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Oct 3, 2007 @ 10:44 PM Why do young guys want older women?    
painter007


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I have been told they want our womanly experience...now what the heck does that mean? I have tons of experience but I dont know why a younger guy would want it. sheesh....
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 11:09 PM Why do young guys want older women?    
ISSUESWOPTIONS


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Oct 3, 2007 @ 11:14 PM Why do young guys want older women?    
bunnybiz


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Painter, I have been trying to figure that out too?

I agree with CW it's because were hot

I also heard because we are more stable emotionally
than some of younger counterparts .. we don't play games
with their heads... we know what we want.. and so
forth
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Oct 3, 2007 @ 11:28 PM Why do young guys want older women?    
Classy_Blonde


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I don't get it either. I should think we ALL like to see ourselves as good in bed. God knows I've had enough men in my day to last a few lifetimes, but come on! The younger women are probably just as good in the sack, and they have bodies to go with it.

The last man I was with was 13 years younger, and I almost begged him NOT to pursue me. He said he still wanted to meet me. Go figure. What for? I wasn't about to let him see me in direct lighting. I scare myself, for goodness sake.

The guy wasn't much of a conversationalist, so he certainly didn't want me for my intellect.

I wish more men would answer this question, because I would really like to know.





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Oct 3, 2007 @ 11:42 PM Why do young guys want older women?    
BeachCrete


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Well let me explain ladies...there is just somthing about an older woman that makes a younger guy intrigued..maybe its that she knows what she wants in bed..maybe its because he feels like younger women are playing games with his head..maybe it because they are more emotionally stable..maybe its because he like to be submissive and let her take control...I cant speak for others...but I have always been attracted to older women since I was a teenager ....I have been out with younger women..but if I had my "druthers"..I take the older women anytime

[Edited on 10/3/2007 11:56 PM]
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Oct 4, 2007 @ 1:01 AM Why do young guys want older women?    
painter007


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Ok got it now tell me do younger women want older men for his manly experience?
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Oct 4, 2007 @ 1:08 AM Why do young guys want older women?    
BeachCrete


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Nah....just his money
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Oct 4, 2007 @ 1:43 AM Why do young guys want older women?    
Harleyhugs


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Other than these beauties...
It's because we are Freaking HOT!!!!
and
For the social security checks?
and
Its like a good whiskey,, gets better over time
....I would say it is because they are just so damn sexy.... and know want they want.... and how they want it....and, they're not high maintenance because they are, for the most part, settled and independent and not as reliant on partner as a younger female may be. Of course this does not cover all scenarios but on the whole this is a fair assessment of the male species view on this matter.

Crete had it right.
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Oct 4, 2007 @ 2:51 AM Why do young guys want older women?    
sweet5red


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Hmm decisions decisions.. ( looking above me) OH my.. quick turn the air up.. Sweet N Louisiana

( funny that elvis is on my cd player at this moment singing hunka hunka burning love ) 4 real
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Oct 4, 2007 @ 10:29 AM Why do young guys want older women?    
Classy_Blonde


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Hi Sweet!

Thank you so much, guys! It's nice to kid around on here, but every once in a while, I really need some seriousness, and you were both very honest and forthright. What you say, I can accept.

I do have another question though (so what else is new? )

With many of us more mature women, our bodies have started to go South. There are ripples, puckers, stretch marks, saggy breasts, surgery scars, etc. I have a couple of those things going on with my body (Thank God, not all).

How do you men get beyond all of that, when you are making love? Doesn't it turn you off? I am very embarassed to have a man see me with extra pounds. In fact, maybe that is one reason I have not pursued an intimate relationship. In times past, I always had a good body, and I never ever was self-conscious about it. Now, well....you get the picture.

Feedback please, men. Thanks.
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Oct 4, 2007 @ 10:32 AM Why do young guys want older women?    
BeachCrete


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Well..Sometimes It is much more rewarding to drive a vintage classic car down the strip than it is to drive one right off the showroom floor!
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Oct 4, 2007 @ 1:16 PM Why do young guys want older women?    
candylily


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I know what you mean, Classy. I have belly flab all of a sudden for the first time in my life. I don't want anyone to see me naked. Most of my life I've had a nice body that even some women called "perfect". When guys saw me nude, they said I looked better than most Playboy centerfolds and they really meant it. Even when I gained a little weight, guys told me that I looked better naked than I did clothed because I looked "luscious" or "voluptious" etc, unclothed. I can't stand to look at myself now. I sure don't want anyone else seeing me. If anyone does again, I would rather it be an older man who is as imperfect as me or preferably more so. rather than the younger good-looking guys who come after me. It evidently doesn't bother older men that they usually look old and ridiculous next to a young woman. Sometimes I would love to have the vanity and cockiness of a man. And those commercials for older women that say how confident and secure older women are make me laugh. Older women who are married to men who love them may be that secure, but many of us who are single or in bad relationships only wish we were that self-assured.
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Oct 4, 2007 @ 1:45 PM Why do young guys want older women?    
cookies1234


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I try not to overthink it...As long as I am not old enough to be their mama..

