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your_princess
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Thats why she felt comfortable approaching me with her offers of strange sex acts. who knew you liked to take it up the pooper!! and are a very submissive little bitach!  
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 3:20 PM |
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torontowild
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 4:49 PM |
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lj450
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Well, who could resist......I mean you are quite a man.
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| Sep 11, 2007 @ 5:32 PM |
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your_princess
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you like my man boobies and lush chest hair!! 
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| Sep 15, 2007 @ 1:05 AM |
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MursPlace
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In My Opinion. (I think it goes IMO)
Don't start anything close to an "Online Life"  (Think that was said)
Say as much as possible about yourself that fits in the 1900 Character limitation and don't worry about writing a book.
If someone tells you they don't want to read a book about you they wont be able to handle a 4 hour evening of conversation with you. 
Post blogs that are positive and not about your freak'n Ex or Ex's. 
Get on track.  Don't mess around.
Make it a Yes or No and meet in a VERY PUBLIC place. I do that for my protection, never know what the other has in mind and little old me has to be safe.  Seriously if you are scared or new to meeting a complete stranger be sure to bring a friend, dog, taser, gun or a bouncer from the local strip joint.
I think I ask at least one gal out every month from this site and over the past few years it's been a very sad turn out. (Wonder if that has anything to do with my age). But there's always "Sugar Daddy . Com" for that last minute dinner date.
Exchange of numbers is good. Call, talk get out to dinner and delete the mail, number and all memories if it all goes bad. (If you don't know how to protect yourself from a bad caller call your phone company and ask them.)
Remember, Online isn't a life it's just one big bar that allows you to come in with your own bottle.
Even at the Library, Market, Sports Bar or the corner Wal Mart you can meet some strange people. But then again, maybe you'll meet a MD'er that didn't hook up online.
Try the old fashioned approach if you can't get involved online safely. Try Talking In Person!
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 10:59 AM |
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burnslikethesun
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be honest with yourself.
and others
weather online or real life, a lie is a lie, and can hurt just the same
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 9:34 PM |
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Loreli
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Have fun with many, but take true concentrated effort to mail or phone or in person..
the sooner the better!
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| Sep 16, 2007 @ 9:44 PM |
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grumblebear
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after 10 years online, and reading all the empirical data, I find that online is no life... the successes are few and far between, we are a society based on the shallow end of the pool....
enjoy the parts you enjoy, but never pin any hope to the net... it is just a waste of time... but some of us are only here to kill time....
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| Sep 18, 2007 @ 9:32 AM |
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burnslikethesun
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you gotta to keep em seprated !! HAY HAY!!! 
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| Sep 21, 2007 @ 6:06 AM |
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Sunbabie
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MURS WROTE: If someone tells you they don't want to read a book about you they wont be able to handle a 4 hour evening of conversation with you
Great advice Murs
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| Sep 21, 2007 @ 7:34 AM |
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1stsignofspring
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Men- don't ask women about sex or talk about sex before you've even met them (unless that's all you're interested in).
Don't go months of talking to someone on e-mail and phone without meeting them in person.
Sun wrote the above.....I so agree with this!
Don't ask someone to see you exclusively and noone else if you cannot even plan an in person meet with them.....
I believe actions speaks much louder than words......and there comes a time when peoples feelings are involved that you have to come off of the internet world and into reality.......otherwise it is merely a fantasy world and someone is bound to get hurt sooner or later.. JMHO
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| Sep 21, 2007 @ 10:54 AM |
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luvmycats
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Don't ask someone to see you exclusively and noone else if you cannot even plan an in person meet with them.....
That is simply not fair to the person wanting to meet in person and see if there truly is a connection.
People that do this, are probably talking to so many people they are afraid to meet any, for fear of getting them mixed up! It is very SELFISH, no matter there so called good reasons. Makes me wonder what it is they are hiding. 
I believe actions speaks much louder than words......and there comes a time when peoples feelings are involved that you have to come off of the internet world and into reality.......otherwise it is merely a fantasy world and someone is bound to get hurt sooner or later.. JMHO
No truer words have been "spoken"!
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| Sep 21, 2007 @ 12:37 PM |
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Sunbabie
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^^^^ To both ladies and their words of wisdom .....
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| Sep 21, 2007 @ 1:01 PM |
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Angel178
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Don't go months of talking to someone on e-mail and phone without meeting them in person.
I agree with all of you.
But, it could be months before you get to meet. What if there is a large distance involved and both people have complicated lives? Then I think that it ok if you don't meet right away. 
I think that there are cercomstances to each connection....jmo 
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| Sep 21, 2007 @ 1:10 PM |
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GibsonGirl93
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What if you just cant stand it and you HAVE to meet!! haha....That's whats going on with me and Blu right now!
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| Sep 21, 2007 @ 1:18 PM |
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Angel178
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My post is after this....
See what happens when I try to think seriously!!!
[Edited on 9/21/2007 1:22 PM]
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| Sep 21, 2007 @ 1:21 PM |
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Angel178
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Well, seeing that you are single, and don't have the complication of a babysitter, etc....go for it!!!!
The who children thing is hard enough when one person has them, but if both involved have children living in their home.....a solution is somewhere, just takes time to find....
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| Sep 21, 2007 @ 1:27 PM |
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GibsonGirl93
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I have the same problem when it comes to thinking seriously!!!
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| Sep 21, 2007 @ 1:29 PM |
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Loreli
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When it's possible to plan 2 "family vacations" someplace affordable for both parties, that could work.
But just in case it doesn't 'work' for the adults involved, keeping things separate (hotel) might be a good idea. It also wouldn't throw kids into too much too fast.
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| Sep 21, 2007 @ 1:32 PM |
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Angel178
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That is a great idea. Children's emotional comfort level is top priority.
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