| Feb 4, 2007 @ 11:46 AM |
I miss marriage
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Moonwalk
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I miss having a partner, a best friend, someone to cuddle on the couch with whenever I wanted, a constant sexual partner with whom I can share any sexual secret or fantasy that crosses my mind, someone who loves me completely for everything I am.
I miss sleeping next to someone every night, waking up in the middle of the night, and having a chest to lay my head on and a shoulder to rest on.
I miss someone knowing me in that way that only a husband can, someone who knows all my quirks and funny ways and laughs at them instead of being annoyed.
I want a relationship that is faithful and devoted.
I want a man in my life who adores me and actually cares about what I think and feel.
I want someone to adore and give all of myself to.
I want to wake up every day secure in the knowledge that I have a relationship that is secure and safe and not have to worry all the time about finding 'the one'.
I want a partner who shares my old fashioned view of marriage.
I am so sick of dating, I want to find that one person that I care about who cares about me and settle down and forget all this silly dating crap.
When I meet someone, I no longer look for others, I give that person my undivided attention and affection until the relationship dissolves, if it does.
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| Feb 4, 2007 @ 11:53 AM |
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budo13
Posts: 3,609
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yeah i miss the fighting, the name calling,things thrown at me,i miss the infidelity,the lies the stealing and the nights on the sofa yeah i miss marriage too 
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| Feb 4, 2007 @ 11:55 AM |
I miss marriage
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twotall911
Posts: 13,048
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Me too  but if i were you id put a little more in your profile
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| Feb 4, 2007 @ 4:26 PM |
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Dukums
Posts: 1,686
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What you are experiencing is called "the void". The place in your life and heart that the other person occupied. This is a normal part of the divorce process and subsequent healing. It is a very dangerous part of the process because many people who feel this void go to great lengths to fill it with whatever will work to numb the pain and the absence they sense. If they do, 99% of the time it fails miserably and they end up enlarging the wound in their heart. I empathize with what you are going through. Many of us have walked this broken road, but if you do the things that will cause you to heal, there is an end to this and you will have a hope and a future.
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| Feb 7, 2007 @ 9:34 PM |
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Magickman
Posts: 132
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Funny how some people have such fond memories of marriage, and others remember only the nightmares.
I guess being married made some people happy, and others miserable.
The thought of being married gives me apprehension, not because I have done it before, which I have not, but because I think it would go south.
Since none of my relationships lasted over a year, why would I expect a marriage to last any longer.
Once a partner and I know each other well, it seems at least one of us is ready to move on.
I would like to develop a serious relationship, if it is in the cards. My deck is all jokers, though.
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| Feb 7, 2007 @ 9:36 PM |
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wiccked
Posts: 12,300
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i just miss the sex!!!!!!!    
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| Feb 7, 2007 @ 10:29 PM |
I miss marriage
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winterrenegade
Posts: 1,528
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i miss the ruuning around behnd your back, the no sex cause she has a headache, but the headache is clear when the neighbors are over while i'm at work, and the not being able too work due too the fact no one is hiring, but yet she applied too a lot of places online. yup i miss marriage 
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| Feb 7, 2007 @ 11:17 PM |
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signme
Posts: 12,578
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Never been married here but would like a chance to try it. Have lived alone, with a roommate and with family members but would like to have a partner in life and love. It just sounds good to me. I know it takes a lot of work and compromise but anything worth it would. And I know there would be bad times as well as good, you even get that with a roommate of the same sex!!
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| Feb 7, 2007 @ 11:20 PM |
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redhairNfreckles
Posts: 4,688
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I miss marriage I don't.
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| Feb 7, 2007 @ 11:26 PM |
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Always_Striving
Posts: 8,794
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I miss dating 
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| Feb 7, 2007 @ 11:27 PM |
I miss marriage
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BandTMom
Posts: 38,041
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Me too, Always!
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| Feb 7, 2007 @ 11:28 PM |
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signme
Posts: 12,578
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Doggone always, I'd think you'd be overrun with women wanting to date you.
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| Feb 7, 2007 @ 11:31 PM |
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BandTMom
Posts: 38,041
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Yes, but I'd had to run soooooo far! 
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| Feb 7, 2007 @ 11:32 PM |
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Always_Striving
Posts: 8,794
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Nah, that's why I probably have a bad attitude sometimes
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| Feb 7, 2007 @ 11:33 PM |
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signme
Posts: 12,578
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Well yeah always is kinda far away...is this one of those cases when we can move the states closer together????
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| Feb 7, 2007 @ 11:39 PM |
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Always_Striving
Posts: 8,794
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I date a few times a year but you have to realize that I live in a population base of over 2,000,000 people so it's not easy to find single people or at least anyone brave enough these days to admit that they are single. Seattle has a very high population of single male engineers. What is it women...... don't ya like the geeky guys?
I think that many like to hang out in the R & B clubs, cause they enjoy dancing 
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| Feb 7, 2007 @ 11:51 PM |
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signme
Posts: 12,578
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Hmmmmmmmmmmm...I like geeky guys. 
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| Feb 8, 2007 @ 3:55 AM |
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chinabull2000
Posts: 7,012
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yeah i miss the fighting, the name calling,things thrown at me,i miss the infidelity,the lies the stealing and the nights on the sofa yeah i miss marriage too Yeah, I miss all that too.
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| Feb 8, 2007 @ 7:05 AM |
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Heaveninawildflower
Posts: 18,602
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If I'd ever had that in my marriage, I'd still be married. Marriage was something where my waking days were nightmares, and then I'd finally fall asleep and dream they were closing a coffin over me, and that was a relief.
Nope, don't miss marriage at all.
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| Feb 8, 2007 @ 7:22 AM |
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MotownManiax
Posts: 9,737
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Wiccked i just miss the sex!!!!!!!
 I can help ya out there, Sugar.
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