| May 14, 2007 @ 6:52 AM |
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painter007
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I am curious if people here will only meet someone if there seems to be a love connection, or will you meet to hangout and make a new friend?
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| May 14, 2007 @ 7:22 AM |
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luvmycats
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Since I am here to make friends, thats my intention.
I love meeting new people and no one can have too many friends. If "something" should happen then  {not likely, not many men want to move to the other end of the county}
If not, then not a problem, I got what I am looking for. 
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| May 14, 2007 @ 9:46 AM |
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ISSUESWOPTIONS
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I meet to bang the bottom out of it. Where the man in the boat evacuates due to torrential flooding. Where good girl thoughts are laughed at and Angelina Jolie is Queen.
Love? What is that? I have heard that it is broken condom dreams that resides in 9 month trophies which you rarely get to stay still on a stand. Me? No love, just unadulterated fornification and defelation (<---not a real word yet) of the flesh. Give me the eve of passion and non stop girley goo. Plaster me against walls with squirters and unhinge me with the unsatisfied. But don't give me love. I refuse to meet with you for that. It makes no sense when there are hot and bothered prospects that only want to make you sweat till you drop on the prowl....
This message brought to you by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints...
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| May 14, 2007 @ 10:11 AM |
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kattsmeow
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Friends of course.
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| May 14, 2007 @ 11:26 AM |
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FeliciVagano
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since I have an aversion towards "drama" and "crowds" and also thinking that most everyone here is looking for a love connection..( Katts and sadist excluded of course) I would hesitate to meet someone "as friends" unless it was totally agreed that we were meeting just as friends..
even then...great expectations and unrequited love have a nasty way of interfering with even this simple meet...so I would say it would be the exception rather than the rule for me.......
btw...Painter..some time ..down the road...wanna meet me - just as a friend ??? 
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| May 14, 2007 @ 12:25 PM |
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definitelydi
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Meet for love? How can you love someone you don't really know? Isn't "meeting for love" putting too much expectatation on both people? Isn't is smarter to get to know someone on a "friendship with potential for more" basis?
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| May 14, 2007 @ 12:30 PM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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| May 14, 2007 @ 12:32 PM |
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Bojangles102
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I'm in Las Vegas and I don't like Las Vegas types. I look across the country for a love connection...Why would someone fly cross country for someone to hang out with?.....Love connection...that's all I want.
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| May 14, 2007 @ 12:46 PM |
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sciurusniger
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On a dating site, you meet because you establish a friendship and because you hope it holds the potential for love.
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| May 14, 2007 @ 1:15 PM |
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Dukums
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I would meet to just meet. I like getting to know new people. Will they become my friend? Only time will tell since I am discriminating. Will they become a love interest? Unlikely since I have to know someone real well before going there and unfortunately you cannot discern how a person really is long distance and part time. I have to see the bad hair days before I will committ to love.
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| May 14, 2007 @ 1:16 PM |
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Dukums
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Oh and Hi painter! Waved at you a couple of times last week as I drove by your town.
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| May 14, 2007 @ 1:19 PM |
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painter007
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Di..........oh silly me, I guess I didnt explain myself well enough......of course I know that "meeting for love" is putting too much expectations on it.....What I meant was will you only meet someone that you think you may have a romantic connection with....or will you also meet knowing that its for friendship. Yes this is a dating site but I also just meet with people who I know will be buds......
I hope this clears up any confusion.
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| May 14, 2007 @ 1:26 PM |
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Bojangles102
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With so many miles between correspondents, one should expect to be little more than 'cyber friends', which I hold little regard for.
The search if for a love interest...Someone who willing to uproot their life and move to be with the other.
Personally, I never could understand the value of having an image of someone in my mind from a picture and sharing words with.and then call them friend...These, at best, are cyber acquaintences.
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| May 14, 2007 @ 1:27 PM |
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Luisa909
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Oh ...for me it's easy to reply ... I'm here to make new friends
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| May 14, 2007 @ 2:02 PM |
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definitelydi
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Yes, I meet people for friendship only. Anything beyond is just an extra added bonus. 
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| May 14, 2007 @ 2:19 PM |
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sweet5red
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i seem to find a song to fit everything... Sweet N Louisiana  
Artist: Johnny Lee Lyrics
Song: Lookin For Love Lyrics
I spent a lifetime lookin' for you
Single bars and good time lovers were never true
Playing a fools game, hopin' to win
Tellin' those sweet lies and losin' again.
Chorus
I was lookin' for love in all the wrong places
Lookin' for love in too many places
Searchin' her eyes, lookin' for traces
Of what I'm dreamin' of
Hoping to find a friend and a lover
I'll bless the day I discover,
You - lookin' for love.
I was alone then, no love in site
I did every thing I could to get me through the night
Don''t know where it started or where it might end
I'd turn to a stranger just like a friend.
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| May 14, 2007 @ 4:02 PM |
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LipGlossQueen9
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it's only for friends now.
don't think i can meet the right one on the internet.
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| May 14, 2007 @ 4:17 PM |
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swingpup
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Hell, I'll meet anyone (females) and I have within the operational 50 mile radius that desires some intellectual conversation over iced tea.
No love connection needed or required. If the "chemistry" clicks it's what ever is mutually agreed upon. If it doesn't click oh well, the tea was good.
I found out long ago that what you see in the forums, in pictures, in listings, etc., is so much less important then what one is able to discover about a person when actually meeting in person. 
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| May 14, 2007 @ 6:17 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
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No. In the first place, how could you love somebody you've never met? More importantly, I meet people because I like meeting people, not because I expect them to fall in love with me.
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| May 14, 2007 @ 6:25 PM |
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loisday
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I would meet to just meet. I like getting to know new people. Will they become my friend? Only time will tell since I am discriminating. Will they become a love interest? Unlikely since I have to know someone real well before going there and unfortunately you cannot discern how a person really is long distance and part time. I have to see the bad hair days before I will committ to love.
My thoughts exactly.
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