| Sep 30, 2007 @ 11:18 AM |
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Blue000
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Being single is good for some things...But not for most..
I prefer to be a couple. but having said that would rather have a lot of friends. than settle for something that could be a maybe. 
Your thoughts please...    
If you have any personal question.s
pvt please 
kels x
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| Sep 30, 2007 @ 12:39 PM |
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Luisa909
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Single could be a choice or a condition
In both cases it's not so easy for many reasons
For example when we wish to share happiness or troubles with someone special not he usual dear friends, relatives, collegues...
I'm sure that human beings are made to live in couple and not alone. 
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| Sep 30, 2007 @ 12:53 PM |
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Laidback742
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Not always easy .... but sometimes the best thing for someone at the time .... and sometimes its is easier to be alone if you've been in too many relationships that haven't worked.
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| Sep 30, 2007 @ 12:55 PM |
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Luisa909
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that's true ! 
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| Sep 30, 2007 @ 3:16 PM |
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blueyes101
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I'm personally sick of being single.....
I'm to the point now, I can do whatever i want when ever I want, and find myself doing nothing ( well, not as much as I wanted ), because usually anything I want to do is not as fun by myself.
I have friends, all are married, I do stuff with them and their kids......
I had some friends stay with me over the summer, they have been gone a few weeks, I miss them terribly.....
Usually it is the smallest things that stand out.......
Like laughing at something either on here, or on TV, and you turn to share the laugh .................and no one is there.......you just kinda stop the laugh half way through, and suddenly it is not as funny if you can't share it with someone..
Sometimes it is just wanting to ask someone what they would like for dinner. just so you don't have to choose again....
Having a conversation while you eat......
Or the worst one, is procrastinating on here instead of doing what you should be doing.
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| Sep 30, 2007 @ 3:56 PM |
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GibsonGirl93
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At the end of the day...I just want someone to come home to. Someone that will tell me that everything is going to be okay....my best friend.
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| Sep 30, 2007 @ 6:41 PM |
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ToucherinSparks
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Some days I love being single, I do what I want when I want. Other days, I'd just like to have someone here to talk to and maybe get a little cuddle time in with. It varies with my mood at the time.
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| Sep 30, 2007 @ 10:15 PM |
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HopesNDreams56
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  Being single ,like living alone and lonely,is the Pitts!!!!Single life is not for everyone,
nomatter how hard you try and find that special someone,it seems like forever in some cases.Others have a real Nack,when it comes to love
I t seems to come easy to them.
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| Sep 30, 2007 @ 11:05 PM |
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signme
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I was single for a long time. Then met a guy here and had a SO for about 10 months. It was great having someone to talk to when I felt down and know someone actually cared. Of course that's over now and I miss the phone calls, the movie dates, going out to try new palces to eat or just cuddling at home and watching tv or a movie. I can make a life by myself, I have already proved that. I have a job I've had for 30 years, I have my own house, my own car, I do have friends that I do things with but mostly it's with them and their families. I don't know, I guess I'm ok being single again right now--my job is extremely stressful this year and the SO was not really showing much support. But I really need someone to cuddle with, hug and kiss, and maybe even lie in bed with platonically. And of course if that leads to other stuff, well hmmmmmmmm 
And that's all I have to say.
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| Oct 1, 2007 @ 6:19 AM |
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1stsignofspring
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Being single isn't always bad, nor is it always good......it just depends on where you are in your life.
We make choices to be single or not........and some of us may not have a choice...but.........I try to enjoy my life where I am....and right now it is in my singleness. Would I prefer to have a partner in life......of course, but not at the expense of being unhappy 
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| Oct 1, 2007 @ 10:32 PM |
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luneib
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I like my independence, but...I prefer being with someone, I need cuddle time, I love to cuddle. Can't really do that by myself lol.
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| Oct 1, 2007 @ 10:40 PM |
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blueyes101
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We know, we know.......all to well we know........... 
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| Oct 2, 2007 @ 8:10 AM |
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twotall911
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I need cuddle time
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| Oct 2, 2007 @ 10:33 AM |
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1stsignofspring
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| Oct 2, 2007 @ 11:19 AM |
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GibsonGirl93
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1stsign...that's a great pic...!
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| Oct 2, 2007 @ 4:19 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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Thanks GG.....I love my baby.......16 yr old baby.... 
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| Oct 2, 2007 @ 5:25 PM |
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Loreli
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A great couple will have bonding time, together time, and their separate time, all while trusting their partner.
Once a relationship is established and real, the apart time could be a workday or a workweek, and the love felt in one's heart will bring them back home, to quality together time!
Having other family, good friends, church, social activities can backfill in the interim!
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| Oct 2, 2007 @ 5:37 PM |
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HopesNDreams56
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 No!!! being single is not all its cut out to be,in a lot of cases.When
you have been usesd to having someone there for you.Sometimes being single is very painful, and you tend to withdraw.
Some folks will do just about anything,to get that added attention!!!,even if it is not right and it soils your reputation.
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| Oct 2, 2007 @ 5:57 PM |
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1stsignofspring
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| Oct 2, 2007 @ 6:08 PM |
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burnslikethesun
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I love my life. I wouldnt change it for the world. i would enhance it with a specail best friend. yet Gods great and each day he made, he made for you to shine in your world.
not looking for someone to complete my day with.. Just someone to share it.
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