| Mar 10, 2007 @ 1:48 PM |
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WCCMIKE
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This girl i have been talking with from here for the past two weeks has went good.Well she hardly ever makes an attempt to call me and always seems to have an excuse when i ask her about it.She's a mother of two so I'm understand she can be busy but you don't have a second to pick up the phone and call especially if you claim you enjoy talking to the person.She has no problem talking online but on the phone she always seems to have other plans.I know this is not a dude faking to be a girl cause i have called her a few times so that's not it.Dunno what do you people think is this girl playing games or what.
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| Mar 10, 2007 @ 1:53 PM |
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BandTMom
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Sometimes when you have children it is hard to be able to carry on a phone converstion. It's easier to chat online when you can stop typing and see to your children's needs.
JMO
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| Mar 10, 2007 @ 1:56 PM |
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Dukums
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2 weeks is not enough time to tell. At least you know she is not the needy clutchy type.
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| Mar 10, 2007 @ 2:35 PM |
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blueyes101
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Try very hard to just take it as it is.......it is sometimes hard not to try read something into nothing.
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| Mar 10, 2007 @ 3:01 PM |
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academicgirl
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Both of my sisters have small children and as much as I love them and their children, I HATE calling their homes because it seems that a telephone ringing is the signal for all kids to interrupt, fight with one another (the kids--lol), demand to have something to eat, etc., etc. The dogs always manage to get their licks in too! LOL
I have to say though these same sisters are almost never on-line because of lack of time as well. IMHO, the real test will be to see if she would want to meet for coffee somewhere for a first meeting. I wouldn't make a decision yet as it is too soon, but maybe a coffee and/or drinks date wouldn't be a bad idea. Just my thoughts....... 
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| Mar 10, 2007 @ 10:56 PM |
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tonyking3
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dont want to hurt you but maybe she only talks on line because she has a live in guy,, or maybe she dont want to talk in front of her kids as a single mom i would rather talk on line..
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| Mar 10, 2007 @ 11:02 PM |
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Loreli
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I guess it depends on what excuses she's giving you 
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| Mar 10, 2007 @ 11:06 PM |
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Laidback742
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Maybe she is just more comfortable talking online right now, until you know each other better .... also, you only mention the idea of her calling you .... but you don't say if you have made any attempts to call her.
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| Mar 11, 2007 @ 12:16 AM |
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WCCMIKE
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I made a few attempts to call her and shes picked up and was very nice not rushing me off the phone or anything.By excuses i meant say its 2 am we are both up cause she does stay up late.I say how about you call me i'm bored she always says uh well my kids are up wanna talk online.Or like last night she wanted to meet even though i knew it was a bit to soon but then she said she couldn't find a babysitter .I understand maybe she doesn't want to talk in front of her kids but she was out today shopping and still didn't pick up the phone.Guess i'm having a hard time figuring whats going on cause i never really talked to someone who was a single mom of 2.
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| Mar 11, 2007 @ 11:47 PM |
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WCCMIKE
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Any other maybe single parents who have gone through this i could use everyones advice 
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| Mar 12, 2007 @ 12:01 AM |
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Loreli
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What does YOUR gut tell you? We haven't talked to her.. so it's merely uneducated guess on our part.
Seriously, if you are doubting it, then maybe back up a step or two and look at what you have, or don't.
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| Mar 12, 2007 @ 2:00 AM |
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swingpup
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Some it seems have a difficult time communicating via phone. If it was a child issue per her children she could certainly call after they are in bed. Not calling when she was out shopping, provided she has a cell phone and she wasn't strapped with the kids? Simply she could be experiencing a number of things going on within her life.
Those of us that communicate often with a variety of individuals per business know that you can make as well as receive calls while doing everything from receiving a hair cut to getting laid. For myself that also carries over into my personal life per communications.
You may desire not to place all of your eggs in one basket on this one. Maybe keep this one in the hopper and see what happens. 
Good luck.
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| Mar 12, 2007 @ 3:39 AM |
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SunBabe
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By excuses i meant say its 2 am we are both up cause she does stay up late.I say how about you call me i'm bored she always says uh well my kids are up wanna talk online
I would NEVER want to talk to someone who says they are "bored".  Is she just there for "entertainment value" and to kowtow to your needs?
And she's a single mother with two kids? How the heck old is she? (I see that you're only 23) What kind of mother allows TWO children to be up at 2 AM? (I mean if this is a regular thing)
It could also be that she's not really that "into" you. She might be "testing the waters" also...sice she was obviously in some kind of serious relationship in the past.
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| Mar 12, 2007 @ 3:52 AM |
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WCCMIKE
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Well that's the thing this took me as a shock but she's 22 which is a bit to young imo to have 2 kids.also I understand she is busy with the kids but that doesn't stop her from hitting up the bars and stuff.she also goes to school like me which means she's trying to better herself.I dunno she claims I'm a nice guy and such but imo no one is ever that busy not to call you.owell like you people said I won't put all my eggs in this basket. 
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| Mar 12, 2007 @ 12:30 PM |
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academicgirl
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She has two little kids and goes to school, but has time to go to bars. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm 
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| Mar 12, 2007 @ 2:44 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
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The constant thread here seems to be her calling you. Some women just aren't comfortable with this. How about you call her and see if that works out better.
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| Mar 12, 2007 @ 4:10 PM |
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Mel3
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Sometimes when you have children it is hard to be able to carry on a phone converstion. It's easier to chat online when you can stop typing and see to your children's needs.
I'm a single mom of three and believe me it isn't easy to have a conversation at the drop of a hat. My daughter always seems to interrupt or has a question to that she just has to ask. My three year old wants to talk to whoever is on the phone, doesn't care who it is. I'm guessing by her age that they are little ones. Little ones can be very demanding......so cut her a little slack.
As far as someone saying she has a live in boyfriend....I doubt it.
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| Mar 12, 2007 @ 4:14 PM |
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Mel3
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Ok, just saw your post about the kids being up 2am....my kids are in bed and kind of shocking that hers would be up that late.
Good luck!
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| Mar 12, 2007 @ 4:17 PM |
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signme
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What I'm curious about is pup's statement about receiving calls while getting laid??He must multitask awfully well. 
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| Mar 12, 2007 @ 6:29 PM |
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DeeLaMarie
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She not only is 22, but has 2 kids that want to talk on-line at 2:00 a.m. When did she have these kids, at the age of 10? Walk on by, trust your instincts.
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