| Dec 12, 2005 @ 5:09 PM |
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ahnyceleven
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How do women feel about shyness? I don't mean a lack of confidence or that goofy socially inept shyness...I mean just a sudden feeling of awkwardness or seeming inability to say the stuff you feel or to express things tenderly to a woman, stuff you want to tell her but suddenly can't bring yourself to say them. Do women consider shyness, in this sense, a weakness...and is it unforgiveable...and does it go away. I've sort of met someone recently on here and I've sort of started to feel this sort of shyness...I have SO MUCH that I want to tell her, but can't seem to find adequate words to do so. Any advice?
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| Dec 12, 2005 @ 5:10 PM |
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ExacerbatedTaboo
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I am shy 
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| Dec 12, 2005 @ 5:12 PM |
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spongebob777
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I'm pretty shy in the real world but the internet lets me get out of control.
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| Dec 12, 2005 @ 5:17 PM |
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Snappygoddess
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Nothing wrong with being a little shy.. lot of women find that appealing in a man.. as long as it doesn't hinder him from saying the important things repeatedly.
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| Dec 12, 2005 @ 5:18 PM |
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danae74
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Ditto, Snappy!
A litle bit shy... 
Shut up like a clam, permanently... 
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| Dec 12, 2005 @ 5:25 PM |
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spongebob777
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If you were to ask someone who knows me if I'm shy they would say no. Once I feel comfortable I jabber like a schoolgirl.
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| Dec 12, 2005 @ 5:29 PM |
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Angel54214
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ahny... 
You try this: write down on paper or type in a word processor a list of the things you want to tell her. Then below it, start typing a letter, but don't get carried away typing all of your items in one letter. Go slow with your thoughts, proceed calmly with your own words in a nice smiling letter. Copy and paste it into an email or if you are talking on the phone, then use it for a reference.
But remember, all our great advise givers here will also tell you it comes from the heart and soul on feelings and emotions. Best of luck to you...
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| Dec 12, 2005 @ 5:37 PM |
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lobo65
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I'm pretty much the same as Spongebob. I'm shy until I get to know a person--especially if I'm attracted to her.
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| Dec 12, 2005 @ 5:44 PM |
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lj450
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The shy ones are the ones who were whores before you met them and now they are.......shy
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| Dec 12, 2005 @ 6:35 PM |
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Princess1203
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Shyness is sexy in a man, especially if he's nice looking.
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| Dec 12, 2005 @ 9:33 PM |
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JSP51N
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I am shy. I have a hard time to talk to a lady at frist. I my tip my hat and see what happens. It is showing that you are a nice person and freindly. In a nice way. Or ash to dance and go from there.
Johnny
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| Dec 12, 2005 @ 9:49 PM |
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cestlavie515
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I think if you truly have some sort of real emotions for a person, you may feel that it is a little difficult to articulate your feelings. However, if you truly like this person, you need to let her know. And you don't always have to express yourself in words. Show her how you really feel. Like one of those goofy rose emoticons the big Yhoo uses.  Be creative, but by all means tell her what you really feel... Best of luck
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| Dec 12, 2005 @ 9:59 PM |
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wandaful123
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I'd be a bit leary actually and be sure to look at the source or individual its coming from. Is it just a ploy? A game? Some men are very adept at using and abusing the internet to smooth talk women. Sometimes they know only too well that to make themselves appear vulnerable will make them even more attractive to others. I guess there is always the slightest possibility he could be sincere as well?.... 
"Things that make you go hmmmm..."
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| Dec 12, 2005 @ 10:02 PM |
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spongebob777
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Some men are very adept at using and abusing the internet to smooth talk women.
Why do I picture that Van Der Sloot kid in Aruba when I read that?
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| Dec 12, 2005 @ 10:36 PM |
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wandaful123
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Thats some pretty scary s*** sponge! Although to tell the truth I didn't mean to imply anything quite that evil...
[Edited on 12/12/2005 10:37 PM]
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| Dec 13, 2005 @ 8:11 AM |
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maruli
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I really like shy men. Their shyness keeps some of them from getting into the routine of habitually being a womanizer with lots of uncommitted affairs in his past.
With a shy men, I have the hope of him having a decent past without such affairs
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| Dec 13, 2005 @ 8:34 AM |
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MotownManiax
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That's a different take than I thought about, marilu. Yes, come to think of it, I haven't known "any" shy people that are habitual cheaters or pursuers. I'm sure there are, but I've personally not seen it. Their relationship life doesn't seem to be in the same constant turmoil other, more demonstratively extroverted daters find themselves in.
[Edited on 12/13/2005 8:35 AM]
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| Dec 13, 2005 @ 8:44 AM |
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wandaful123
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I haven't known "any" shy people that are habitual cheaters or pursuers.
This is very true, but alas we must watch for those who fiegn shyness.... and there are definitely those types out there as well.
[Edited on 12/13/2005 8:45 AM]
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| Dec 13, 2005 @ 9:06 AM |
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MotownManiax
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Yep, Wanda. Some people can be real slicksters...lol. 
Maybe there's a way we could find out if they had any acting lessons??...hee hee
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| Dec 13, 2005 @ 9:13 AM |
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wandaful123
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Just gotta keep your eyes open for the "cheeseless crackers" They seem to pop up in these forums often. 
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