| Jul 17, 2007 @ 10:41 AM |
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goodlady354u
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I've come up with a few things are a Must...
1. Must get along with my children (they are teenagers so no one will get along with them all the time but....mostly)
2. Must get along with my family (if you don't get along with them then chances are you won't get along with me for very long)
3. Must always be the adult first and foremost when you are around my kids, then friends
4. Must be emotionally stable
5. Must always keep temper in check until proper place and time
6. Must work or at least have a steady income.
Those are some of mine....
What are some of yours?
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 10:45 AM |
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Silvertongue62
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Must have the insight to get better with each and every passing day with this thing called life.
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 10:51 AM |
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TiNkErGrRrRrR
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Must always be Honest..no matter how much the truth hurts..I`d rather be told the truth then lied too..
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 11:12 AM |
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SpiritOrnery
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Okay, I am assuming this is intimate relationship...significant other type.
Must be able to forgive AND forget.
Must have a basically positive outlook because I tend to reflect people. I really don't want to reflect their crap...ewwww.
Must be positive creators.
MUST be great in bed (according to MY opinion) or willing to learn what works for me. (This is actually number one. Why have an intimate relationship if the sex is lousy? I will live alone and just have friends otherwise.)
Must have a full life because mine is and I cannot devote all my time to just the relationship. He or I might get resentful, otherwise.
Must have SOME time for me and willing to devote some of it to me (mentally, emotionally and sexually), to keep me from looking around.  I prefer monogamous relationships...meaning both of us are. I can wait if it is worth waiting for.
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 11:21 AM |
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Timber52
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Being Faithful, Keeping a Job, and able to say no to Drugs is good..also.. not live to drink alcohol..
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 11:34 AM |
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goodlady354u
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Thanks guys for the input.....You've made me think of alot of things I hadn't even thought about!
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 11:35 AM |
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SpiritOrnery
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Yeah, Goodlady, be careful what you ask for, you may get it.
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 12:32 PM |
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jamminjerry
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these are basically the same expectations i have for a relationship. they are not must haves because i endured my Ex's family for 21 years and of course they endured me. LOL
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 6:12 PM |
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EyesofBlue72660
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Straight from my profile:
the person has to respect himself and others, loves to laugh and is comfortable in any situation.
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 6:14 PM |
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goodlady354u
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Spirit....I asked for it...and I'm glad I'm getting it...lol.
I started a list of Must Haves and Wants....so I could get them clear in my head....   That may never happen....lol....but....seriously I wanted to know what I am able to compromise on and what are the things I can't give in on. The relationship I am in is lacking....in alot of areas of my Must haves. So I'm thinking "He MUST go"....lol.
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 6:14 PM |
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lazareth
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TEETH..... real or not !
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 6:16 PM |
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definitelydi
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1. must be independent
2. must be steadily employeed
3. must have teeth (I agree Laz!)
4. must be clean
5. must have warped sense of humor
6. must adore me 
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 6:20 PM |
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RoverClover
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1 must have her own place
2 must obey the rules
3 must not be a drama queen
4 must have no kids
5 must take constructive criticism
6 must have nice ass and legs
7 must have tight pussy
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 6:23 PM |
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lazareth
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I hope your'e joking about 2 and 7 rover 
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 6:25 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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being true to yourself, and with yourself, youll receave all that you need and hoped for.
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 6:36 PM |
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SpiritOrnery
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To each his/her own. That is his own. I hope everyone respects that for Rover.
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 7:01 PM |
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Snappygoddess
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Must have the ability to laugh at himself and have a great sense of humor.
Must be willing to communicate on different levels
Must love deeply from the heart and soul
Must want to grow in our relationship
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 7:07 PM |
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sensuouswoman
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All that above and one more thing...............
must be a good size!
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 7:18 PM |
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artcat7
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Loves me beyond reason and I him
Honesty and loyalty
Integrity
A sense of humor
Be a happy person with a positive outlook
Good personality that is non-addictive
Knows what commitment truly is
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| Jul 17, 2007 @ 7:24 PM |
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signme
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Be honest.
Able to communicate.
Have a job or some kind of income.
Sense of humor.
Faithful.
Love animals, esp. cats.
Be family-oriented.
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