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burnslikethesun
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whats there to hide? ya all bunch of freaks,
and thats what keeps us coming back for more
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 2:23 AM |
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grumblebear
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I'm another of the people who is an example of, "What not to do"
I've been online since 95', lol, my last date was in 92'....
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 2:55 AM |
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beckyiv42000
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best TIP i can offer... BE HONEST in your profile and your postings because EVERYTHING can come back to bite ya in the butt!!! 
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 4:24 AM |
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luvmycats
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Mod:
not sure if this is appicalble to this comment, but just to put some continuing rumors to rest, lj450 only has one profile here. (and i happen to think that's more than enough to keep everyone on their toes )
Princess:
well i guess that throws the idea of Di, myself and LJ all being the same person out the window doesnt it!!
Di:
Princess...no one can understand the bond we three share. It goes beyond mere profiles.
Princess:
they dont need to know the truth....
Becky:
best TIP i can offer... BE HONEST in your profile and your postings because EVERYTHING can come back to bite ya in the butt!!!
How right you are!
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 4:43 AM |
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Palomino
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Got it, Luvs! 
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 9:54 AM |
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lj450
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not sure if this is appicalble to this comment, but just to put some continuing rumors to rest, lj450 only has one profile here
Thank you for clearing that up Mr Mod.
Hows that butt feeling Luvs?
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 10:06 AM |
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definitelydi
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^^^
I can't say I've ever felt so impassioned about anything in the "online" world to give a crap about what other people do. When one places so much importance on forum tension, blog wars or any other such drivel, I think it best to move along to the real world for awhile.
My two cents. 
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 10:20 AM |
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dooney123
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Have an interesting, honest profile that tells something unique abut you, but isn't a book.
Have at least a couple pics on your profile. (Also, I never meet anyone in person who doesn't send at least one pic first.)
Participate in the forums and write blogs, so people can get to know your personality. Also, that will make more people notice you.
Talk on the phone before meeting someone in person.
Always meet in a public place the first couple of times. (Drive your own car; don't ride with them.)
Men- don't ask women about sex or talk about sex before you've even met them (unless that's all you're interested in).
Don't go months of talking to someone on e-mail and phone without meeting them in person.
Don't get your hopes up too much before you've met someone. Try to be realistic; these are human beings with faults as well as good quaities.
Treat the person as you would want to be treated or as they want to be treated if you know what that is.
As several here have said already, be honest.
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 11:19 AM |
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lj450
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Men- don't ask women about sex or talk about sex before you've even met them (unless that's all you're interested in).
So would it be fair to say that if a woman talks about her kids, then that is ALL she is interested in also?
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 11:20 AM |
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drs297
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means she isn't able to carry on a normal conversation
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 11:27 AM |
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luvmycats
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Hows that butt feeling Luvs?
Still a bit tender, but healing up nicely, thank you.
When one places so much importance on forum tension, blog wars or any other such drivel, I think it best to move along to the real world for awhile.
I am woman enough to admit when I screw up and also have enough manners to apologize when I upset someone. Too bad it was wasted. 
I'm done now.
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 11:29 AM |
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Loreli
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admit when I screw up and also have enough manners to apologize
Another effective quality here, and real life
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 11:30 AM |
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lj450
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Still a bit tender, but healing up nicely, thank you.
Its all good.....no hard feelings here.
Well......not the bad kind anyway.
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 11:33 AM |
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your_princess
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Men- don't ask women about sex or talk about sex before you've even met them (unless that's all you're interested in). i guess we all blew that by posting in the sex forums huh! I think sex is very important to talk about...it may just be playful flirting or general conversation. It is good to ignite fire once in awhile. I would rather find out his sexual interests are too extreme or laxed before i meet him!! As sex can be a big part of a relationship for many people!
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 11:35 AM |
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torontowild
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I agree... I like to talk to different women about sex... you learn more and more......
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 11:35 AM |
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Loreli
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Good point, YP.
It just would be rude in the first email! Then you go from there.
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 11:37 AM |
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lj450
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It just would be rude in the first email!
Perhaps from a womans standpoint.
I know the "Wanna f*ck?" emails are the only ones I answer.
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 11:41 AM |
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your_princess
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Is that why you answered mine LJ?
I agree Loreli...but i generally talk to people in the forums on here anyways so that ice is already broken. But yes initial sexual discussion is a turn off if you dont know the person yet!
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 11:43 AM |
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lj450
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Princess already knew what a nasty little pervert I was from reading all my forum posts. Thats why she felt comfortable approaching me with her offers of strange sex acts.
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 11:55 AM |
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Loreli
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My reasoning goes more to people that don't post, or are new, and you get that mail. I love the ones that say "my wife and I wonder..." 
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