| Apr 2, 2007 @ 5:27 PM |
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heywhat68
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their is a guy I sometimes have good conversations with and would like to become better friends with. I sent him an email saying I liked talking to him and that I thought we should hang out he called me later that day and said he would like to hang out and get to know each other better. I called him back a few days later but he didn't call me back. I texted him and asked if he got the message and he said he had been working.
He texted me the next day and asked if I wanted to meet up with him but I was alrealdy asleep. I texted him the next day to tell him about a party but he was alrealdy busy. Anyway I was going to meet up with some mutual friends of ours and texted him if he wanted to go. he said where at and I told him where he never texted me back. Anyway that was yesterday and I wanted to ask him during the week to see if he wanted to do anything but I think that might seem pushy? or maybe he;s lost intrest in hanging out with me? I don't want to be romantically involved with him at all but I was starting to like him as a friend because I really like just talking to him. Should I wait and not ask him to do anything else inless he contacts me again?
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| Apr 2, 2007 @ 5:52 PM |
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medisynergi
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Keep communicating.
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| Apr 2, 2007 @ 5:57 PM |
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heywhat68
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So if I keep communicating it won't make me look like i'm after him?
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| Apr 2, 2007 @ 6:03 PM |
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blueyes101
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If you ever feel you are being pushy, just simply ask them to contact/ go out with you when they have time. if they don't call/write, you have your answer.......
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| Apr 2, 2007 @ 6:04 PM |
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AngelLight
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I personally would not continue to contact him at this point.
He seems to be a ship that keeps passing in the night.
If he were interested in friendship, or maybe something more than that, he'd be right there.....whether it be responding to a text or an invitation to a party.
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| Apr 2, 2007 @ 6:17 PM |
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LibidinistLady
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Some people, male and female, like the chase not the capture. Apparently there have been several attempts to get together with no response to the last one. Leave it be. He'll either contact you to see what happened or he won't.
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| Apr 2, 2007 @ 10:26 PM |
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lazareth
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i would let him make the next move
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| Apr 2, 2007 @ 10:36 PM |
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daisy315
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yup.. you've done your part.. the ball is in his court now...just make sure he realizes it's friends only.. he might be expecting more if there ia a lack of communication... 
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| Apr 3, 2007 @ 1:09 AM |
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jld3377
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I don't think it is fair to just not communicate with someone. From past experience, sometimes, they just don't get the last attempt. I've left messages for people and people have left me messages and they never got them. It might be best to text or leave a msg with something to the effect of, hey, I was hoping we could move this friendship to the level of hanging out... let me know if/when you are interested...
and leave it at that... if they're not interested, their lack of response will be your answer...
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| Apr 3, 2007 @ 1:19 AM |
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IndigoRose
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I know those men people love the chase  let him make the next move!
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| Apr 3, 2007 @ 1:33 AM |
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mzlara388
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It's his turn.
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| Apr 3, 2007 @ 11:30 PM |
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travelnfrog
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Dating at my age may suck but I'd NEVER want to go back to those turbulent younger years. The OP brought back so many memories of those insecure days. Now if someone isn't interested, no problem. Life's too short to sweat it.... 
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| Apr 4, 2007 @ 3:33 PM |
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Satellite_of_Love
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So if I keep communicating it won't make me look like i'm after him?
Too late, you've already done that. He's just not that interested, or if he was, it was for a booty call most likely. Don't call anymore, and move on. General tip: if a guy is REALLY interested there will be no excuses about work, or dropped calls, or not returning messages.
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