| Mar 28, 2007 @ 4:20 AM |
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sweet5red
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ok on my space page is a new graphic which says" all i want is one guy to prove to me they are not all the same" well ok i told a coworker/friend about it and she looked at me and said" you have been divorced/ single 8 years what makes you think you will meet someone if you havent already.".( i still beleive in MY heart that i will) i dont beleive what she said is true at all.. and i refuse to settle.. Sweet N Louisiana
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 5:06 AM |
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beckyiv42000
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my opinon is ...your coworker is a TWIT !!! and you KNOW what we do with TWITS right?? IGGY THEM!!! she might also be jealous Sissy and she is also wrong... my mom was divorced for 16 years b4 she found love again... and they were together for another 17 years more so yes it can happen at ANY age... 
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 6:15 AM |
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twotall911
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really  Im still waiting
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 7:44 AM |
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ToucherinSparks
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The proof is simple, Red.
Men and women are subsets of humans, are all humans the same?
You are a woman, are you the same as all other women?
Of course not, so why would you expect all men to be the same?
Therefore, your co-worker is wrong in assuming that you cannot meet a man who is different from other men.
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 8:09 AM |
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mogrl1000
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Don`t listen to this negative crap from people at work.I have been divorced for almost 12 years.I`m not worried.
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 9:24 AM |
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twotall911
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me either
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 9:29 AM |
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Blondino
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You shape your own future Red .... and is you want to meet a man then you will
I now .... disregard negative influences around me and choose to surroud myself with the positives .... 
One day ..... when you least expect it ....  some one will sneak up behind you and ........ take your heart
(unless its Toucherin and he will just be pressing himself against you ) 
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 10:56 AM |
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Loreli
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Yes-I think you will meet that special one, just as the rest of us will, and nobody should just settle.
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 11:29 AM |
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IndigoRose
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Crap I have been divorced 20 years  Oh wait!
Red I wouldn't give up on finding the perfect person for YOU he's out there trying to find the way to Sweet! His GPS is just mucked up...that and he's a man they are ALWAYS late 
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 12:37 PM |
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Luisa909
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men are not all the same !!!!!
Some are similar....but many of them act according to the women they meet.
In my life I knew stupid men ...sometimes I suffered because of them, but in general I have a positive opinion of them....
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 1:25 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Never give up Sweet..and never settle for second best when you can have it all. Just keep right on believing...Miracles do happen you know..  
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 1:43 PM |
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swingpup
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you have been divorced/ single 8 years what makes you think you will meet someone if you havent already
Sounds as though your coworker may have issues, one of those being a pessimistic outlook and attitude. Being of the male gender.....I do meet a number of woman in person. A few will go on and on about how this or that male was this way or that way.
After a few hours of iced tea and conversation a.k.a. interrogation, it's discovered that they met them in bars, and of course they are "temporality" unemployed, has mega drama going on with kids, and their monthly "check" never arrives on time etc. 
Often times birds of a feather flock together. As Blond stated disregard negative influences around me and choose to surround myself with the positives.
Get out there and actually meet in person, you'll soon and quickly differentiate the keepers from those you pat on the head and send them packing. 
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 2:05 PM |
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sweet5red
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thanks all and i do try to be positive and i know the right fella is lookin for me too.. the longer he waits well hehe his loss..  Sweet N Louisiana
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 2:45 PM |
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Luisa909
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few rules
live well with yourself & give him your serenity and...he will come !
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 3:38 PM |
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 4:30 PM |
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Say_Yes
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Actually, I find your statement to be insulting, both to men and to you. Obviously, men are not all the same, just as women are not. Statements like
all i want is one guy to prove to me they are not all the same
are a huge turnoff. To me it shouts, Hello, I am bitter. Come deal with my anger. It would be like me asking, "Why are all women gold diggers?" Obviously, they are not. How would you receive such a statement? I bet that it would not be positive.
As for the assertion your friend made that since you haven't met someone, then you won't, well that is just as absurd. I meet new people almost almost every day. With new meetings, come new opportunities. So, if you continue to look, then it is possible that you will find.
BTW, don't settle. Of course, don't expect men to just settle either. For things to work, it has to be right for both people.
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 4:39 PM |
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catman602
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ok ladies here is what you will get from me . sex yes . house work together yes . sports on tv NO . will we go to things with each other . YES . Can you count on me to be there for you YES . still tehre ? good . I am also the guy that all your girlreinds say " he must be gay " no . and not married . these words still keep re-playing " I don't want to get married . We get a dvorce you get half . " those words hurt then and still do today 10 years later UNTIL a woman shows me differant . I am 40 and getting older .
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| Mar 28, 2007 @ 4:44 PM |
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steveemac
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that and he's a man they are ALWAYS late
Indigo, would you want a man that was always "early?" 
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| Mar 29, 2007 @ 1:39 AM |
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sweet5red
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To me it shouts, Hello, I am bitter. Come deal with my anger
NO say yes it does not say i am bitter because i am Not.. the right guy will be able to prove he is the right guy and will know and understand me and love me for me..and know that my heart is filled with love for him.. whoever he is.. Sweet N Louisiana 
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| Mar 29, 2007 @ 9:44 AM |
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Goodness_Gracie
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Sweet life is all about CHOICES .......the ole phrase * I am what I am*..and it is your choice not to live with negative thinking. Keep your chin up.....
It does happen, I never thought it would either after I lost a special man in my life over 6 years ago.........and once again.....a wonderful friendship blossomed into LOVE!! 
Growing up I was always taught to think POSITIVE!!
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