| Nov 6, 2005 @ 1:55 PM |
Girls, can you please explain this?
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johnw_6
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I'm new to this site but have already noticed a strange trend " girls with fiancés/ married looking for male friends"
They explain how much they love such & such, then go on to cover the type of male there looking for. I'm a little lost here, surely this perfect partner is enough male contact for them? this is after all a dating site? (very understanding men they must had!)
great for some insight here please:-(
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| Nov 6, 2005 @ 2:03 PM |
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summersquall
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Obviously I cannot speak as to motives of the women you're talking about.
However there may be another consideration, there are certain fields that are required to be filled in when opening an account here, such as your gender, location and what you're looking for in a partner. Perhaps that is what can be misleading?
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| Nov 6, 2005 @ 2:11 PM |
Girls, can you please explain this?
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johnw_6
Posts: 194
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Nice, giving them the benefit of doubt!
Somehow I don't think so but perhaps some female replies here could clarify this one though. Then again you may be right.
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| Nov 6, 2005 @ 2:30 PM |
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MarysPlace
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I don't see an issue there. Whatever floats their boat.
You can always not write/answer them. :)
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| Nov 6, 2005 @ 2:33 PM |
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Danger
Posts: 1,180
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lol you have to take a look at some of the men too! they're a lot of user's and abuser's out there. some....will say they are divorced and are still married!
i had a guy write to me that was married and asked if i would meet him 'discreetly'...i answered by telling him that if he would take more time meeting his wife 'discreetly' he wouldn't have to have a profile! we became 'online' friends and they are now in marriage counceling.
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| Nov 6, 2005 @ 2:41 PM |
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dacota
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hiya i had a guy write to me today asking me to go live with him and his beautifull wife as a threesum in there home lol they are all crazyyyyyy
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| Nov 6, 2005 @ 3:11 PM |
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LEXI_IS_STILL_TROUBLE
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yep, i get a lot of couples writing me too.ughhhh 
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| Nov 6, 2005 @ 3:22 PM |
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anjuta07
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..well... .. " very understanding men they must had!) "...really?;)...than why not understanding women.. 
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| Nov 6, 2005 @ 3:29 PM |
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LJT67
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I think if your married or strictly dateing one person you shouldn't be here,it just seems a little sneaky to me!!
unless your partner knows about it.
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| Nov 6, 2005 @ 3:42 PM |
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anjuta07
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. absolutly agree ljt ;))..just untill man ll not understand that this is concerning both...not only women but and men also...there is no happy relations...other way answer is - men by their behave allow women do that....
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| Nov 6, 2005 @ 3:48 PM |
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johnw_6
Posts: 194
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anjuta07 - I'm not sure what you mean unless your saying the males are cheating and therefore it's ok for their partners to look elsewhere?
My hope was that it wasn't " I'll stay with him until someone better comes along"
The above answers I did considered.
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| Nov 6, 2005 @ 4:14 PM |
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anjuta07
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lets listen another women;))....and than may be - continue...
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| Nov 6, 2005 @ 4:17 PM |
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t_h_e_b_r_a_t
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I do remember that when I had roommates, I always preferred them to be male because they wouldn't try to borrow my clothes etc. When I was in school most of my friends were men because I just didn't like the snippy clicks that a lot of girls seem to form. I blew them off and was just "one of the guys", until they got hungry and then I was suddenly a girl again because I could cook. As far as involved women online looking for male friends, maybe they are just looking for a male point of view to help understand their partner.
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| Nov 6, 2005 @ 4:36 PM |
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Talonz59
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Hmmmm..while I've seen several profiles of "attached" women seeking male friends...I've never had one write me. If they did it would be a short lived thing...my only reply to them would be to focus on what they have or risk losing it all.
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| Nov 6, 2005 @ 4:46 PM |
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Dr_Dement0
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I think if your married or strictly dateing one person you shouldn't be here,it just seems a little sneaky to me!!
unless your partner knows about it.
and there ya go! 
My wife and I met here. We just signed up again because we heard the message boards were back.
When she was filling out her profile, she started to put females in the box "looking for..." I said, "ohh don't put that, people will think..." well, you know.  lol
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| Nov 6, 2005 @ 4:57 PM |
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LJT67
Posts: 68
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Congratulations  Dr DementO and wife!!!
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| Nov 6, 2005 @ 4:59 PM |
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slkstockings_1
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Have you ever heard of the term "players"...? Well they are not exclusive to the female species.... and this site has them... male and female.... You just have to navigate your way past them if thats what you want to do.... and you will if you're serious about finding someone.... regardless of what site you're on.... Good luck to you!
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| Nov 6, 2005 @ 6:03 PM |
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RAKS37
Posts: 611
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Along this line
Why do people put no answer in the marital status space in some other places.
No answer means married
Duh
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| Nov 6, 2005 @ 10:19 PM |
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DragonsDream
Posts: 220
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Not exactly sure about anyone elses reasons, but I can say for myself, I am a people person, yet I tend to relate, identify, and get along better with males on a whole.
I have found that the majority of women that I have known on a personal level (friends) have always seemed to have issues on one spectrum or another. I have also found them to be very catty, back stabbing, judgemental, and always looking for an alterior motive for simple actions or gestures. I will not even get into the whole being nieve, petty, ect...
I always was raised around males, basically, I know and understand their simplicity at least for the most part...so, as far as my ad goes, when it says "friends", that is exactly what is meant. No lying, sneakiness, ect...
Does that help you any?
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| Nov 7, 2005 @ 12:53 AM |
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buni
Posts: 971
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A lot of people are just here to chat on the message boards,but they should state that in their profile.
Anyone who puts that they are married or whatever is just looking for fun, or maybe looking for greener grass if ya know what i mean?
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