| Feb 21, 2007 @ 12:04 PM |
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ReyDCorazones
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If You Want a Classy Girl.. Be a Classy Guy
Likewise.
If you want an Interesting Girl.. Be an Interesting Guy.
Or.
If you want an Incredible Relationship.Make sure you know what it takes to have an Incredible Relationship.
And the list goes on and on.
So besides the obvious, why are these points so relevant in your search for some incredible woman?
Simple.
It’s because I can see a clear difference between the right magic to have a successful relationship. And the ones that don’t.
So what is this magic you ask?
It’s called..S A C R I F I C E.
So let me elaborate.
We Men are naturally creatures of habit, the older we get the more we tend to look at ourselves and the world in a particular way, and too often this way is Fixed.
Static, Stagnant, Dead, or whatever you want to call it. In our ideal fantasy, we are Kings of our Castle and we just need our future Queen to have the “right” mental attitude. And of course that attitude is for her to know that we are ALWAYS RIGHT.. (Right???)
Or better yet.
We just want Someone to “Love and Accept” us “just the way we are”. But in the back of our heads we are also thinking..“Yeah AND I also want her to be a Beauty Queen and Sex Goddess too!”
So are you Gentlemen starting to see the “Disconnect” in this all too common perception? Or in the infinitely wise words of my Navy Seal friend.
“Everybody Always Wants Something for NOTHING..”
So it’s Real Simple and Clear Gentlemen. That Men who want “Something for Nothing” and who are unwilling to make significant sacrifices to achieve their dreams always end up failing. Even if they “get” the Girl they dreamed about they are still looking at a “delayed failure” down the road.
Let me give you a silly little example.
When I was a kid I used to dream about having my own Jet Fighter. An F-15 the “baddest” looking flying machine I had ever seen in my life,and someday I wanted to have a Real One!
So as a teenager when I became a little bit “older and wiser” I started to realize..
“Hmm maybe owning an F-15 is going to be pretty tough to do..”
There are dozens of hours of maintenance time required for every single hour of flight time.
1- Where am I going to keep this thing?
2- How am I going to get one?
3- How am I going to learn how to take care of it.. let alone fly it?
4- How am I going to afford thousands of gallons of military grade Jet Fuel?
5- Do I need to get insurance for this thing?
6- What would the neighbors think?
Starting to get it?
Because even if this F-15 magically materialized in my backyard.. I would still be TOTALLY Screwed, so as a result of these realizations.I settled with the idea that the meticulously assembled and painted 1:48 scale Revell model still sitting in my closest is probably going to be the closest I ever get towards owning an F-15.
Likewise the Guys who still believe that they can get an “F-15? for nothing are in for a rude surprise, and unfortunately instead of looking at themselves and admitting to their own childish naivete’ many of them end up bad mouthing Girls and this whole process when they inevitably fail.
It’s a little like the spoiled kid who never studies, fails the exam, and then blames the teacher.
Did any of you ever know a teacher who gave good marks to any kid who failed an exam and had a spoiled attitude on top of it?
I’m guessing probably not. But at the same time there will always be a percentage of Men who think that money alone without any efforts towards self-improvement on their part will allow them to capture the heart of their “Perfect 10?.
So we should all understand that money Money is simply NO SUBSTITUTE for the Irreplaceable Manly Virtues of:
Effort
Character
Humility
Sincerity
Class
Cultivation
So when these “Gentlemen” think and go date women as if they were prostitutes.
Guess what kind of Woman they end up attracting and having in their lives?
Not a pretty picture of marital bliss I assure you.
When I hear stories about Guys who have been “burned” by their efforts in searching for a Beautiful Wife.. I hardly really focus on the “evil woman” who “did” this, but instead I always focus and start asking questions in my mind not only about HER but also on HIM.
“Just what did he/she do to screw this up?”
I ask these questions because at some point all of us have to take responsibility for any of the “misfortunes” that have “happened” in our lives, and as strange as this may sound there something very deep and empowering truth behind it.
We simply attract what we are along our given levels of Class and Cultivation.
We sure as Hell can’t change the “Bad Girls” in this world and wasting any more time and energy on being bitter towards them AIN’T Gonna Do Anything. No Gentlemen the only factor that you have any control over in changing has always been the same.
Because it’s YOU.
So unless you are able to walk on water keep this very simple concept in mind.
Don’t change and get ready to FAIL..
OR
Take a real and honest look at yourself… as hard as that may be.
Own and take responsibility for it.
Make the right adjustments you need to make and get ready to FLOURISH.
Now saying this I’d like to add one final point. Sometimes we all need some inspiration to know what is possible in our lives before we are actually able to take the bull by the horns and do what’s needed.
For many Men including myself this inspiration c
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 12:10 PM |
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MarysPlace
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Can we now please have the digested version for us folks with very short attention spans?
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 12:13 PM |
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IndigoRose
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Go to Russian Women world press Posted by rw_man under Rants & Raw Deals
It's even LONGER 
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 12:15 PM |
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MarysPlace
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Go to Russian Women world press Posted by rw_man under Rants & Raw Deals
It's even LONGER
What have I done to you to deserve that? 
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 12:18 PM |
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IndigoRose
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Teach YOU to be all snarky...now don't come back until you read it all 
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 12:20 PM |
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robodad
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He lost me after the second paragraph 
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 12:22 PM |
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lj450
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Ive been a horny guy for a long time now.......doesnt someone owe me a horny girl?
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 12:23 PM |
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MarysPlace
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He lost me after the second paragraph
See Indigo girl? He made it aaaaallll the way to the second!
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 12:23 PM |
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Dukums
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Indigo.....what are you doing browsing a russian women's site? LOL
Actually what was said is very correct. You are not going to attract a lexus if all you have to offer is a beat up old ford pick up.
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 12:24 PM |
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MarysPlace
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Ive been a horny guy for a long time now.......doesnt someone owe me a horny girl?
I'm signing up! 
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 12:27 PM |
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IndigoRose
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Dukums I was looking for Russian MALE brides...What?
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 12:29 PM |
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lj450
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You better not be faking that horniness!!!!
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 4:25 PM |
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newlife2006
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That's true, Ray... 
I happened to know one "internet male" , who's only topic for conversation used to be ...criticizing everybody's age and physical appearance ( mine included ) . Keep in mind that he is half my height, twice my age, with no teeth and no hair - and you'll be wondering if the guy cannot afford having a mirror in his bathroom.... 
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 4:44 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
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Where is this 92 year old dwarf (2'6"!) with no hair and teeth? I want a pic!
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 5:03 PM |
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newlife2006
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Actually,Sparks, he's still around here.. saw him bitching on the forums this morning....
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 5:03 PM |
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daniel_at_ipfw
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Its me... I am growing younger, taller, and richer every day....
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 5:04 PM |
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daniel_at_ipfw
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Sorry, I couldn't resist..
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 5:07 PM |
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ncnative4sure
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"daniel"
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 5:15 PM |
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newlife2006
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No way, Daniel, you have yet to learn how to update your profile. So far his one looks much more impressive than yours. No big deal , though, you'll learn the skill by the time you are 96 .... 
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| Feb 21, 2007 @ 5:17 PM |
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daniel_at_ipfw
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I have so much to learn!
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