| Feb 16, 2007 @ 8:52 PM |
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MarysPlace

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OK, so what about men who keep writing over and over again forgetting that they have ever written before? Must be great to have Alzheimer's, every day is a new beginning!
So I have a whole collection of guys who write me, I politely (or not so) reject them, they write back to complain, blast me or write something generally nasty, delete all correspondence and, I guess, move on to another victim. A week, two or four later, here they are back, writing as if they see me for the first time in their life. When reminded of previous exchange, they angrily go into the aforementioned tirade. Then disappear. But it ain't over till the fat Cupid sings! Yep, you got it. They forget again and... well, just repeat steps 1-4 from this same paragraph.
Take notes people! Different colored Post-its on the computer and you're all set. For the more advanced, I recommend Excel. On the days when they remember how to switch on the computer, that is.
[Edited on 2/16/2007 8:56 PM]
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 8:54 PM |
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wiccked

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[Edited on 2/16/2007 9:13 PM]
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 8:57 PM |
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Loreli


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I know what you mean, Mary...there is one guy I spoke to 3 times, then he got creepy and I told him not to contact me again. Sure as heck, three more winks and a friends request. And there are a dozen more I spoke to briefly, knew it wouldn't work and said so...but sure as heck, they're writing and winking again.
Now-to even the score-I am sure some women do this also. But once ANYBODY has been told an unrelenting NO, it should hit home a little.
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 9:04 PM |
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EyesofBlue72660

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Maybe hibernation in groundhog holes causes memory loss??????
That or they think their persistence shows they're goal-oriented?
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 9:09 PM |
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duwant1

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An elephant never forgets.
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 9:11 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9

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There's this idiot that emails me and tells me "hey i'm married but would you read my sex stories anyway"
I chewed him out the first time and he emailed me back telling me that I only want to be around men who are fake. Or something.
But the idiot keeps emailing me.
Am I that forgettable?
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 9:12 PM |
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robodad

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An elephant never forgets. They don't write much, though
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 9:14 PM |
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IndigoRose

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Oh oh Mary is he calling you a pacyderm? I'm thinking the poor guy knows you get tons of mail and he probably thinks you won't remember little ole him!
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 9:14 PM |
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MarysPlace

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Am I that forgettable? I was thinking the same thing!
But then I figured, I blasted them to smithereens, very eloquently, mind you, how could they forget THAT??
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 9:15 PM |
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MarysPlace

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I'm thinking the poor guy knows you get tons of mail and he probably thinks you won't remember little ole him! I don't get tons of mail. My profile clearly says "Do NOT Write Me". :D
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 9:20 PM |
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MusicMonster

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Mama always said, "Sonny", she said, "If at first you don't succeed, try, try again"..
Or was that "fry, fry a hen"? Or "bye, bye agin"? I dunno. One of those..
I can never remember which one it is exactly. Alzheimers I think,
-MM
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 9:37 PM |
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IndigoRose

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Is this a groundhog or just a pig???
Pig sez...
block me its easier, i don't remember who i email or wink at unless i am talking to them regulary, I fine it amusing that if i lied like allot of men on here do instead of being upfront and honest and told you i was single, i don't play mind games love, that's why i lay it all out .. even though i get slammed by allot of woman by doing so ... which at times pisses me off, because here's i am being upfront and honest telling i am married and my sitution and what i am looking for, but i am getting slammed for it, when there are guys in here BS-ing them to death feeding them every line they want to hear, telling them they are single when they are not and they are being treated nicly for lying and i am being treated like crap for being upfront and honest so where is the justice and before you slamm me about my poor wife, my poor wife knows i talk and play in email and on the phone sometimes, so she knows but keeps her eyes closed on it. and let me tell you what reporting me does, it bonuces me off the site true, but i will just log in under a new name and we will be back at this again or maybe i will say i am single and lead you on like the rest just to prove a point, so the best way to get rid of people you want no contact with is to just block them,. BYE
T-Rex sez: ****** ORIGINAL MESSAGE ****** I am fine but not interested in chatting with a married man nothing personal just my woman's code thing... best of luck to you! Now don't write me with some snarky crap I respect your veiws (don't agree) please respect mine.
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 11:50 PM |
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ramsfan1970

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When I first joined a guy who is almost 60 and lives several hundred miles away messaged me. I was nice and said he lived too far away, but he's older than my parents for crying out loud! Now after over a month he messaged again saying he is still waiting, and would like me to send pictures to his email. ugh!
Yesterday I got one that said "You are very beautiful here is my phone number XXXXXXXXX please call me". WTF?
I also got put on the "iggy" list because I didn't contact someone for a few days boo hoo
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 11:56 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9

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I don't get tons of mail. My profile clearly says "Do NOT Write Me". :D Hahaha, same here...
and yet I get 40 year old guys who write me and say "baby i really loved your profile"
I respond
"What part did you like? The part that states I'm in a relationship, the part that states I don't want to hear from anyone over 25, the part that states that my idea of a great date is on Dagobah with Yoda, or the part that states I really only want to meet a man who can shoot Sith lightning out of his hands?"
they never write back after that =D
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| Feb 16, 2007 @ 11:56 PM |
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ToucherinSparks

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Rose, take that pig upstairs and dunk his head in the deep fryer... Ummmm pork rind frying, what a smell!
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| Feb 17, 2007 @ 9:07 AM |
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MarysPlace

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"What part did you like? The part that states I'm in a relationship, the part that states I don't want to hear from anyone over 25, the part that states that my idea of a great date is on Dagobah with Yoda, or the part that states I really only want to meet a man who can shoot Sith lightning out of his hands?" I just copied this here so I can use it later as an auto answer to all the rocket scientists that write me. You don't mind, right? :)
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| Feb 17, 2007 @ 11:32 AM |
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LipGlossQueen9

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No, haha
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| Feb 17, 2007 @ 11:45 AM |
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lell

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maybe we should just call them all bob and put them back in the fish tank!!
I know the feeling, what part of go away dont they understand
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| Feb 17, 2007 @ 3:38 PM |
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encorrgbl

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I say use the 'block' button. Granted, if 'NO' won't work, then maybe block wouldn't either, but I'd think at 'least' if they get no response, well, sorta like feeding pigeons, without the birdseed, maybe they'd go find someplace else to eat.
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| Feb 17, 2007 @ 3:49 PM |
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MarysPlace

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We have a live one! This guy deserves what I normally would never do:
Title: Waiting for a response
Hello "Marys Place,"
I have been waiting to hear back from you, and do hope that all is well. If you have found another guy, then I do wish you the best. If it has just been an oversight, then I do hope that you will check out my profile more closely, and see if you could find some interest in me, as I have for you! I would like for you to send me some pictures of yourself to my regular e-mail address at: *****@aol.com and I will send you some back, if you would like? I will be looking forward to seeing and hearing a lot more from you, soon! Hope that you do have a great day and a wonderful weekend!
Sincerely Yours, ****
The only problem here is that he sent me this EXACT same letter months ago and I politely told him that if my profile sets the upper age limit at 45, him at 59 perhaps wouldn't fit? This time I wasn't so polite. Sent him an answer that began with "Dear Grandpa..."
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