| Feb 10, 2007 @ 9:39 AM |
Do You Think a Man is Always Looking For a Goddess?
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Red69Sun
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Some say, until you love, respect, and treat yourself like a Goddess ~ or as you would choose to be treated by a GOOD Man ~ that a Good Man cannont get in your temple door!
Do you think that is why it is important to develop, nurture, and bring out your true inner seductress? A silky shirt, red lipstick, and heels that can easily seduce a man's eyes and body, yet you are also expressing yourself from your heart and soul, you are laying the foundation for a conscious, loving relationship ~ with yourself and your partner of choice........ 
Any thoughts out there?     
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 10:33 AM |
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luvmycats
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A silky shirt, red lipstick, and heels that can easily seduce a man's eyes and body, yet you are also expressing yourself from your heart and soul, you are laying the foundation for a conscious, loving relationship
Since that is not the real me, I would feel like I was being deceptive. If a GOOD man can't take me how I am, then in my eyes, he's not a GOOD man, for ME.
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 10:41 AM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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Right now I'm wearing a silky shirt and red lipstick, but with sneakers. Close enough? Oops, hair's in a pony tail though.
I think that sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't. Sometimes he'll want the seductress, sometimes it'll be mom's home cooking, sometimes it will be a pal, but it had better always just be a different part of you that you express when it's called for. Just as sometimes you'll want the seducer, sometimes the cooking (yeah, we fall for that in a heartbeat and you guys know it!), and sometimes (actually, I think most of the time) the pal...somebody to share your stories of the day with, somenbody to go to a party with, somebody to go hiking with...
But if you can't find somebody like that, ya gotta be really grateful for friends!
 
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 10:44 AM |
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Red69Sun
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I hear you Luvs........When I wrote that......I was using it as an example of how some men are visually seduced. 
You are right.......that's not me either........sure I have the silky blouses, lacy stuff, the lip stick......but I am more of a free flowing spirit........an Earth Goddess......built for comfort not speed, kind of gal
Heaven..........I couldn't have said it any better
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 10:58 AM |
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luvmycats
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Gotcha. Heaven, you said it.
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 11:11 AM |
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MarysPlace
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A silky shirt, red lipstick, and heels that can easily seduce a man's eyes and body,
All that ain't gonna do nothin' without confidence.
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 11:14 AM |
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Laidback742
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All that ain't gonna do nothin' without confidence.
I agree .... to me, it is not so much appearance, clothing or "a look" that is seductive .... it is more attitude, self confidence, personality, actions, words .... just because a book has a nice cover doesn't mean its worth reading.
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 11:15 AM |
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winterrenegade
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depends on the guy, too a real man a goddess is what is on the inside not the outside 
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 11:21 AM |
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shchmaja06
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Totally agree with Mary and LB,
Attitude, and the way you carry yourself say things about you that go way beyond clothes, make-up, hair, etc.
The way a man walks will get me without ever seeing their face.
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 11:23 AM |
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MarysPlace
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depends on the guy, too a real man a goddess is what is on the inside not the outside
Now that is just BS. A complete and total BS. Men are much more visual than women. If they don't like what they see, fuggetaboutit. You can be Mother Theresa for all he cares.
And that goes especially for the internet where (moreso than in "real life") first impressions are everything...
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 11:23 AM |
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EyesofBlue72660
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Some say, until you love, respect, and treat yourself like a Goddess ~ or as you would choose to be treated by a GOOD Man ~ that a Good Man cannont get in your temple door!
Personally, I think if an attitude is taken that far....men might see a sign above the door.....DO NOT APPROACH - HIGH MAINTENANCE.
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 11:26 AM |
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MotownManiax
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^^^^^ Absolutely 
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 11:29 AM |
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ToucherinSparks
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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
You got it cutie, many women carry that "goddess" stuf way to far. Confidence, not conceit. Too much "goddess" tude just makes you a stuck up bitch.
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 11:32 AM |
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HopelesslyHopeful
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Well, I do think that until you learn to treat yourself as you would like to be treated by a good man, you are less likely to find one, yes. But I don't think it needs to be like a goddess.
Ewww .. I hate it when men treat me like that. Goddesses are not approachable and they are there as a perfection, an ideal; one does not converse, dance badly, and make up silly ass stories with a goddess.
So yes, I think, express yourself from your heart and soul: as in be yourself, wear what you want to wear, be confident and glad to be yourself. Maybe you'll end up with a man and maybe you won't .. but you'll be happier as yourself without a man than pretending to be something you aren't just to get one.
And yes: I do think some men do look for a goddess specifically because they want a woman who will let them have access to her and play sometimes but who doesn't need them and therefore won't ask for more from them.
I think the other men, the ones who want a serious relationship, look for a friend who can capture more than their libido.. but that as well.
[Edited on 2/10/2007 11:38 AM]
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 11:34 AM |
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MotownManiax
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Yep, that's why I stay away from any vanity usernames like Princess, Queen, Diva, Porsche, Goddess...et al. You might as well stamp your forehead with "High Maintenance"?
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 11:43 AM |
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HopelesslyHopeful
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Yep, that's why I stay away from any vanity usernames like Princess, Queen, Diva, Porsche, Goddess...et al. You might as well stamp your forehead with "High Maintenance"?
And that's why I stay away from men who say they want to treat a woman like a princess or a goddess or they are looking for someone to pamper or .. well, anything like that.
Because they are usually high maintenance too aka: clingy!!!
Besides, trying to be a goddess is a lot of hard work and not at all interesting. Who wants conversations that are only about how good you look or how turned on someone is or what they want to buy you? It gets friggin' old quick!
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 11:45 AM |
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Laidback742
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To expand on what I said earlier .... I do not discount someones looks, appearance, clothing, etc .... just saying that, for a woman to " doll up ", so to speak, just isn't the most important thing to worry about, or the big " turn-on " factor, for me anyway .... true, men can be visual quite often .... but we are not always that shallow, or always consumed with appearance .... for myself, desire and attraction run quite a bit deeper.
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 11:58 AM |
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kattsmeow
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I am a Goddess, I am put up on a pedestal,,,,,so that my husband can look up my dress.
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 11:58 AM |
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IndigoRose
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Bah!!!
MALE DOMINATION IS NOT NORMAL. THEY MUST BE CONTROLLED, TO A DEGREE ACCORDING TO HOW MUCH THEY NEED IT - THE MOST MATURE AND DISCIPLINED NEED LESS, THE LESS SO, NEED MORE. 
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| Feb 10, 2007 @ 12:05 PM |
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MarysPlace
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Yep, that's why I stay away from any vanity usernames like Princess, Queen, Diva, Porsche, Goddess...et al. You might as well stamp your forehead with "High Maintenance"?
I just found a screen name "princessgoddess" (I'm not making it up), want me to send you the link?
Ooops, no, it's "goddessprincess". My bad. :D
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