| Dec 7, 2005 @ 5:19 AM |
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TAINQ
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Why would someone wink at another, get them to respond, exchange a couple of possitive emails, then stop ALL correspondence or acknowledgement (will not open email) without providing some kind of explanation? It can't be the breath.
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| Dec 7, 2005 @ 6:28 AM |
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facetrock
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Because they decided after a few emails they were really not interested after all.
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| Dec 7, 2005 @ 6:39 AM |
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Mell84
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Because something came up and they haven't been able to get online.
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| Dec 7, 2005 @ 7:13 AM |
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MotownManiax
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Because people switch gears, change minds, lose interest, and otherwise exercise their right to be fickle. Not defending, just human behavior.
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| Dec 7, 2005 @ 8:03 AM |
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MischeviousAngel
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well... since I am positive you aren't talking about me...
There are a LOT of times when I will log in and not check my mail... Yep, I can see that little red envelope sitting here looking at me... Yep it's obvious that I have mail... I'm not inclined to look at it right then so I don't. God forbid that I get distracted and forget that I am even logged into MD to start with (happens ALL the time with me) because it could be hours or days before I get to it depending on what's going on around here.
In other words... not looking at email isn't that unusual (heck we have had more than one person come into chat and ask how to check email) but if it's been more than a few days I would start to wonder if maybe there wasn't something else going on.
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| Dec 7, 2005 @ 10:33 AM |
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ahnyceleven
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How about they simply have a busy life off of the internet and just haven't gotten around to formally telling you to drag.
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| Dec 7, 2005 @ 5:16 PM |
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TAINQ
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Me a drag? You must be a bore. Having been on the net for sometime now, I'm quite used to the strange behavior of people. In this case, however, the person is regularly on line, and given the period of time that has lasp since the email was sent, one can only assume that they are intentially ignoring the email. That's ok, we all get email from people we don't wish to speak with. However, as I've stated before, prior communications were all positive and there were no indications of boredom or dissatisfaction. Obviously by not responding she's making her wishes known. Why start something you're not going to finish, good, bad or indiferent?
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| Dec 7, 2005 @ 8:09 PM |
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JenRNinOhio
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Some people are like that. They start things they just can't finish. Like that time I opened the wine, ran the bubble bath & lit the candles ...
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| Dec 7, 2005 @ 8:43 PM |
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Pete73052
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Yes, it's good to have friends. 
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| Dec 7, 2005 @ 9:01 PM |
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waiting41
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Because they thought you wouldn't last.
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| Dec 7, 2005 @ 9:03 PM |
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star131303
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You know, I think sometimes it is very hard to keep up with all the mail on this site and I think I am also guilty sometimes of not getting back to people right when they write to me, whether I want to or not. I do read everything pretty much when I get it though, just do not respond right away.
I do, for the most part at least answer just about everyone eventually, whether I am interested or not, it is just not usually at the exact time some think I should.
And when you don't like someone that writes to you, or don't think that they are the end all be all for you, is it so mean to say that you will then be their friend?
Or is that weird? I think I tell that to alot of people and honestly for alot of different reasons. And they tend to react strangely to it alot....
At least I tell them!
[Edited on 12/7/2005 9:04 PM]
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| Dec 8, 2005 @ 1:14 AM |
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B4Barbie
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I feel like most of the email I receive are just form letters, Not many men take the time to write a real letter and if the do personalize their letter it's usually vulgar.
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| Dec 8, 2005 @ 1:48 AM |
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TAINQ
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Because they thought you wouldn't last.
Waiting, that doesn't make any sense, to stop in the middle of foreplay, it's like turning off the shower before rinsing.
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| Dec 8, 2005 @ 2:13 AM |
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Pete73052
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I feel like most of the email I receive are just form letters, Not many men take the time to write a real letter and if the do personalize their letter it's usually vulgar.
Yep! Personalized email letters are very important. I keep trying to hammer  this point. Guys, pay attention! 
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| Dec 8, 2005 @ 2:21 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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Waiting, that doesn't make any sense, to stop in the middle of foreplay, it's like turning off the shower before rinsing.
Speaking for myself, being online doesn't necessarily mean I'm paying attention to it, I'm frequently (matter of fact nearly always) multitasking and only looking over occasionally (but I both read and type fast when I do look, matter of fact, too fast). Maybe she really isn't interested, maybe there's a real life, local interest that she's going to at least investigate first, maybe it's the holiday season and there are so many distractions that she doesn't want to risk giving an erroneous impression (wise woman if so, I could take lessons from her). Have you tried sending an email asking her if she's still speaking to you? Especially if it really is a local that she decides really isn't worth pursuing...
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Oops, sorry - just noticed you said she hadn't opened the email. If she gets a lot of email, she might have overlooked it. Nothing to lose by sending another one, is there?
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| Dec 8, 2005 @ 3:48 PM |
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TAINQ
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Heaven, I did, three. It's really not important, my curiosity just got the better of me. Why start something if you are not going to follow up? Any who on to the next subject.
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| Dec 8, 2005 @ 3:51 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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Heaven, I did, three. It's really not important, my curiosity just got the better of me. Why start something if you are not going to follow up? Any who on to the next subject.
Sounds good...but personally, I think she's obviously not functioning properly to pass you by!
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| Dec 8, 2005 @ 4:27 PM |
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star131303
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I see flirting! 
Just sayin'.....
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| Dec 8, 2005 @ 4:42 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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I see flirting!
Huh??? Is that what it is when you tell the truth???
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| Dec 8, 2005 @ 5:08 PM |
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Glitter0kitten
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I do it bc the guy is usually over my age limit or looking dor something that i specify in my profile that i am not, not to mention that i do metnion an age limit in my profile to so that proves the guy never even read it! 
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