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jdctx
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This is a little bit of a rant but I am growing so tired of meeting women who's lives are a Train Wreck with no hope..
For once I'd like to meet someone who has her life together..
She's over her ex and if she has kids that parts been taken care
probably one of the best ways to get rid of me...I am ok with kids, really no more then 2..but I'm not here to date your ex
She financially secure and responsible
Don't cry to me about you lack of controlling your money. Accept responsiblity !!
She's sown her oats and is ready to meet someone and build towards a relationship
I'm sure your so excited so many men want you. But I'm not impressed
No more Cougars please
I am not looking for some fling
Sorry folks but I've about had enough... Will a woman who has her together please take one step forward.
And yes i have my life very much together in all areas I have mentioned.
[Edited on 5/25/2007 8:01 PM]
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| May 25, 2007 @ 8:01 PM |
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twotall911
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| May 25, 2007 @ 8:04 PM |
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jdctx
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Hey twotal Thank you for your service.. What branch were you in.. I was luckly enough to have been in the Marines during peace time.
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| May 26, 2007 @ 12:08 AM |
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signme
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Got my life all together but you're too young and I have a b/f. Keep trying. 
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| May 26, 2007 @ 2:35 AM |
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sweet5red
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MY act is together BUT then u might not like short redheads that love country music.. and are my age..  sweet N Louisiana
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| May 26, 2007 @ 6:38 AM |
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twotall911
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jd-in my blogs 
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| May 26, 2007 @ 8:43 AM |
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Loreli
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The thought goes both ways.
I'd like to meet a guy who doesn't JUST wanna get laid. That's a benefit of a good relationship, not vice versa. 
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| May 26, 2007 @ 10:29 AM |
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truegent65000
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If she's sown her own oats, ask for her blood results. :)
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| May 26, 2007 @ 10:42 AM |
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Angel178
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That's right Loreli!
I find the comments of the woman with kids a little offensive. I realize that the man would not want to date the ex, but the fact is, if there are children then the ex will always be part of it. So, you should find a woman who does not have children. It sounds as if even if the woman had children, you would be the kind of guy who would not want them around. If someone dates me, then they date my three children, an ex, my parents, etc. This is not said to be snotty, that is just who I am. You are different and that is ok. Just don't make us single moms sound like a bad catch! We can have kids, and have our lives together too!
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| May 26, 2007 @ 10:57 AM |
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| May 26, 2007 @ 11:04 AM |
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Snappygoddess
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When I was still single.. I talked to a lot of men that said they wanted to find a woman who had her life together... they couldn't believe how many immature and bitter women there were. My reply to them was usually " Women are often confused and bitter because of a bad experience with men"... if men could get their life together, perhaps they could find a good woman with her life together" 
Ok.. fire away men 
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| May 26, 2007 @ 11:37 AM |
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everrett
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Dont sweat it.
Life, especially a love life, is not always about reaching the finish line and the big pay off of the perfect soulmate. Enjoy the ride, and the scenery along the way. I would love to have miss right plop down in my lap right now, but until she does I will have lots of fun with whoever ends up there for the time being.
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| May 26, 2007 @ 11:37 AM |
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beckyiv42000
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Will a woman who has her together please take one step forward.
stepping forward but not interested extreme judgmental people are a big turn off ...especially those who generalize
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| May 26, 2007 @ 11:53 AM |
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Aztec848
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egotistical whining - characteristic of false pride; having an exaggerated sense of self-importance; "a conceited fool"; "an attitude of self-conceited arrogance"; "an egotistical disregard of others,"growing ever more swollen-headed and arbitrary";
Yep....that's what I think 
Ever think of an attitude adjustment ? ....or no one will be stepping forward...SARGE!
[Edited on 5/26/2007 12:01 PM]
[Edited on 5/26/2007 12:06 PM]
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| May 26, 2007 @ 12:09 PM |
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BandTMom
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The problem I have come across owith online dating is people think they are going to find their perfect mate.
Let's all get real...nobody is perfect. We all have our life experiences. This is not a shopping mall.....more like a flea market. Most of us here are a little "used" but still worth the effort.
And whining gets you no where.
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| May 26, 2007 @ 12:15 PM |
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Loreli
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Let's all get real...nobody is perfect Mom
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| May 26, 2007 @ 12:17 PM |
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beckyiv42000
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But Mom there ARE perfect people online.... just ask em 
the only perfect person I could see finding is one that is perfect for me and well aint that all that counts??
hold on now you mean this shopping list I have here that has *MAN * on it aint gonna do me no good??
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| May 26, 2007 @ 12:54 PM |
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BandTMom
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Becky.
I threw away my list a long time ago. The guy who is "perfect for me" will probably not be on that list.
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| May 26, 2007 @ 12:57 PM |
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jdctx
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Of course none of us are perfect and this is not meant to put a general statement of all or most women.. Nor did I intend to suggest that a women with kids means issues..
AND I agree that men are just as bad and can be worse..
My life is not blemish free.. However it is DRAMA free and overall very stable ! If you have your life together then you really shouldn't take offense to what I say...Again my statemen was never intended to generalize all...It has been unfortuneate that most of the women I have spoken to lately have had excessive drama in there lifes with no hope of letting up...
Some is my fault the signs were there I chose to go on anyways. For others i did not see until later.. Crap I know the ladies know what I'm talking about.. You know the guy the emails seems nice then he get on the phone and pervs out on you.. I've head the stories..
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| May 26, 2007 @ 1:05 PM |
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BandTMom
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Sure we know what you are talking about. It has probably happened to everyone one of us here.
I did not take offense to your post...however I did see it as a generalization. this is a "rant" that has been done over and over.
It's too bad that finding a partner these days isn't easy, but keep searching and you will find her.
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