| Dec 2, 2005 @ 2:39 AM |
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sweet5red
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im beginning to wonder if anyone is serious and possibly marriage minded or is everyone just "looking" and scared to be ,i mean it sure seems like there are way 2 many game players and people that are shallow or dont know what they want .. I can understand if you are just divorced or fresh from a breakup but i have been divorced almost 7 years and am ready to move on with life but it would be nice to have someone to share it with...Sweet N louisiana
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 7:16 AM |
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MotownManiax
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Good Morning, Sweet! 
Can't speak for others, but I'm always marriage minded. 
It's been the "getting" to the altar part that's been like climbing Mt Everest. 
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 7:31 AM |
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spongebob777
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I loved being married and hope to again some day. I just don't want to marry THAT one again.
Contrary to popular belief, it is more than just a piece of paper.
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 7:37 AM |
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wandaful123
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Personally, I'd like to meet someone I felt so secure with that I could feel "marriage minded". Seems marriage is just not taken seriously. I've never been married but hope for me Mr Till Death do we part is out there. Somewhere??
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 8:03 AM |
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skinnybarncat
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marriage minded??.....an emotional/mental state subject to being commited...Yea...i have been told i should be commited.. 
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 8:17 AM |
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spongebob777
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After my furnace took a dump last night, the furnace man may get some lovin if he shows up early. Don't think I'll marry him though. 
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 8:24 AM |
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waiting41
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 You should make it clear to the furnace man that you have no intentions of anything longterm.
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 8:41 AM |
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spongebob777
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The guy who delivers my propane already has dibs.
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 8:51 AM |
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waiting41
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Is HE under 40?? 
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 8:54 AM |
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spongebob777
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No but I gotta settle. Besides nobody gives a better screwin than the gas man. 
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 8:57 AM |
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Pete73052
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A man is not complete until he' married... then he's finished.
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 8:57 AM |
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waiting41
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Have you tried the plumber?
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 9:01 AM |
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spongebob777
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I can handle my own plumbing thank you very much.
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 9:09 AM |
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waiting41
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 Sorry, Sweet, I got distracted. Blame spongebob as usual. Be patient. The way I feel is that you can't make these things happen. For me, if love comes along it does. If marriage is in the plan for me it will happen. You never know what is just around the corner in life or what is in store for you. Keep an open heart and an open mind. Life is full of surprises, sometimes when we least expect it. Good luck!
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 9:46 AM |
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suthunsweet
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Personally, I loved being married! I definately am looking to do it again with the right man.
I just want a marriage that will last "till death do you part" this time, but I guess there is no guarantees...but one can always hope. 
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 10:03 AM |
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MotownManiax
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Ahhh, people, we're chatting just a leeetle too much in this thread, so please keep it on topic.
Thank you for your cooperation -- The Mods 
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 10:04 AM |
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13lucky
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Of course...I've always been married except for the last few months..
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 10:14 AM |
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spongebob777
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I was "busy" married and loved most of it.
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 10:24 AM |
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EyesofBlue72660
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Marriage minded? No......does that make me an underachiever?!? 
I went back to my maiden name.....it's the name I was born with and the name I'm going to die with......and that's as close to Never as I'm willing to go!
I'm not saying I won't ever get married again, however, it is not my primary goal. I got married directly out of high school and to be quite honest, I'm enjoying my time of being single. I don't regret a second of having been a wife and a mother, but it is time for me now.
I'm not a game player nor shallow and I know what I want. I also know myself very well......I was raised old-fashioned (you grow up, you get married, you have children, you take care of your husband and children...period) and when I'm in a relationship I tend to fall back into the mode of "taking care of" my s/o. It's not fair to my friends nor my family and it definitely isn't being fair to myself or my s/o.
Do I miss having someone to share things with? Yes. However, there is a difference between being alone and being lonely.....some of my lonliest moments were while I was married! Not everyone is the same and has different viewpoints and I respect that. I just know that for me right now, I for one am not "Marriage Minded".
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| Dec 2, 2005 @ 2:57 PM |
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swingpup
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Eyes......I can relate. Long time divorced here and lovin it, (20 years) Have the companionship and the benefits of a few special LT relationships when desired as well as the ability to be alone when desired.
Marriage? Not for me at this point in my life. When I'm able to provide myself with a sound reason, I shall then consider that option. Many women have brought up the benefits of marriage with me........my rebuttal has always justified my decision to remain single. 
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