That freaks me out...

Otherwise it's all good
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Oct 4, 2007 @ 1:51 PM Why do young guys want older women?    
sweet5red


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OLDER WOMEN
( Ronnie McDowell
(CHORUS)
Older women, are beautiful lovers
Older women, they understand
* * *
I've been around some, and I have discovered
That older women know just how to please a man.

(Verse)
Everybody seems to love those younger women
From eighteen on up to twenty-five
Well I love 'em too, but I'm tellin' you
Learnin' how to really love, takes a little time.

(CHORUS)

(Verse)
So baby don't you worry about growin' older
Those young girls ain't got nothin' on you
'Cause it takes some livin', to get good at givin'
And givin' love is just where you could teach them a thing or two.

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Oct 4, 2007 @ 10:19 PM Why do young guys want older women?    
painter007


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Canylily If you arent comfortable with your weight and dont want to get naked. Join a gym.....go on a diet......just cause we are getting older doesnt mean we have to gain weight...And I dont want to read about how Im slim, I work at it....and its not all about weight..Its personality....humor.....just the fact of being a woman.....I am confident...and Im sorry your not.
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Oct 4, 2007 @ 11:27 PM Why do young guys want older women?    
katydid438


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We know all the tricks! been there and done that! Now,,let's get down to some serious living
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Oct 5, 2007 @ 1:54 AM Why do young guys want older women?    
Classy_Blonde


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At 50, I still looked fairly decent, but when menopause set in, OMG!

I do hear you though Painter. I do need to get off of my butt and exercise more. You still swim, right? I know it is some of the best exercise you can get.

When I finally do get serious about someone, I want to look my best.
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Oct 5, 2007 @ 2:41 AM Why do young guys want older women?    
Say_Yes


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Well, if you want to learn how to do something right, then you go to someone with experience and learn from them. If a young man wants to learn to be a better lover, then very often he could benefit from spending some time with an older woman.

Then again, the same holds true for younger women.

Oh and to agree with several of the above ladies, yes indeed, you are HOT.


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Oct 5, 2007 @ 2:46 AM Why do young guys want older women?    
candylily


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Painter, I've worked out all my life. I don't lose a pound that way. My body is used to all kinds of exercise. I mow 2 acres with a push mower which would be quite a workout for most people. In fact, I don't think I've actually gained any weight, but I have gotten a bigger belly.

From Epigee Women's Health
During menopause, you will begin to put weight on around your abdomen, instead of around your hips, thighs, and rear..... Many women are quite shocked and frustrated when they begin to notice those extra pounds graciously provided by menopause. You may be eating and exercising exactly the same as you always were but still can't seem to maintain your weight. As you enter the early stages of menopause, maintaining weight becomes more and more difficult, and losing weight becomes almost impossible. This is because of the fluctuation in your hormones.

Your body's hormones have a direct impact on your appetite, metabolism, and fat storage. This is why it is so difficult to control your weight during menopause no matter what you do, fluctuating estrogen, testosterone, and androgen levels will fight you all the way..... It may be difficult, but it is important to learn to accept weight gain and menopause as something natural and even good. A little extra weight can help to lesson other symptoms associated with menopause, like anxiety and hot flashes. During menopause, weight gain is regulated by your body, and helps prepare you against osteoporosis and other illnesses.
Of course there are lots of online ads trying to sell us pills that will take care of it. I'm sure they work as well as diet pills work for everyone else


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Oct 5, 2007 @ 6:48 AM Why do young guys want older women?    
katydid438


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Well from all the talk about menopause and weight gain I guess there are really only two reasons why a younger man would want an older woman:
1. She thinks she's so fat and ugly that she will welcome any sexual attention.
2. She's confident and experienced in life, not just in the bedroom. It would be an honour to be with her,,,if only for the short time she gives me.
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