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Mar 1, 2007 @ 5:56 PM What is a good opening message?    
TJR555


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I'm not good with the opening message. I've tried to be funny, short and sweet questions, and longer messages with info. Almost always I ask questions. Any ideas on how do write a good one and mabye get more responces? Ladies don't be afraid to leave examples of good ones guys wrote you.
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Mar 1, 2007 @ 5:59 PM What is a good opening message?    
spongebob777


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Wanna see my circumcision scar?

I don't know if it's good but it certainly gets attention.
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Mar 1, 2007 @ 5:59 PM What is a good opening message?    
wiccked


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Mar 1, 2007 @ 6:13 PM What is a good opening message?    
Laidback742


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I have no idea .... women never talk to me on here.
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Mar 1, 2007 @ 6:23 PM What is a good opening message?    
spongebob777


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I have no idea .... women never talk to me on here.

The don't talk to me either. They just stare at me with their mouths hanging open.
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Mar 1, 2007 @ 6:29 PM What is a good opening message?    
Laidback742


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Really .... I usually get a
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Mar 1, 2007 @ 6:33 PM What is a good opening message?    
wvbluebaby


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Mar 1, 2007 @ 6:42 PM What is a good opening message?    
EyesofBlue72660


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Spongey and LB.....you two can't come up with any suggestions cause you don't know your own secrets - you guys are just you and that's what draws a lot of women!!!!!
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Mar 1, 2007 @ 6:44 PM What is a good opening message?    
wandaful123


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Tj a good opening message will be different for every woman but a good start would be to mention something you read in her profile, comments or blogs that you found interesting.

Good luck!
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Mar 1, 2007 @ 6:45 PM What is a good opening message?    
MarysPlace


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Any ideas on how do write a good one and mabye get more responces?

"Do you want to have sex with me?" works for me every time.

Ladies don't be afraid to leave examples of good ones guys wrote you.

No can do. It's not cool to post private correspondence on a public board.
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Mar 1, 2007 @ 6:46 PM What is a good opening message?    
Loreli


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Heck, if I knew a good one, I'd have it myself!
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Mar 1, 2007 @ 6:54 PM What is a good opening message?    
ToucherinSparks


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Just be simple and straight forward. Use something like....

"Hey babe, you're smokin' hot! Can I hit it?"
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Mar 1, 2007 @ 6:55 PM What is a good opening message?    
definitelydi


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Dammit, Touch...I thought you only said stuff like that to me.
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Mar 1, 2007 @ 7:31 PM What is a good opening message?    
warrior674


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I don't know TJR. I can't even remember what mine is!
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Mar 1, 2007 @ 7:36 PM What is a good opening message?    
ToucherinSparks


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Dammit, Touch...I thought you only said stuff like that to me.

But Di, when I say it to you, I mean it, you know that baby.
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Mar 1, 2007 @ 7:42 PM What is a good opening message?    
dooney123


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Asking questions is good, but ask specific questions to a woman showing that you've read her profile. Something like, I noticed that you like to do X, where is your favorite place to do that. (I noticed that you like to ski; where do you like to go skiing. I like to go skiing in Tahoe.) Something to show that you have an interest in her and have read her profile is much better than something generic that you send to everyone you e-mail.
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Mar 1, 2007 @ 7:57 PM What is a good opening message?    
Laidback742


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cause you don't know your own secrets

Hell, I didn't think I had any. Want to let me in on them?
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Mar 1, 2007 @ 7:58 PM What is a good opening message?    
acslim


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loreli wrote
Heck, if I knew a good one, I'd have it myself!

you stole my thought.

i couldn't think of anything either, just really corny stuff like maybe 'Livin La Vida Loda' or 'may the force be with U' haha
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Mar 1, 2007 @ 8:02 PM What is a good opening message?    
ISSUESWOPTIONS


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Starting with "Hi" usually works....

Think of it as being in a bar and running into her.
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Mar 1, 2007 @ 8:05 PM What is a good opening message?    
SunBabe


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All I know is that I've never written the same sort of thing (or format) twice. It's a "conversation"...everyone is completely DIFFERENT.

LB said:
I have no idea .... women never talk to me on here.



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