| Apr 17, 2007 @ 8:32 PM |
Should u love for looks, heart or both?
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divine35
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Someone help me on this issue cause I'm confused big time. Should a person love for the heart of another or should it be for their looks first then love their heart or maybe both.
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 8:35 PM |
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twotall911
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looks can be deceiving, sometimes the heart can lead you astray but it will send the final message
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 8:35 PM |
Should u love for looks, heart or both?
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MarysPlace
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Looks and wallet, baby. He could be dumb as a stick in the mud as far as I'm concerned.
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 8:39 PM |
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BandTMom
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Looks are what initially attract you.
Heart is what keeps you.
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 8:41 PM |
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Shortiaintlying
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baby if it is what it should be, then ya got both. dont ya.
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 8:43 PM |
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BandTMom
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 8:44 PM |
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waterfire
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I have loved both (worldly accepted beauty and not), they were both equally beautiful in my eyes….it is the person you end up loving, looks just attract.
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 8:45 PM |
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AngelLight
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Resonance on every level  mind, body, spirit.
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 8:46 PM |
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Laidback742
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Heart means everything.
Looks are just a bonus.
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 8:48 PM |
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AngelLight
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I love the way you put that LB
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 8:50 PM |
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divine35
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Well i been on both sides. I have loved for looks and the heart and got shit for both but then i have been loved for looks and loved for my heart. I moved to Texas for a man who I had been talking to for 13 months and he cheated over and over dumped me came back 6 months later i took him back he asked me to marry him i said yes moved here from alabama only to meet him and he say u r not the woman i wanted u to be. U look different u sound different but so did he but i still loved him. He is 45 I am 35 and yet Im now here been here 8 days seen him 4 times and everytime its the same thing. He finally said he didn't love me cause I was a stranger to him. So this is why i put the question out there. I suppose he loved me for the image and not my heart. I ain't sure what happened to the marriage part or anything cause as soon as we met he just could not get it together. 
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 9:06 PM |
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AngelLight
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I'm sorry things did not work out for you divine.
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 9:09 PM |
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Laidback742
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TY Angel.
Divine .... sounds to me like he's a game player, and he got you to play .... sorry to hear what you went through.
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 9:12 PM |
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Say_Yes
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Sorry to hear that it did not work out for you. As for your original question, it is all about the total package. While no single thing will make the deal, one thing can break it. If you settle for someone, who is a poor fit for you, then you will not be happy in the relationship and that works both ways. It is better to find out now and end the bad deal. Move on and find the right guy. An attractive gal like you, will find lots of interest. Once that interest is there, then you can see where it will lead. Good luck.
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 9:13 PM |
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divine35
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Well yeah u guys might be riight about this one. Just ashame people r so shallow out there in this world. Like i told him when u 60 dude wtf is it gonna matter what either one of use look like if we aint got love we got nothing and lets see some 35 ur old look ur way then 
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 9:34 PM |
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daisy315
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love me for my looks?.. then I am SOL... 
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 9:38 PM |
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BandTMom
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Daisy...you are beautiful. You stop that! 
We are all beautiful in our own way. And different people are attracted to different "looks".
When I talk about looks, I don't mean the movie star drop dead georgous looks...I'm talking about the looks that attract us....the looks that attract our hearts.
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 9:39 PM |
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Silvertongue62
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Love is the pardox of the human spirit
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Looks are the epiphany of vanity
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 9:44 PM |
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divine35
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its just a shame we live in this world that its all about looks. I think about my parents and know that it wasn't like it is now. If u aint a size 10 u r sol and if u dont protray urself as a lush u aint worth much wither lol. O where o where is the last of the dying breeds at. 
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| Apr 17, 2007 @ 9:45 PM |
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divine35
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oops did u all see them words that was not spelled correct damn i think that was just a case of laziness on my part. sorry 
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