 842
I wouldn't read to much into the "views" alot of people view profiles and don't send emails, because without viewing a profile you just go by a screename, brief description or a picture, but once you look at the profile you might realize you have absolutely nothing in common with that person!

*AsH
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Nov 30, 2005 @ 10:33 AM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
skinnybarncat


Posts: 381
[QUOTE]Yep, used to once or maybe two times a week. Very few would respond to me...Now! 68 times in 5 days! but still no responses!
So, with that "wonderful" feature i now know how much more i am regected! I hit the "reset to zero button". i begin to rebuild my delusion of adeguacy.. ..a piece of cotton here, some rusty wire, and some sand glued there.
some paint covering the fragile substructure....the delusion is ready for another day.. ..i hope there is no wind.

people, THANK YOU FOR THE CONCERN ABOUT MY LACK OF EMAILS. Your compassion and empathy really do touch me...

BUT , that part was a joke...true, but a joke, and suppose to be funny.... my fault that i did not make it more clear! ...It's the ego that i wanted to talk about....
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Nov 30, 2005 @ 10:43 AM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
Slinfear


Posts: 114
Personally, I don't know, skinny. Had an eloquent post all wrote out in my head, and realized it was based on the whole number of emails thing, which this thread isn't about so...
I dunno, sorry.
I understand you want to know about the whole ego thing, but WHAT do you want to know about it? I'm cornfuzzled...
Jonathan
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Nov 30, 2005 @ 11:31 AM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
skinnybarncat


Posts: 381
Personally, I don't know, skinny. Had an eloquent post all wrote out in my head, and realized it was based on the whole number of emails thing, which this thread isn't about so...
I dunno, sorry.
I understand you want to know about the whole ego thing, but WHAT do you want to know about it? I'm cornfuzzled...
Jonathan


Jonathan; Thank you! at this point i'll take anything!

especially eloquent! Mods want me to keep "on topic" ..Can't Get on thread topic! ... ,,,,have you ever tried to herd cats?
please reread intro and if so moved post what you think is appropriate.... thanks...
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Nov 30, 2005 @ 11:42 AM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
suthunsweet


Posts: 227
Are you saying your ego has taken more hits than your profile lately?
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Nov 30, 2005 @ 1:09 PM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
Slinfear


Posts: 114
Um...Dunno what herding cats has to do with ego, but it sounds pleasantly painful
Jonathan
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Nov 30, 2005 @ 1:11 PM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
13lucky


Posts: 304
Yep I get alot of viewings but not alot of mail... I think it's normal..
When I view or wink only..it's mainly because I'm shy

[Edited on 11/30/2005 1:18 PM]
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Nov 30, 2005 @ 1:12 PM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
Guerrero


Posts: 139
I wouldn't make a post about this if I were that unsuccessful. More power to ya though..
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Nov 30, 2005 @ 1:14 PM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
wyomingjoe


Posts: 41
I've had some of the same problem.I get wink's or e-mail. But as a truck driver i'm not really in their area that mush or not at all. So i tell them that an dont here from them agin. I'm waiting for that right person who has the same interest as i do.
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Nov 30, 2005 @ 1:54 PM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
skinnybarncat


Posts: 381
So, tell us about your self-delusion. Is it consistant? stable? getting heavy from all the additional layers of paint and glitter? or duct tape? leaking around the last patch? or so well constructed that you see it as the real you?

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Nov 30, 2005 @ 2:00 PM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
skinnybarncat


Posts: 381
I wouldn't make a post about this if I were that unsuccessful.


Thank you , Guerrero!!! ...an on topic post!

now the mod won't shut this down...

anybody else with an ego thing to share?
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Nov 30, 2005 @ 2:17 PM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
facetrock


Posts: 51
I looked at your profile. One thing I think would help is putting a picture up that shows what you look like. The one you have now is very hard to see.
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Nov 30, 2005 @ 3:20 PM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
skinnybarncat


Posts: 381
I looked at your profile. One thing I think would help is putting a picture up that shows what you look like. The one you have now is very hard to see.


OOOOhhhh, where is icon with hand to head and eyes up??

Facetrock, thank you...i'll do that soon....
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Nov 30, 2005 @ 3:32 PM 68 Times in 5 Days!    
waiting41


Posts: 1,926
Personally, I have not even looked at your profile as far as I can remember...lol. You seem like a nice guy with a great sense of humor around the forums. I would suggest starting over entirely with something other than SKINNYBARNCAT!!!!! Perhaps they can't get past the title!
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