| Nov 25, 2007 @ 11:01 AM |
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graywolf
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How do you tell if you have chemistry with someone who you do not know well and maybe even on the first or second date.
Found this link and it gives a couple that I might not have thought of and is definitly food for thought.
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 11:34 AM |
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signme
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Good article Gray. I've always been one to give someone more than one chance. I have several friends that started out by not liking the person at all and ended up by faling in love and getting married! Thank goodness that person was persistent!
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 11:45 AM |
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Gallows_Humor
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Subtle sign #7: You feel more “familiar” with your date than “lusty”
Sure, most people think it’s a good sign when they want to jump over the table and rip their date’s clothes off. But let’s be honest—there are plenty of acquaintances you’ve wanted to do that to, and there was no deeper, underlying chemistry there. A stronger sign is that instead of feeling lust for your date, you’re overwhelmed by a feeling of familiarity—a sense of, “Gosh, I feel like I’ve known you before.” The chemistry at work, says Dr. Hendrix, “is due to the emotional center in your brain’s limbic system recognizing qualities in the person that resemble qualities about the caretakers we had during childhood.” For example, a man might recognize a feeling of being at ease and nurtured the way his mother made him feel. A woman might feel comfortable with the dry humor of her date, similar to the way her father interacted with her. “This intense familiarity triggers the release of dopamine, which can lead to that ‘Wow’ feeling,” explains Dr. Hendrix. Oh, and by this point, it’s also definitely OK to want to jump over the table and rip your date’s clothes off!
interesting point.. 
Oh, and by this point, it’s also definitely OK to want to jump over the table and rip your date’s clothes off!
see! ...see!.... 
seriously though...
Thank goodness that person was persistent!
when does "persistent" turn into stalking..annoying and just plain old "too much..."
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 11:55 AM |
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signme
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good point Gallows. I'm not sure but if it had turned into stalking I doubt the marriages would have lasted 20 years or more. Now if I could just find that annoying irritating person I could end up in love with! 
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 5:50 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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Now if I could just find that annoying irritating person I could end up in love with!
My ex husband was pretty annoying. You can have him if you want sign,
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 5:53 PM |
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Angel178
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Well Gray....I think that I will do all of those things on my first date with Pete.
Dosen't matter how well you know someone, you will always have the first date gitters....hopefully we will have the chemistry 
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 7:03 PM |
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painter007
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I definately have the chemistry thang going on.
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 7:05 PM |
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Angel178
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I'm so happy for you painter...I'm nervous, I hope I do 
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 7:19 PM |
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painter007
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you either do or you dont......and thank you...its really very cool.
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 7:20 PM |
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Angel178
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Well, we will find out soon!! 
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 7:30 PM |
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Heaveninawildflower
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Good luck Angel..for me it's that familiarity/comfortable thing. The love of my life and I were talking in code within minutes, everybody around us thought we were nuts. It was nearly a year, and many, many chess games before our first kiss though - for a number of reasons we'd considered each other 'inappropriate.' We did make up for lost time very quickly when we decided that conventional wisdom wasn't necessarily all that wise...different strokes and all that.
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 7:33 PM |
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Angel178
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I think we will have a lot of chemistry...i just need him to come here 
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 7:35 PM |
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painter007
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Is he visiting soon?
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 7:36 PM |
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Angel178
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A few weeks 
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 7:37 PM |
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painter007
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woooooooooohoooooooooooooooooooo
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 7:37 PM |
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Angel178
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I said
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 8:00 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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.... 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-8rY0Fyws20&feature=related
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 8:13 PM |
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ColdinWisconsin
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Howdy Gallows! 
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 8:19 PM |
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Angel178
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Great video...so true!
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| Nov 25, 2007 @ 8:33 PM |
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Gallows_Humor
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hi CW.... 
... it look like so much fun...
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