| Nov 6, 2007 @ 9:45 AM |
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relyt517
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I dated and eventually married a pregnant woman. She was 3 months pregnant when I met her and had a son who still calls me "Dad". He biological father never got involved in his life and although we were very open and honest with him about it all - he has chosen not to seek out his biological father.
I don't see that there is anything wrong in dating a pregnant woman but I think the circumstances would have to be right in order for it to work out.
Although we have long since divorced -Ironically, it was probably one of the most stable relationships that I have ever had.
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| Nov 6, 2007 @ 10:53 AM |
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marylou
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relyt517............that sounds quite sad really :(
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| Nov 10, 2007 @ 7:16 PM |
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Haban3ro
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We have a joke in Spanish about a guy who's so lazy, he married a woman who was already pregnant. 
Jokes and erotica aside (one reason my first wife and I had 4...  ) I f I were ever single again, I think I'd just be a friend, maybe go to events together and hang out, but I'd beware of emotional attachments untill a few months after the baby was born.
Every situation is different, but I'd want to give the lady as many options as possible if the father wanted to have a role in her child's life.
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| Nov 10, 2007 @ 7:25 PM |
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DiamondRain
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Hit the nail right on the head. Way to emotional a time in a woman's life for you to feel comfortable forming a serious relationship with her.
Keep in touch if she is interesting. Don't do anything serious until well after the baby is born.
The other issue. Where is the father and what is her relationship with him?
If she is pregnant, then her relationship with the father can't be very far in the past. For that reason alone, you need to wait.
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| Nov 11, 2007 @ 5:16 PM |
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SweetNapaGuy
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Having dated one pregnant woman, I'd have to say "never again." It's probably an overreaction on my part, but it was a bad enough experience, I wouldn't feel like testing to see if it happens again.
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| Apr 28, 2008 @ 5:36 PM |
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citizen001
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In a heartbeat. Wouldn't even think twice about it
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| Apr 28, 2008 @ 8:41 PM |
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Makya
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As a woman who has been in that situation, I wound up getting back with the father because I just couldn't be with someone else while I was pregnant. The idea felt so wrong for me.
Not saying its wrong for everyone cause I guess it depends on the circumstances.
Just for me personally, I wasn't able to do it.
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| Apr 28, 2008 @ 10:00 PM |
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Silvertongue62
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The first thing i would think about is would I date someone who moves from one man to another so quickly. Then I would ask myself why would date a woman who has an unresolved issue like carrying someone elses child. I think she needs to at least have the baby before searching for another bed. Animals wont even do that. But then again morality cant be legislated. Then there is small matter of self respect. And if sex is involved the baby comes out with a disability because he or she was bonked in the head by a man mommy is probably no longer with.
Just sayin! 
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| Apr 28, 2008 @ 10:50 PM |
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DwainP50
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Never have dated a pregnant woman, with the exception my ex. 
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| Apr 29, 2008 @ 9:21 AM |
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Silvertongue62
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I know what you mean Dwain. Actually I am looking for a woman that was just seeing another man and is carrying around his baby. i think she would be a good example for the child when it is born. I also think her moral compass should serve as a guilding light.
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| Apr 29, 2008 @ 9:45 AM |
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1stsignofspring
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| Apr 29, 2008 @ 2:45 PM |
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marylou
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....well im not dating a pregnant woman....thats for sure....LOL LOL LOL 
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| May 3, 2008 @ 3:14 PM |
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emptypages
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It's a terrible idea. Loads of problems with intimacy, wondering what could have been so bad to cause a break up before the child's birth, whether they are being truthful. It's just bad to even suggest it. 
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| May 3, 2008 @ 3:18 PM |
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Angel178
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you never know what the reason is for the preganant woman to be on her own
maybe she just wanted out, or maybe the situation was forced on her, could be many reasons...
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| May 3, 2008 @ 3:28 PM |
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emptypages
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then I think she should wait to give birth before dating. I can't fathom how a man could want to have sex with a woman that's carrying another mans child. It repulses me.
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| May 3, 2008 @ 3:32 PM |
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Angel178
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Nobody said anything about having sex with the pregnant woman....
The thread is about dating the pregnant woman
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| May 3, 2008 @ 3:48 PM |
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emptypages
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and dating can lead to a relationship, which in turn will turn intimate.
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| May 3, 2008 @ 3:51 PM |
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Angel178
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Not if you have a problem that she is preg...
You could just be her friend.... 
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| May 3, 2008 @ 3:53 PM |
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Silver1961
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I have three children - so therefore I have dated a pregnant women on three occasions
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| May 3, 2008 @ 3:57 PM |
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CathyCRN
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In the world that we now live in, being pregnant is a far cry better than being infected with a disease or something...men are out there hopping from bed to bed...so a woman ends up pregnant. Maybe she never had a relationship with the FOB...should she put her life on hold until the baby is born? Bed hopping is ok as long as she doesn't get pregnant?
On the other side, emotions do tend to run rampant during pregnancy, especially when she is going it alone. So, getting into a serious relationship with a pregnant woman might not be the best move. After the baby is born, see what happens. I think it takes a secure man to get involved in this type of situation...but, look at the bright side...you don't have to worry about birth control!!!
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